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 TheIrishOak
Joined: 2/6/2006
Msg: 326
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its between me being shy,working alot and not knowing where too meet women
 bluedew
Joined: 12/30/2005
Msg: 327
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 1:34:09 AM
Taking it slow, wasn't ready, nobody mailing me who clicks with me and likes doing what I enjoy doing. Havn't met my match yet, read and deleted so many times I gave up for a bit.
 Austin_W
Joined: 2/7/2006
Msg: 328
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 3:44:30 AM
The only thing keeping anyone single is themselves...and their own issues....

Sorry to tell you..but it's not...

...the way you brush your hair or your lack of it
...the car you drive
...the place you live
...or the hours you work

I read more of..."I haven't had a date in (^insert time)...

It seems the more I read of the forums the common thread seems to be...

Everyone is looking for that initial "WOW knock me off my feet meeting"
Hate to burst bubbles, but you're gonna go through alot of first, second..maybe third dates to get to the fourth and beyond...

the one thing that constantly gets me is...how after 1, 2, maybe 3 dates..if it isn't there for both people...One is labelled a "player"

Instead of labelling someone a player...you might want to consider where the connection was lost...

Ever wonder why alot of people seem to repeatedly date the same type of personality...then complain it's not working for them...just to see them date the same type of personality again? Yes..lets blame the other person!!!

Cheers.
 ShakinNotStirred
Joined: 4/11/2006
Msg: 329
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 4:59:41 AM
Because I haven't found that needle in the haystack yet. That rare combination of intelligence, beauty, charm, character, charisma, sensuality, and humility. And I'm only speaking of myself. The women on here have it all - in spades. It's me that is the problem.
 Akendoll
Joined: 10/15/2005
Msg: 330
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 5:15:24 AM
Depends on what time it is...I might be single I might not..lol
B

Oh and if your a real catch..I'm single ...if not I'm taken...hee hee
 Lady_Lilac
Joined: 3/21/2005
Msg: 331
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 5:28:03 AM
I think the number one thing that keeps me single would be ... I like being single...
 ~*Jojo*~
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 332
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 5:29:13 AM
The fact that Nobody wants me ...DOH!!!
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 333
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 8:45:44 AM
scheduling keeps me single. I share custody of my kids and dated someone who worked opposite shifts sometimes. We just never got to see each other.

That and having been married to an ass has left me a little wary...
 simpleman4u
Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 334
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 9:54:34 AM
Simple haven my heart ripped out and stepped on yet again.
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 335
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 10:12:52 AM
Getting banned for answering threads.
 pinklily
Joined: 9/24/2005
Msg: 336
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 10:19:07 AM
LOL wb Jet :)

I'm still single...because I havent' found anyone I care to settle into a relationship with yet :)
 JesterDP
Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 337
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 10:34:34 AM
Number one would be the Class Action all jurisdiction restraining order granted my ex..and the lack of daylight hours during the winter months, I am under house arrest and must be home when the street lights go on...and last but not least my respect for the profile restrictions people place on contact...
 alfino
Joined: 11/16/2005
Msg: 338
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 10:35:51 AM
The number one reason for me being is single, is simply I won't allow anyone to get that close to me yet!
I have met literally hundreds of amazing of people from this site, and alot of beautiful women.
Never gave any of them a chance. ( not like I had one anyways LMFAO!)
When my marraige fell apart, and I decieded that life is worth more than this. I left with nothing more than the work clothes I had on, and my tools for work!
Never have I felt so low, desolite and despuraged in all my years.
I remeber being in Highscool thinking where I would be at this age in my life. Daydreaming really. Having a nice house, a loving wife, a couple of little rugrats running around, being as sarcastic as I am lauging my head off!......NEVER did I think, this is what God had planned for me.

I am not financially secure enough yet to OFFER ANY women something more than just being a useless bum! (theme song for "I'm a loser baby, so why don't you kill me!" plays)

The ONLY thing that has kept me from any clinical depression, is these POF parties and getogethers!!!! I have met so many different people, from all walks of life and I truly can say I thank ALL of you for it. I am a better person, honestly, for knowing you!
Half of you have probably passed out from ANOTHER one of my boring a$$ed posts, so I apologize now! SORRY
Hope to see you all soon at another POF gathering!
Ciao, Alberto P.
 DentedKnight
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 339
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 11:08:43 AM
I'm single 'cause I had a marriage. Now I want the real deal. That "je ne sais quoi" that lasts a lifetime. Don't know where to look, or what on earth I'll do when I find it, but I'm not willing to settle for what I had last time thanks...lol. Been there, done that. Now I don't want the T-shirt...I want the cruise!
 ~Jenni-pooh~
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 340
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 11:09:44 AM
And the millionaire is back... How did that other thread work out for you?!?

I would say the number one reason that I'm single is that I'm scared of screwing it up before I even get out of the gates... I do have high expectations, so that's a part of it too. That's right, I'm a bit of a "fraidy cat"!!!

 coby41
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 341
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 11:14:04 AM
Now why am i single been hurt over 2 times which were both long realtionship 8yrs each and my heart was broken so i figure its hard to find or tell someone how i feel cause they either get scared or run so i choose to work and keep busy with what makes me happy...now for millionaire he wants to buy a date since he worth lots lol..to funny but had to get that in might get lucky in the country club if u have all that money...i should be nice so real reason cause i hate rejection...
 milgal67
Joined: 12/31/2005
Msg: 342
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 12:21:19 PM
no good man, plain and simple.

D
 daveyboy39
Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 343
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 3:58:50 PM
trust and honesty
 chickiebabe
Joined: 3/4/2006
Msg: 344
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 4:01:19 PM
argh ! I work wayyyyyyyyyyyyy too much

Mistress
 Carmellas2
Joined: 1/10/2006
Msg: 345
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/15/2006 5:49:01 PM
Millionaire doesn't that just suck when the mods ban political incorrectness on here.....LOL

Number one thing keeping me single............obviously Mr Right hasn't come along yet or asked me to be his #1..................so Millionaire why haven't you asked me yet????? .....LOL
 digirl66
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 346
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/16/2006 12:34:11 PM
Does this tell you anything?
 Darklord 13
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 347
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/25/2006 3:31:14 PM
Seems I speak my mind too much! I tell it how I see it, and many people get upset!! What I don't understand is why people say they like honesty and straight forwardness, then when they get it right up front, they get hyper? Oh well, I am me, and don't intend to change for nothing and nobody!! So, when I die, I plan on being buried with all my stuff!

I haven't come across anyone that can handle the way I think, LOL, thier loss!! Guess i'm just too much man!!!

later
 Qt30
Joined: 3/30/2006
Msg: 348
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/25/2006 3:42:08 PM
Trust. Been cheated on 1 too many times. Sometimes I'm probably too honest but at this point in my life there's no time for BS and "The Dating Game" I have high expectations and I won't settle. I don't think ANYONE should settle. Set your standards high and live strongly by them.
 ooobaby1
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 349
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/25/2006 4:48:45 PM
What is / had been keeping me single was 'choice'. I hadn't been single since I could remember and after my last relationship 3 years ago, I chose to be single because I needed it so that I could grow within my own self. And It was the best decision I ever made.
 MikeTheSpike35
Joined: 4/9/2006
Msg: 350
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 4/25/2006 5:12:25 PM
my looks,shyness, can't trust womens feelings,getting turned down most times,adfraid of getting hurt, too short and fat and bald. blind, deaf. and bad luck.
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