| Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE?
Posted: 6/28/2008 6:11:13 PM | | yeah , I'm not with the whole relocating thing, nor would I allow anyone to move closer to me . I just dont feel that its meant to be if one has to move. I feel if its suppose to happen it will happen without picking up my life and moving away from everything I know.I truly believe in Fate and karma. Im only on here because I get bored :) and its fun ! | |
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| Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE?
Posted: 6/28/2008 10:24:05 PM | Im deffinately willing to relocate and I have done so once already. Back in 2004 i met a girl online and we both fell in love pretty quickly. She lived in Ottawa, Canada and i lived in Northern Ireland. We would talk constantly online, msn, skype etc and on the phone. This went on for some time and it was actually about 2 years later that i was able to go there on a work permit. The permit was only for a year though and i wasnt able to get it renewed so i had to come back home. Things had ended for us before that though and we talked about getting back together while i was back home and even did for a short while but it didnt work out. Theres obviously a lot more to the story but its on the personal side. ;)
Ive always believed you should put love first. | |
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| Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE?
Posted: 6/29/2008 2:49:34 AM | InYa, If I did not have a six y/o son conceived, born, and somewhat estranged in the process of one nasty divorce here, I'd have moved on long ago and to nearly anywhere else to be w/ someone worth my love and resources. That will change, hopefully, before too long.
Eight months ago, I met a woman via Pof who is poised to relocate nearly 600 miles to be w/ me and my son, and I'm still grateful for all that she brings our way ...and exclusively for me regarding what's 'made the world go 'round' before cosmic design was discovered.
W/ that shared, any woman who is as caring and careful as she is w/ the children of her soon-deployed-again-to-Iraq 30 y/o son ...by another woman who doesn't yet get it that the world doesn't revolve her, the former before the latter deserves a man who cares deeply for her, and happily I do. We will both be deeply concerned for her son, who learned too much for life during his his first deployment to Iraq, and for two little girls who need a much better raising than their 28 y/o mother alone seems willing and able to provide them.
I know that your post doesn't ask what could be considered the 'other side' of what really doesn't matter for the distance, even we lived in the same neighborhood, but I felt compelled to share my answer for a woman willing to leave her family-by-blood behind ...and also earmarked to head back to a bloodbath. Caring and careful are the two most important factors for any moves made for life. It sucks to discover that someone whom you thought did both ...truly doesn't. Even if that person lived next door, it would still be too far to go. | |
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| Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE?
Posted: 6/29/2008 3:09:33 AM | Wow it all depends on what we are doing in our lives... and responsibilities to others too.
All very well saying we would do anything to be with the right person...
I have many times... in the past... BUT for me as a single parent I know its taken a lot to be where I am now.. and to move/relocate... well it wouldnt be on a whim.. would need a pre-nuptual agreement if I was going to start all over... before giving up everything I have now... ha ha... yeah too right.
I don't purposefully look for people more than about 50 miles away... too far to pop round for the odd cup of coffee... have tried these things... have thought Oh yeah it will be magical and work from a distance... but no not for me...
Last winter I travel to see someone living 100 miles away... so a 200 mile round trip everyother weekend... that is too far... for me, my kids ... sorting out everything on a thurs, rushing about.. doing the washing... when it ended.. I really noticed how exhausted I was.
Plus if you have a lovers tiff... and are so far away! That aint good. | |
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| Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE?
Posted: 6/29/2008 3:21:44 AM | I have moved twice for the so called "Love Reason" and neither time did it work out so if I ever do it again I would have to really be ready for that kind of a move. It is not just the act of doing it but uprooting your entire life you have established and transplanting it to somewhere you might not even be familiar with.  | |
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