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 Romayne
Joined: 4/9/2009
Msg: 151
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I married a man 15 years younger for 30 years. I have since dated men up to 25 years younger and no way do i find men of my own age attractive. I did date one 9 years younger. He was a fussy eater, fell asleep on my settee from 11 in the even till four in the morning lol. I much prefer men of 45 to 55. I must get at least 5 offers a month from men in their twenties!!!!! It seems to be a new trend????? Not accepted one yet though.
 electric-gypsy
Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 152
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Posted: 4/15/2009 8:28:42 AM

Leave the younger guys for the younger girls. You've had your turn.


Anyone else smell sour grapes?
 Pagsy100
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 153
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Posted: 5/12/2009 4:32:26 PM
i think its a little odd to be honest
 FunkyMonkee
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 154
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Posted: 5/12/2009 4:44:58 PM
LOL I am with Bazooka Joe on this.

Dating fine but same rules would for guys dating much younger - perhaps vulnerable or unintelligent, women.

I know of one friend that's well balanced and likes much more mature women so ......

Plenty of takers in the Third World too.
 HenXX
Joined: 3/2/2009
Msg: 155
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Posted: 5/12/2009 7:25:35 PM
The only thing i want to do with younger men is to mother them jats
 kent_lee
Joined: 8/31/2006
Msg: 156
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Posted: 5/13/2009 12:40:23 AM
date a 50 year old woman .... or a 55 year old woman ..... i don't think so.

the days of the older woman fantasy have long since passed.

we wouldn't have anything in common .... i would rather date someone my own age, give or take a few years either way.
 Pud78
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 157
Older Women And Younger Men Dating.... What Do You Think?
Posted: 5/13/2009 1:59:54 AM
I have only dated one older woman to me and that was only by a couple of years. Age isn't important but outlook on life, experience of life, thirst of life and what they want from the future are and age differences can play a part in that. If though you want the same thinks then age is immaterial. I would probably look 5 years either side but wouldn't discount anyone if I thought there might be a connection based on D.O.B.
I had a crush on a lady from work who is 10 years older than me, we get on very well, flirt, sexy as can be and there was a mutual connection but it was never to be because of circumstances and had to settle for a snog on xmas party, she is married now and moved away.

Don't women peak sexually at 40 and men at 18? surely for the best sex in your life a young man has to try an sexy older lady and ladies vice versa with a young stud!!!

Dman just remembered I am 30..scrap that previous sentence.
 minnx
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 158
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Posted: 5/13/2009 2:16:21 AM

so long as he is fit and active, cares about his body and appearance, can keep up with me and we share plenty of interests then that is good for me!


That's it for me too! I'm 51, until four months ago I was seeing someone who was 39. When I was 48 I was seeing someone who was 32. When I was 46 I was with someone who was 43. I lived with someone 18 months younger than me for 20 years. Not interested in the really young though, 40 would probably be my limit now before the 'ick' factor kicked in.

I don't look for younger men, don't really care about age, I'd be perfectly happy with someone my age if I was attracted to him (and he was attracted to me). All depends on who you click with.
 ~Lucy~Lastick~
Joined: 11/1/2008
Msg: 159
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Posted: 5/13/2009 2:44:20 AM

I don't look for younger men, don't really care about age, I'd be perfectly happy with someone my age if I was attracted to him (and he was attracted to me). All depends on who you click with.



I agree with minnx.If the two fancy eachother and get on well etc then what does age matter.

Saying that i personally wouldnt date a man young enough to my son...for me age 25+ is ok.
 allwoman54
Joined: 1/16/2009
Msg: 160
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Posted: 5/13/2009 1:56:35 PM
Well I'm still having a lovely time...age is a frame of mind...and they seek me out, not the other way around...

Dating younger men is fine and dandy, its simply a date , but for something more worthwhile and meaningful a little more mature is the order of the day, and until that shows its face I am happy to date a person younger if the connection is a good one and I feel we would enjoy a date together, hardly marriage is it
 electric-gypsy
Joined: 10/23/2007
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Posted: 5/13/2009 2:06:48 PM
I prefer younger men... silver pubes and saggy chests don't flick my switch lol
 minnx
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 162
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Posted: 5/13/2009 2:42:02 PM

I prefer younger men... silver pubes and saggy chests don't flick my switch lol


Lol debzindahouse. Hope I can get rid of that image before I have another date with someone my age.
 FunkyMonkee
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 163
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Posted: 5/14/2009 11:36:34 AM
"Older women do like younger guys, i like older women also!

I've only ever dated older women actually, i'm 21 and all my girl friends have been between 25 - 40, there was on woman who was 48 but it didn't last long unfort ;)

Anyway what i'm trying to say is if you like older women, go for it, age is just a number at the end of the day!"



You are a geek though. You chase the "older" women becasue you can't attract anyone your own age. Fullfilling a fantasy.

And older woman would eat you for breakfast - literally lol.
 newfie. guy
Joined: 3/17/2009
Msg: 164
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Posted: 5/14/2009 1:56:14 PM
I think myself older woman are more buatiful smarter and know how to be a better
lover . with suport for her man and many joys ,i know i love and adore my older girlfriend ..
 Toby
Joined: 7/17/2006
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Posted: 5/14/2009 5:54:27 PM

I prefer younger men... silver pubes and saggy chests don't flick my switch lol


WOW you get silver pubes cant wait to get some of those :)
 drinkofcoolant
Joined: 10/2/2007
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Posted: 5/14/2009 6:41:27 PM
It can work, and it has for me in the past...
its got to depend on the people and the situation and the time...

saggy chest lol? depends on how active you are but no I dont have one of those...
I'm probably the wrong type of man if anyones looking for a saggy ches???

what a strange interest???


yet each to their own
 kent_lee
Joined: 8/31/2006
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Posted: 5/15/2009 1:13:20 AM
by older i assume that it's a significant age gap .. five years either way doesn't really qualify.

so over ten years ... i'm 42 ... no way am i going to date a 52 year old .. or a 55 year old ... and there is no way i want to be stuck with a 60 year old or a 65 year old woman when i'm 50 .... an old age pensioner ... thanks but no thanks.

i think its an attractive proposition when a guy is in his 20's and thirties to date an older woman ...... but the novelty wears off as time marches on.
 kent_lee
Joined: 8/31/2006
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Posted: 5/15/2009 2:20:34 AM
it's about time there was some equality .... why shouldn't an older woman have a much younger boyfriend ... why shouldn't she have as much freedom as a man to do what she wants.

i'm all for it ... it's about time the double standard thing was on a level playing field ... a man sleeps around he is admired for his sexual prowess, so why should a woman be any different .... i'm not saying older women sleep around, it's just an example of inequality

if a middle aged man dates a much younger woman he is a bit sleazy and she is a gold digger .. why shouldn't some old milf be seen equally as slutty and her toyboy equally as dim.

the middle aged sports car midlife crisis has traditionally been a male domain .. but no longer ... there are plenty of middle aged, chubby, fake tanned, blonde, WAG sunglassed old women driving round in their little sports cars and i say we should treat them the same way as the comb-over man .. point at them and laugh !

here's to equality !
 lisa4444
Joined: 3/7/2009
Msg: 169
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Posted: 5/15/2009 2:30:37 AM
I don't mind younger men as long as they are not to young and immature like the skate boarders at the local park with a cap on who think they look hard with a can of stella/carling in there hands
 lisa4444
Joined: 3/7/2009
Msg: 170
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Posted: 5/15/2009 3:12:22 AM
i think pete you got your answer with the no chance bit
however away from this topic for a second to me you come across as a character with his own views and that is admired..
for a sec i thought you liked the sound of your own voice in the forums but having read you i found you amusing and i see you different
but as i don't join in in the forums alot i do read people instead
i prefer it and you can tell alot from reading someone..
lol i'm scary stuff to the bed hoppers on here ..
i'm the local lurker now and then and be careful what you write he he..
 joanne1357
Joined: 9/20/2008
Msg: 171
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Posted: 5/17/2009 7:54:23 PM
I think it might work depending on the couple. However it probably depends on how big the age gap is.
I had a 36 yo contact me a couple wks ago- very cute, wanted to meet. Said he loved older women. However could not pin him down on "when". Said he is not on here much. I wished him luck- wont waste my time on "maybe". Am thinking he prob has another "lady friend" or is like some men here & is all talk & does not want to meet.
To me age can be just a number if we connect, I have friends of various ages so WTH.

My age range is 45-65 but it doesnt seem to matter, this has happened with the older guys too.
I dont get it.
 minniminx
Joined: 5/9/2006
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Posted: 5/18/2009 9:33:56 AM
the sensible person in me says.... ...cut off point 38 to 47 but in reality my out look is of someone in there mid 30's so who knows......
 robbo71
Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 173
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Posted: 5/18/2009 1:06:03 PM
i think the only guys i know who enthusiastically date an older women are the ones who cannot find/attract ones that are younger or their own age....its usually the case,if we are honest about it ,at least in my experience,if it were not the case then the "beautifull people of this world" i.e rock&film stars or the wealthy/famous actors would not always go for the young beautifull ones.... so i think theres enough evidence to back my claim
 Black_Sultan
Joined: 3/20/2011
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Posted: 4/21/2011 11:39:02 AM
I love to have a older girlfriend then me.
I belive that she will look after u like Mom
And give attention Love and comfort Like Mom
She will not cheat u like other Young girls
So Wish Me A Sweet Lovely Beautiful Old
GirlFriend then Me.

If any nice Lady agree with me plz contact me
 mollydaydream
Joined: 7/31/2010
Msg: 175
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Posted: 4/21/2011 1:08:53 PM

I love to have a older girlfriend then me.
I belive that she will look after u like Mom
And give attention Love and comfort Like Mom
She will not cheat u like other Young girls
So Wish Me A Sweet Lovely Beautiful Old
GirlFriend then Me.


Ewwwww, but could you imagine getting down and dirty with her, then a picture of your mom flashes into your mind????????????????????????



If any nice Lady agree with me plz contact me


I'm afraid only a minute percentage of PoF members read these forums, so you'd be better off mentioning the type of woman you would like on your profile.
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