| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:07:38 PM | ^^^^^^^^ you.....
you are the one who stole my headless pic
and they will not post it now and I had to put my fish back up
grrrrrrrrrr
I was looking for you......
I want back my headless pic...... it is after all THE BEST ONE...
look at it.. the head.. the skeeerd people screaming.. it is PURE fright
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 52 | |
| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:12:27 PM | You snooze ... you loose 
And I had it first ..  | |
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:15:04 PM | by the way.. I do not have walls.. I have trap doors that are boobie trapped......
and for good reason.
No, I had it first..... the whole thing makes me mad..... this is the only horror pic I could find that made me actually laugh when I looked at it.
funny how you cropped it...... took away from the effect.....
you have no artistic taste... apparently.
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 54 | |
| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:18:49 PM | | I am not going to get into a debate with you ... however .. not only you have walls, you also have a very irritating personality | |
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ksue44
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Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 56 | |
| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:24:45 PM | What, me give up??? Gosh, if I were only in my 30's. NOT! Seriously, dating can be an "opportunity" or a "challenge" as we see it. Rainbow, you've raised some interesting and valid points here.
I went out last night with a fella I met on another dating service. We were talking about middle aged folks, and why life, the way we view it is different than those in their 20's. He said by the time people reach the age of their 40's and 50's, they are so beat up because of what life hands them, therefore they settle.. Heavens to betsy, I'm about to turn 50, and I couldn't have disagreed with this guy more. This guy will always be a friend to me, but no more because he "chooses" to settle. I won't come out and say life is fair, because it isn't. I went through a phase of where I felt "beat up", but no more.
Online dating isn't the only way to meet people. I've done it on & off for 17 years now. I have found a part time business in which I work from my home, which will allow me to leave Corporate America in 2 years. The beauty about it, is I have no inventory, I don't have to worry about collecting money, nor do I have to manage people. The best thing is: I get to network with people and make money at the same time.
What I'm getting at, is find some hobbies and interests that you love. It could be writing, going to museums, movies, traveling, baseball cards, knick knacks, history, etc. Join any associations affiliated with your passions & interests.. You will find people there that you can establish rapport with, mingle with, and share some "war" stories, laughter, etc... Too many of us out there think that OLD is the only way to meet people. It isn't... Find your passion and you will find your mate! Never give up... Keep on smiling and keep one foot in front of the other... Most of all LAUGH AWFULLY DAMN HARD! | |
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:26:00 PM | yeah, they are often something to laugh at.
hey .. I see your in Dallas.
me too | |
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:30:13 PM | Plenty of us want the whole enchilada too ladies, but we are sexual beings and not monogamus by nature. Sexual attraction draws us in, compatible substance will keep us aorund. Rainbow, hate to say it but I think Arriano is right about the walls. If you don't like the men biting on your line change the bait. A quality and everlasting relationship can't be engineered, it must be nurtured. We want love with sex like MMM has said all along. We are lustfull at first sight, loving with time. There are plenty of good men in this world of ours, tempering expectations with a little paitence will reveal more of the longterm prospects to you. Choose your ground, but don't make it an island with nothing but the most demanding of shores.  | |
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:31:58 PM | | I did note no free sex here... in my profile | |
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:40:51 PM | | Thanks for a little understanding double cabin, I was getting shot to pieces here and all I want to do is meet a nice woman for love. By the way all, I have only been with two women in the past 25 years, and I was there for love. That's what it's all about isn't it? To think I'm only hunting for sex! Quite insulting. | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 61 | |
| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:42:07 PM | Rainbow ... do you hate sex or something??
Your irritating personality also shows that you are pretty smart. You are a grown woman. I am sure you are not that naive to fall for every man who is trying to sell you a lemon.
So, don’t tell me ... you have never had a casual thing that you knew wasn’t going to go anywhere ... just for sex and companionship.
Off topic: I am very artistic and creative | |
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:44:47 PM | all I see is..... blah blah blah
if a gal is open to any and everything she will sure find it here.
Like I said.... has to be more than this.
I do find some amusement quality in it..... I am not willing to sacrife my health
and bring in STD's and numerous other things from casual dating. If a guy EXPECTS sex... either sooner or later.. he SHOULD find someone who is willing to offer him any and eveything based on blind trust.......
I prefer not to go that way...
to each their own... all that matters is that I like and respect me....
and that is just how it is.
arr, I love sex but not cheap sex based on , well.... nothing is nothing but cheap sex..... sex is part of a good relationship... not people doing it to make a relationship.
I say DuH to that question.
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:47:44 PM | | Rainbow, you are sure good with needles, but I like your sense of humour!! | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 64 | |
| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:48:37 PM | EXPECTS sex ????
Honey ... I don’t put out just for anyone | |
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:48:51 PM | you guys are clueless....
I would like to hear from the ladies...
as I first said. | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 66 | |
| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:53:50 PM | Amazing ... a woman who can be soooo disrespectful to men
starts a thread to complain about lack of respect  | |
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 3:54:35 PM | MMM
I didn't mean to shoot you to pieces it just seemed that you and Rainbow were on opposite sides of the spectrum. Your last post seemed to bring you a little closer to what she was trying to get across. Most of the dating sites have alot of crap on them, you have to weed them out and I think that she is trying to do that by being straight forward. Being hurt, taken advantage of, etc tends to make you build walls. Sometimes you have to look what's behind the wall to understand why they are there in the first place. Who knows, one might just end up being pleasantly surprised. | |
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 4:01:02 PM | | I am very aware of the reason for walls of any kind. I don't necessarily see walls, just someone who doesn't care to get jerked around again and again. I do understand. That's why I like Rainbow. You are tough Rainbow, and funny as heck! | |
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 4:06:32 PM | sigh.......
ladies.... would like to hear from you.
Please reply to the OP
thanks | |
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 4:14:28 PM | I hate to see a good topic get thrown off track by mudslinging and misunderstandings. It sounds to me like everyone is saying the same thing about wanting love and sex together in a healthy, monogamous relationship. The confusion is in getting to that point. lol
Now in saying that, I totally understand and agree with Rainbow about how sexual objectification is a turn off when you are just getting to know a man. Women want to be seen as sexual creatures, but we also want to be seen as well rounded human beings with more to offer then a vagina and breasts. What many of you might not realize, is that by the time a woman reaches 40, she has been propositioned by more lewd construction workers, set on by more horny boys in cars and been groped on the dance floor by more drunken buffoons then China has tea bags. It becomes tiresome.
So, listen up fellows (no one specific) because this is important! Many of us women...myself included...have had it with sex being the main focus in a dating situation, before a meeting of the minds has taken place. It doesn't mean our flesh doesn't burn with desire! lol (I happen to have a fairly high sex drive, but that doesn't make me easy.) What it does mean is that we need more then a slap and a tickle to decide if we want to pursue a relationship. It also is a way of gauging just how serious a man is about having a relationship. A man who is serious will wait for sex. A man who is a player, will not....or at least, not for very long.
So, it's about weeding out the undesirables. It's about making sure you're not one of those lewd construction workers. Don't take it personally, because it's not about you. But, do take it seriously, because it is about us. lol
Also, totally agree with Unicorn about how sex without an emotional connection is just mutual masturbation. lol | |
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 4:21:18 PM | | You bet! Like I said, the women are in the drivers seat. | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 72 | |
| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 4:34:30 PM | | ^^^ What are you .. desperate??? Buy yourself a nice car and start cruising ... | |
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| Ladies 37 and up
Posted: 10/29/2005 4:37:44 PM | | Spoken as only a man without a head can speak. lol Oh relax! I'm joking. | |
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