| Making your sex life better for your partner....
Posted: 6/4/2006 9:04:41 PM | In your relationship what extremes would you go to, to make your sex life better?
well i thin the best way to make it better is to leave lol buy her a few dildoes n just leave  | |
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| Making your sex life better for your partner....
Posted: 6/7/2006 5:29:29 AM |
I sometimes feel like Mr. Spock, of Star Trek, who failed to see the logic in human behavior. I see what he felt
Ummm...I don't think Mr. Spock had feelings!
As far as the OP goes, I am not sure if classes or whatever would be justified.
If you have a healthy, open minded sexual attitude, and your partner does as well...then good sex follows. There is always room for growth and improvement. When you share it together....WOW! | |
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Posted: 6/7/2006 5:37:13 AM | I have found the best way to enhance your sex life is to let your inhabitions go, relax, be aware of your body and how it responds to stimulation - communicate and experiment - most of all enjoy it - really enjoy it.
Oh and don't worry what your body looks like with the light on - the person who loves you really doesn't care!  | |
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Posted: 6/7/2006 5:50:49 AM | Alot of great responses in this thread....I agree with alot and would do whatever I could to make it and keep it the best. I am a person who likes to know things...and will find out what i can about whatever it is that I need to.
Love the idea that foreplay starts in the morning when you get up....too bad it doesnt happen often...
Mystery can breed anticipation......(but there's part of the fun also...exploring to find out about that mystery)........anticipation can breed so many things.....ooooooooo what anticipation can do to a person :) mmmmmmmmm
There is always something to learn and i will continue to do my part in learning and using the information i gain :) | |
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Posted: 6/7/2006 6:21:10 AM | You Bet, If you are in a relationship with open communication and great intimacy and you want to keep the passion I truly believe if both partners are open to it ,go to all the classes you want ...as a matter of fact I'm sure it would be so much fun. There are TV programs on where I live where couples go to classes and then go home and try it out and they do a documentary about it and the couples give their little blurrby as to whether it worked or didn't work........Keeping the fire alive is what it is all about....but it goes both ways, there is NO double standard here.....and I find that sometimes well HE likes things but gives the ewww to things u like....and if that is ever the case .............................................
I think that is called And you move on b/c you should never compromise your sexuality ......you are important too.....If you make the other person happy then it works both ways..
YES DEFINITELY I WOULD GO TO CLASSES LIKE THAT AND I GIVE YOU ALOT OF CREDIT!!
HAVE FUN, perhaps you could come back and tell us how things go
(I don't mean in great detail, just let us know if it helps and if u had
fun) | |
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| Making your sex life better for your partner....
Posted: 6/7/2006 8:38:49 AM | I think having good sex comes in 3 easy steps:
1) Be attentive to your partner, listen to him/her.
2) Be open with what you want and things you want to try.
3) Enjoy it and have fun with it. Good Sex is one of the most enjoyable experiences in the world. It's supposed to be fun. | |
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| Making your sex life better for your partner....
Posted: 6/7/2006 10:22:56 AM | well...
i'll tell ya what..
if u're still dating, make sure that the both of you have the same ideas regarding sex.
when i was younger, i used to feel that it wasn't all that important. Shux, i was dead wrong. Now, I like to talk about sex (in detail) before I even take a person out for a date. And if I meet the person over the internet, before I even see her. Simply b/c I've been with a person who was into something totally different. She "loved" me, but our sex life sucked, simply b/c she wanted something different. No matter what I did (and believe me, I'm good at what I do).. our sex was always weak, until it got to the point that it became none existent. If I have latinas as my preference but I'm with a Caucasian, then I might as well leave the Caucasian alone. Everyone has his or her preferences. And some people are just not into sex. This goes out to people still dating. If you're married already, shux.. pray and do all u can, lol. Been there, done that. And that is why I'm not puttin up with that again. Whatever woman I meet will do just what I like, and she would be needing just what I like to do. And there's many who do. So guys/ladies....
talk about sex with ur "prospects"  Don't say I didn't warn you. And if you may feel uncomfortable about doing so and may need some recommendations... IM me or send me an email. I like to see people find what they are looking for. Because I sure like to be happy too. Also... the good book says that the man does not have possession over his own body but that of the woman, and vice versa. Give yourself, don't be so darn selfish with it. Learn that woman and let her know what you like. Because good sex comes from focusing on pleasing that person, while that person is doing the same to you. It's tha BOMB!... lol 
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Posted: 6/9/2006 7:54:58 AM | Me personally like to explore my sex life with my partner by trying new things all the time. It is fun and even if you don't want to admit it, your kinks and animal ways really plays a big part in your relationship. I personally am having a blast when I have sex with no limits or strings holding me back. Trying new things and even a new place to have sex can really be healthy. Taking the time for plenty of forplay is also the key. The ladies do love this egression and will spark up some heat with your love life...
God I love this healthy topic... | |
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Posted: 6/9/2006 8:06:11 AM | I like sex as much as the next person, but so much talk about it, it makes my head want to explode. I just don't understand any of it. All of this talk about working on it, how good someone is in bed, just makes the whole thing seem about as interesting as watching grass grow.
It's a natural thing, just go for it, and stop thinking about it so much. | |
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| Making your sex life better for your partner....
Posted: 1/24/2007 11:35:52 AM | I have always done my best to please my partner. I'm a very affectionate lady in the first place, I love to be touchy feely.
Your love making does start off in the morning, cause it's a whole nother day to love and be loved. You look at each other, laugh and giggle, touch, kiss, touch when you pass by him in the bathroom, brush up against him, and whisper to him a cute little saying, you'll get a new surprize tonight, grinning ear to ear to him. The kiss that you give him before you leave for work, as you grab him so tight in an embrass that goes to a quick back scratch. While walking out you glance back to him and wink and give a cute little smile, and say I'll see you tonight & I love you. While at work on a break, you can call him, and tell him that you have been thinking of him and what you wanna do for him later on that night. That will have his thoughts working, on what he has to look forward to for tonight.
ALL OF THIS FLIRTY COMMUNICATION, IS PART OF YOUR LOVE MAKING TOGETHER.  It's all in how you respond to each other, and how open you are to new things. Me....I'm open to try new things. I like trying something differant. It keeps the romance alive. I like to be treated like a lady, and in return I'll treat him like a gentleman. I'm open to suggestions, just like I hope he would be for me. It keeps the zest alive.
I'm trying to find a partner that will explore new and differant things with me.
Good luck to ya'll. Take Care, Dina | |
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