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 thegodslookdown

Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 601
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 8/28/2008 3:33:19 PM
northyork bboy, geekiness turns me on. Sadly, my age wouldn't turn *you* on.
 Optimistic for 2008

Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 602
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 8/29/2008 10:17:00 AM
I've got a better idea...if your a female reading this post... you tell me why I'm still single...I can't figure it out...
 Kind Yet Strong

Joined: 6/15/2008
Msg: 603
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 8/29/2008 3:43:13 PM
Hmmm well I'm keeping me single because I no longer want to "settle"...there is no shortage of guys who want to date me but they are not right for me for one reason or another. And the universe is keeping me single by not putting the one for me on my path yet. But that's okay...I can be patient LOL.
 kyle_sylvester

Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 604
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/8/2008 8:40:17 AM
cause im looking for someone who doesnt drink and doesnt smoke and has a good personality and looks good = impossible
 ~AmorĂ©~

Joined: 1/17/2006
Msg: 605
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/8/2008 9:50:57 AM
I think I am currently single because of timing. The last man I met I almost fell in love with, but he was in a place where he had so many personal issues to face, he could not handle someone who had no issues - they constantly weighed him down. And I think he was insecure about a woman who was financially and personally successful and he felt he had nothing to offer or contribute, even though what I was looking for him to contribute had nothing to do with income. It's hard to find someone who is in the same place as you - in terms of a relationship, financially, personally, etc and has the same long-term goals. I'll keep putting myself out there because "he" is somewhere, hopefully looking for me too :)
 Greeneyesblonde

Joined: 11/12/2006
Msg: 606
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/8/2008 11:58:56 AM
I am currently single.. because I can't find a guy who WANTS to have a relationship...all they seem to want is one thing...and ONE thing only....

plus one does have to have chemistry also..


GEB
 smoothdevil

Joined: 6/24/2007
Msg: 607
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/8/2008 12:05:12 PM
has "single" become a dirty word ??? ... lol ... is it some sort of affliction ??? think of being single in those terms and you are afflicted ....
 loi2007

Joined: 9/16/2007
Msg: 608
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/8/2008 4:28:20 PM
I am definitely not shy however I tend to gravitate towards either "bad boys" or "control freaks" neither of which has proven to be anybody I will be with forever. I think at this point in my life I am destined to just date because always seems this is when I am happiest. Oh well there could be worse things like wondering what my bad boy was up to or having the control freak question my every move.
 Sultan4u

Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 609
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/8/2008 5:51:59 PM
the number one thing keeping me single is meeting meeting women that dye their hair and think they are good in bed.
 skylynxx

Joined: 2/18/2008
Msg: 610
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/8/2008 8:26:02 PM
The number one thing keeping me single is peace,quiet & the freedom. Most of my friends have kids. They say it changes your life completely.
 bedroomblue63

Joined: 8/18/2008
Msg: 611
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/8/2008 8:55:05 PM
As per greeneyesblond:

I am currently single.. because I can't find a guy who WANTS to have a relationship...all they seem to want is one thing...and ONE thing only....

All I can say is 'ditto'
 Genuinefriend1234

Joined: 4/5/2008
Msg: 612
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/15/2008 8:03:21 PM
I can't find one decent guy to even date. There isn't a single guy on the planet really looking for a long term relationship. All they want is one night stands because they don't want to be with the same woman twice. She may expect to seem him twice.
 hammerandnails

Joined: 6/28/2008
Msg: 613
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/16/2008 3:21:45 AM
the lack of truthful women does it for me,but, iam getting better at reading inbetween the lines, i never would of thought dating was soooo tough, but, then again i never thought id be looking to date at 43
 Greanize

Joined: 7/30/2005
Msg: 614
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/16/2008 7:09:32 AM
It is funny how in such a few short months your reasonings change. I always felt that the number one thing keeping me single was not being able to meet someone on the same page as me...that was ready for something deeper. I kept chosing the wrong men..but I will be honest about that. I chose the wrong man because I chose the wrong man.
Now the number one reason for keeping me single: two reasons in one actually....my roommate and the career path we have taken together!
 HamiltonBodybuilder

Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 615
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/16/2008 8:50:26 AM
I`m still single because most of the bar girls are all the same and I wouldn`t trust them for a second. As far as any girls from the gym, on here or anywhere else, I just can`t find the right combination of personality, physical attraction and having somewhat decent morals.
 dwinottawa

Joined: 7/5/2008
Msg: 616
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/16/2008 9:07:52 AM
"But yet me being 52 I am being told I should date any lady who'd date me and I should not worry what she looks like ! LOL"

OMG, I agree with something you said firmbear LOL. I had a guy that I met tell me that same sort of thing, that at "our age" (he was a couple of years older than me) we should "settle" for what we can get. My answer - get real, I don't settle. At my age, I feel better than ever, I look better than ever, I'm slimmer than ever. Why the heck would I settle for someone just because they thought I should?

I haven't been single very long, and I haven't been dating long enough to wonder why I'm still single. It takes time to find someone, it doesn't happen overnight. I'm just getting myself out there, and having fun in the process. But since I like reading the forums and get involved, especially when I see something that catches my attention, I decided to post on this thread anyway.
 TheBigID

Joined: 8/7/2006
Msg: 617
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/19/2008 8:51:20 AM
Because the only things on my side is my winning charm, cutesy smile, lovable personality, brilliant sense of humor, canine-like loyalty, awe-inspiring intellect, and of course, my refreshing modesty. Curse you Lotto649 for not picking my numbers, and making me the ultimate bachelor!
 Song Sparrow

Joined: 8/28/2008
Msg: 618
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/19/2008 9:16:47 AM
A date.....LOL...
 parknfly99

Joined: 7/11/2007
Msg: 619
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/19/2008 4:15:03 PM
Off the top of my head? Women are too bossy. They think laying on the couch watching 6 hours of football on Sunday is 'lazy'. It's not being lazy, it's just 50x preferable to decorating or visiting your relatives. Live and let live, I say.
 livluvlagh

Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 620
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/21/2008 5:30:19 AM
I am still searching within myself............. to find a trust factor.......... I don't trust my own judgement??? crazy???
 oliverkadett

Joined: 12/1/2007
Msg: 621
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:11:10 AM
my extremely weird sense of humor and sarcasm
 ajaxwriter

Joined: 9/18/2008
Msg: 622
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/21/2008 7:11:15 PM
The one thing keeping me single is ... well, I've only been single a few months and I'm not really in much of a hurry to change my relationship status. I'm more interested in getting out and meeting other people than trying to find a significant other.

Chris
 Colleen1980

Joined: 3/31/2007
Msg: 623
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/27/2008 1:22:05 PM
I think its my looks holding me back
I don't really get much responces on here

I dunno what else it could be
 Cheeky_28

Joined: 7/16/2008
Msg: 624
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/27/2008 9:01:45 PM
LOL- it's my lack of time. Yeah- that'd do it :)
 jameswwefan

Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 625
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 9/30/2008 12:13:55 AM
I'm the depressed shy introvert afraid of everything...
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