| Should I, or shouldn't I?
Posted: 11/1/2005 5:11:59 PM | | We've seen each other everyday this week! There is something so framiliar about him, I love looking at his smile! Slowly we learn more about each other. We haven't kissed, but I think about it. It is so sweet! Its like, when I think about him, I get this feeling....it feels like there is a vibration, in my solarplexus, its warm and it almost is so much that I giggle! I will remember though, not to make him so perfect in my mind. Wow. Thats all I have to say. I'll come back once and a while....see whats shaking of POF....but my days are predetermined! | |
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| Should I, or shouldn't I?
Posted: 11/2/2005 5:02:32 PM | | take your time and make it work you sound very happy so go for it but not so fast it gts ruined. | |
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| Should I, or shouldn't I?
Posted: 11/2/2005 5:20:04 PM | but my days are predetermined!
Easy shokirra- relax, take a deep breath, just remember you have the rest of your life to have a happy relationship. One can sign into a mistake in a second. Be cool and enjoy life. If love is in the air, you'll be a part of it! Good luck! | |
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| Should I, or shouldn't I?
Posted: 11/2/2005 5:51:55 PM | Although this one seems to have resolved itself, a few thoughts for you ladies...
1) A lot of guys would be flattered---myself included---and probably go out with you. You get a foot in the door, and you can see where it goes from there.
2) I hope it makes you realize about how tough it can be for guys to ask. Rejection is nobody's favorite emotion. I also hope it makes guys realize how tough it must be to wait to be asked.
3) If you want to be more subtle, why not arrange a little dinner party and invite him? That way, he knows you're including him in your world but taking off some pressure by letting him know that others will be there to carry some of the conversation etc.
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4) The last time a woman asked me out, I went out with her just once. The problem was, she had thought about it for a long long time and her feelings were already built up. I had just begun thinking about whether she would be good for me etc. but I already felt too much pressure.
So don't wait TOO long. The more you build up your feelings, the worse the rejection is. Keep it light; keep it cool. | |
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| Should I, or shouldn't I?
Posted: 11/3/2005 1:06:35 AM | | oooh a happy thread. Good to read ! hope it works well. Yes, remember to breathe... | |
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| Should I, or shouldn't I?
Posted: 11/3/2005 1:59:41 AM | | yes go for it. an invite for coffee or lunch and an exchange of #'s will be enough to put the ball in his court | |
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| Should I, or shouldn't I?
Posted: 11/3/2005 6:53:37 AM | Hey Shokirra!
AWESOME, hun!! Love hearing your descriptives and excitement and anticipation!! To heck with keeping a cool head...enjoy! I tell ya'...my hunny and I have been together for almost 2 years now, and I STILL feel this magic and excitement, because we keep it there! It does NOT always fade...so keep on, keeping on! And please keep us informed of what is happening!
Happy carpooling! | |
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| Should I, or shouldn't I?
Posted: 11/3/2005 7:09:21 AM | I think there was a powerful message in there for us guys....
Not to rush a lady... so she is allowed to feel the anticipation...
and all the other butterflies that are involved with it...
Shokirra sweetie.... go with it.... don't let anyone tell you how to love....
When you meet the right one all those feelings rush you for a lifetime....
Go with your instincts... give freely to recieve freely...
I read the other day....
"Humans are like one winged angels.... only when they unite.... do they truly fly...."
Fly away girl..... may your feet never touch the ground.... | |
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| Should I, or shouldn't I?
Posted: 11/12/2005 6:05:19 PM | | Thank you all for your support and excitement on my journey. The answer is yes, I should. In fact, you may never know the soul behind the man or woman your heart beats a little quicker for, unless you ask. It is possible, not always probable, but there may be this one opportunity that you shouldn't pass up. I am so happy now that I've met him! The time we spend together is amazing. We have an instant connection that is so strong! Taking it slow, we are, but the two of us know what each others role in our lives together is. Its unmistakable! A feeling I've never felt before has gripped me, and hopefully will never let go... I am so glad that I persued him, and he persued me. You never really know what might happen! Think positive, with your heart, and always with honesty. | |
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| Should I, or shouldn't I?WOW,GOOD FOR YOU ,GOOD LUCK
Posted: 11/15/2005 2:14:36 PM | | WELL I HAVE ONLY ASKED A GUY OUT ONCE AND TOOK ALOT OF NERVE,SO NOW I KNOW HOW THE POOR GUYS FEEL.LOL.IF YOU FEEL THIS WAY ABOUT HIM ,I SAY GO AHEAD AND ASK HIM OUT.IT IS HARD TO KNOW SOMETIMES WHAT THE OTHER PERSON IS FEELING IF YOUR UNSURE,BUT ITS WORTH A TRY,MAYBE HE IS SHY AS WELL.IF YOU DONT WANT TO HAVE ALOT OF PRESSURE ASK HIM FOR COFFEE FIRST AND SEE HOW IT GOES.IF ANYTHING,MAYBE YOU WILL END UP FRIENDS AT LEAST IF NOTHING ELSE.YOU GO GIRL'' | |
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| Should I, or shouldn't I? ok shokirra do this......
Posted: 12/4/2005 5:50:32 PM | | I was not sure either but spoke to a guy whom i think he has pretty good judgement as he said guys seem to like it when a girl asks them out.go for it,if it does not work out maybe you both can be friends at least.good luck.yur brave. | |
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