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mar814
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Joined: 11/16/2006
Msg: 104 | |
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| Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE?
Posted: 2/12/2007 4:35:19 PM | If, and that is a mighty big if, I met the right person I would consider it. I don't have boundaries and limits, just that I would want to be as sure as I possibly could. I realize that "true love" is more of something that you work at and create, not something that falls into your lap or you fall in love. I want to be "in love" with the person, but I would travel if the right one came along. I guess my question would be as well, would they be willing to pick up and move here? I am involved in my studies and working towards a Master's Degree, so the in-state tuition vs. out of state tuition would be a big factor.
I guess there are many variables. It would all start with meeting the right person. I have yet to do that. I won't settle for anything less than someone that really rocks my world. | |
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Sigi
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Joined: 5/26/2005
Msg: 107 | |
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| Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE?
Posted: 2/12/2007 9:03:54 PM | | I would like to think I would, if I were to find the right person far away. But, that's not as simple as that. I have my kids and my grandkids here, as well as the rest of my family. I could handle not being around most my family all the time, but not my kids and especially not my grandkids. They are a big part of my life, and I want to be a big part of their life as well. And, I couldn't do that from far away. I'm also a home owner for the first time in my life alone, and I'm really enjoying it, and like the area I live. So, far those reasons mostly, I don't believe I could relocate far away. So, I try to only date local guys so that I don't have to make a decision later that I might have a hard time dealing with. Long distance works for some, although it's not easy. But, no relationship is easy anyway. They take work. I say if both want it and are willing to give what it takes to make it work, then go for it. But, it's just not for me. | |
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| Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE?
Posted: 2/13/2007 5:50:11 PM | Been there done that... 1300 miles, Gave up friends, job, started over in a new place. After 3 years, She moved back to where we met. Dont know till you try. I tried, she decided on a different lifstyle... But now I know. I beleive, if it is in fact love...why wouldnt you?
but thats just my $.02 | |
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diamah
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Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 118 | |
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| Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE?
Posted: 3/26/2007 8:23:54 AM | | Yes I am willing to relocate for Love and will be in the next few months. I met a man on here that lives about a hr and 20 mins away, we have been doing the back and forth thing, and its just to much. His Job is there and it is a good one, as well as his older mother. So I am the one relocationg... I feel love knows no distance. | |
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| Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE?
Posted: 3/26/2007 8:32:01 AM | | i might if it was for the right person.but its hard when you have kids and your familly are close to you.i meant what i thought was amazeing man on here about 7 weeks ago,we had alot in common and really hit it off.we only live a hour apart,im in collingwood,hes in durham.his job is there and his kids who he has every other weekend and he has no familly there.as for me my familly are here and this is were my kids want to be.this man told me he loved me and that the distance was not a promblem for him at all.and that he would never hurt me.well on the weekend he ended it said the distance was to much for him.i have been in other relationships that the guy drove from here to toronto every day for work.so i guess is was just all lies,as hes on the site looking all time every chance he gets.he did really hurt me bad as i believed every word he said to me.guess we all have to learn the hard way.i will just be more carefull next time | |
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| Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE?
Posted: 3/26/2007 7:47:09 PM | I would for my soulmate. No stipulations but I do have kids that I can't just run out on or leave with dad.
At first I thought no way! But really now, considering leaving the US sounds like a great change - almost like starting life all over again and I love adventure. We'd have to be together long enough before that I was sure we get along well. | |
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