7times
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Joined: 10/27/2005
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Suecat
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Joined: 4/20/2006
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/2/2006 9:05:11 PM | | Zinfandella, I am not sure leaving him is as important at this stage as talking to him about the issue. You two need to have open communication about what is important to you both in bed. After talking to him, you may find out that it is something as easy to remedy as shaving, or even not shaving if that is his preference. Or maybe he would be more inclined to enjoy if there was chocolate syrup involved, or even raspberry vodka drizzled over your nether lips (my favorite). Find out what his favorite flavor is, and incorporate it into your lovemaking. Some men (and women) were brought up to believe it is wrong, and they will need a bit more coaxing. Now if he is unwilling to try to please you after you discuss it with him, then I agree...the verdict is out. Dump him. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/3/2006 9:49:57 PM | rainskiss,
You would have no problem with my bedroom manners on this subject. I love/thouroughly enjoy pleasing a woman with multiple orgasms caused by my oral sex on her. My ex-wife liked oral sex and taught me whaqt I needed to know in order to bring her that pleasure that you women all deserve. I loved to hear the joy she expressed; I loved to see the way she squirmed with excitement, and I loved being the one causing her to orgasm back to back without fail. You would enjoy my bedroom manner...believe me. Ready for it?
OK, to the women who don't know what these other women are complaing about: If you are a woman who wouldn't leave a man for not going down on you orally -- what you are missing, many of these other women can express to you. I know that you deserve to have the man go down on you. It is not something a woman should live without. I love to perform orally on a woman way too much to say anything against it. If you are living without that, Woman-Who-Doesn't-Leave-Him, why? I'll guarantee you one thing, if you have one night with continual orgasm with one man who truly knows how to bring you to that point without fail all night, then you would be kicking men out of your lives for not performing -- not to mention that you would not let the guy who makes you continually orgasm back to back out your house, but hold him near and dear to your heart. It would be a sin to you for the guy not to go down on you. You wouldn't be able to date the man, you would not even have a relationship with him because he would not be giving you that deserved pleasure in your bedroom, in the motel room, in the back seat of your car, in the park, or wherever you can get away with him doing it. My advice is to come find me or any other man like me who is willing and more than qualified to bring you to multiple orgasm, because YOU DESERVE IT. You will never wake up with a sad countenance knowing what you have waiting for you each night. Just ask the women who know what you are missing out on without oral sex.... 
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/3/2006 10:10:58 PM | Zinfandella - It sounds kind of like you are just rooting around for a problem. He sounds great to me. Maybe hes not great, thats okay, teach him the way YOU like it, even if he wont go down on you. Teach him how to do all the things you like and the way you like it, then he'll be perfect. lol
I've never let a guy do it, no matter how much they beg. Guess Im scared. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/3/2006 10:22:56 PM | Try buying some books like Kama Sutra and others that deal with sex openly, and talk to him
about the subject and your likes without limitations. Why hide your desires and inhibit yourself with the person you are being intimate with. I am sure once both of you open up he will put all taboos behind
and he will learn to give you all the pleasure you woul like..
So as a man, no I would not leave a woman for not going down.. But I would certainly teach her what I like as much as I would learn what she likes.. Now thats love making. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/4/2006 6:59:00 AM | Is it.. Vorn...
or Scorn?
You shouldnt worry about where the pee comes from when you yourself...
talk so much shit. Maybe you toss salads???
Chaucon son gout I say, and, no matter what it is (i.e. cunnilingus, fellatio, kinky stuff, toys, whatever) if youre partner is NOT on the same sexual page as you, either suck it up (figuratively that is!) and compromise or move on.
Not everyone... has the same taste! LMAO! | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/4/2006 7:06:14 AM | Welll ! maybe there is an explanation why he doesnt want to go down on you.
Make sure its always shaved ! and smells real nice.... then if he still doesnt want to go down.... LEAVE HIM !!! | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/4/2006 7:12:32 AM | Some cultures just do not enjoy this type of experience.... ahh just a litle drawback with dating men deal from different cultures. Africans are known for not enjoying going down. But, trust me - they make up for it is other ways  I believe that if a woman is shaved~clean~and enjoys it- all else will just flow. 
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/4/2006 8:00:19 AM | Saiyon......haha......I think he's tossed a few salads.
and what you say is very true....if you're not sexually compatible...move on.
also you're right about not having the same taste....some of us taste better than others....... | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/4/2006 11:32:24 AM | I was married to a man for 4 yrs. who never did the carpet munching. THEN, years down the road, I was involved/engaged to a man who didn't lick the carpet either. Both of them said they didn't like doing that on a woman. Why did I stay with them? GOOD QUESTION. But hey, I'm gone from BOTH of them now and lookin' for some carpet company.
There have been men I've dated in-between each one of those guys that absolutely loved doing that to me!
So it's not a matter of freshness, it's just that there are many men that don't like it. Heck, the ex-bf even said, when I was spread eagle for him to make him hot, why does something so ugly feel so d-amn good.
GEEZ...what----EVER. H-ell, maybe he likes the look of a c-ock better. 
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Ldygmr
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Joined: 12/19/2005
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/4/2006 3:56:14 PM | Would it be fair for him to be upset if you couldn't give a decent blow job?
Not everyone likes oral sex. It's a simple fact. If this is that big an issue...move on. I personally wouldn't if the guy were great in other ways. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/4/2006 5:13:03 PM | This thread is absolutely cracking me up! Especially the comments made by vorn. Good god!
Getting back to the original topic - from mpov you have 3 options and only 3 -
1. give in and over time become angry and bitter before leaving his ungrateful ass
2. cut your losses, leave him now and find a nice boy who will do what you want
3. tie him up, sit down and calmly explain the situation - then whip him a bit so you're sure he "gets it", then sit on him and go to town.
You also have to wonder, if he's not licking your lollipop, maybe he's sucking someone else's popsicle...
Lastly, vorn, vorn, vorn - I have some words for you my dear -
At first I thought you were some octagenerian british grandfather or perhaps some lad from a different culture who didn't quite grasp how we do things around here.
Newsflash - this is canada and everyone's free to speak their mind without fear of judgement - especially from you. Your profile was quite a chuckle - I'll leave it at that. And oh, your big words and use of old english certainly had me thinking, "Wow, what a wise and intelligent Human Being..."
I've got a bigger brain that you, baby - trust me on that. 
Why don't you leave your little role-playing games for the bedroom - nobody in the real world wants to hear that BS, or better yet, why not saddle up to this side of the pond and I'll show you how a real D/s relationship works... | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/4/2006 5:25:14 PM | Way to get the thread removed vorn!!!
Ummm...if I am not mistaken, from reading a previous thread at some point, isn't sassy a tiny little thing with itty bitty feet? I may be thinking of someone else, but I don't think so. It makes these ridiculous comments of yours seem even dumber. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/4/2006 6:39:50 PM | vorn I think you've done just about enough bashing with the ladies here,if you don't like women and vaginas then why don't you run along maybe find a new site,and leave the woman for men who appreciate them and their bodily fluids.
As for Sassy,I know her personally and let me assure you she is all woman and like the lady said she is tiny and has very small feet and maybe if you were so lucky as to have a woman like her.....you would sing a different tune.
Op as stated before if you're not sexually compatible I say move on. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/4/2006 8:30:49 PM | It's kinda funny how oral sex usually comes on strong and then disappears so quick sometimes. I think some woman don't want to get the man addicted to it so much that she's expected to just drop his shorts on a whim and polish the ole knob, but hey... wouldn't it be nice? :) Actually, some of us have had that luxury a few times but it usually ends, don't it.
So here's my take:
(If she loves it) you can polish her clit until it's purple or lick her tonsils from between her legs and she's gonna love you for a while. If you stop or slack off on your practices, then you're just digging your own grave. You better keep being the one who's doing it, or guess what?
The same goes for men, if she spent a year making sure you didn't have an ounce of juice left in you to cheat on her with, and now all of a sudden it makes her gag thinking about it, then you better cancel all the credit cards and rent one of those storage sheds to put your new furniture in, cuz she's got somebody else in mind and she's not gagging thinking about doing it to him! Haha.
Aw man, I know I just stirred up a hornets nest on this one, but really I just wanted to bring some humor into the deal since oral sex can be REALLY complicated and we all have had our experiences to tell about. | |
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