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 a_sweet_fishy
Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 326
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cocotower: You are so incredibly right! I know of at least one exception, however. I LOVE giving oral, but when I was pregnant and for quite some time after it made me gag. Thankfully that went away.
 molonel
Joined: 12/20/2005
Msg: 327
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/4/2006 8:38:36 PM
I have to crack up when I read threads like this, and see how many women would move on if the guy wouldn't go down on her, and then return to the various threads where guys are asked if they would leave a woman (or, say, refuse to marry her) if the sex/oral sex/whatever were bad or nonexistent. It seems, sometimes, that's it's okay for a woman to leave if the nookie is bad, but a man is just thinking with the other head if he does the same thing.

For the record, I would never blame a woman for kicking a guy to the curb who wouldn't go down on her. Yes Virginia, sexual compatibility is important. For men AND women.
 KIKNBAK
Joined: 2/7/2006
Msg: 328
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/4/2006 8:38:50 PM
I'm just talking from experience here. I have been with women that I really care about and find it hard to tell them that I can't go down there due to poor personal hygiene. I love oral sex, would rather give than recieve, but I think that anyone who presents themselves to another person in an "unclean" state deserves to be rejected. Of course it works both ways.
 BK 1972
Joined: 6/3/2006
Msg: 329
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/4/2006 11:13:44 PM
I love going down on a woman If she has good hygine . The first thing I look at is her teeth If they are taken care of (white and clean)more than likely the rest of her is clean. I wont stick my meat in something that I dont think is clean.

It is a major ,did I say major, turn on for me to go down on a woman especially when she has an orgasm. I consider it a important part of foreplay and a healthy sex life.I woudnt be with a woman I couldnt go down on . So women keep your self clean and I see no reason why a red blooded man wouldnt want to go down on you[img]http://tinypic.com/xle0es.gif[/img]

As far as this Vorn dude a humans mouth is not especially clean so he shouldnt even kiss anyone. He needs to have a fullbody rubber on.
 ilikecakesometimes
Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 330
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Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/5/2006 3:19:22 AM
well vorn says he isn't a descendant of apes.... I wonder how he came to be? I wonder if someone just shat him out one day... next thing you know he's going to deny being birthed into this world by a big, sloppy, wet kitty...
 Brad II
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 331
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/5/2006 3:45:29 AM
well kids, vorn is good for a few laughs, but really all he's here for is to stir it up and giggle at the reaction.

he's probably licking kitty right now, and in the back of his mind thinking to himself "i hope she doesn't put this video on YouTube!"
 Moonshine519
Joined: 5/24/2006
Msg: 332
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/5/2006 5:03:24 AM
I personally , dont blame a woman who leaves a guy who wont give oral sex.I think fair is fair and as someone said earlier in this thread , some women that is the only way they can have an orgasm and i sure as hell gonna make sure she has one ..even if it takes all day and night .....
 lonley dreamer
Joined: 5/24/2006
Msg: 333
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/5/2006 5:28:48 AM
wow!!! i never thought of that ...lol.. the rough stuff sounds like fun ..**say my name *say my name ..im so using thats !! thanks ..lorraine
 SOULSEARCHER1982
Joined: 5/10/2006
Msg: 334
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Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/5/2006 5:56:39 AM
maybe this guy doesnt realise how important oral sex is to you. you should talk to him explain how you feel and find out why he doesnt like it.

personally i never used to enjoy it but now i love it theres nothing quite like going down on the woman you love and satisfying her in the most intimate of ways!!!

if he sucks at it then teach him how to do it properly! if he really is as great as you say then he'll listen and learn!

if not then move to london and il give you what you need!!!
hell just come over on holiday!!
lol
 uniquestud
Joined: 5/5/2006
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Posted: 6/5/2006 5:57:37 AM
Training films : review some select porn and get him trained to your licking or liking . If he resists tell him it's a deal breaker ( if it is ) . If he has specific qualms about it find workarounds . Dental damns , just here not there , comfy positioning , time limits at first , whipped cream ?
 YX32
Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 336
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/5/2006 8:14:31 AM
Hmmmm...a little coaxing, maybe a bit of I'll give what you give, or perhaps cutting off physical contact until he's ready to give and go down...if that doesn't work...I say "buh bye" cause I gotta have that oral communication!!!!
 rainskiss
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 337
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/5/2006 10:58:15 AM
lol, giving and recieving oral sex is a wonderful way of expressing how you feel about someone. Four me there is a big diffrence between giving a Bjob and making love to a mans c*ck with your mouth.
I guess I have been lucky and not run across anyone this was ever a issue with.
 PlayfullM
Joined: 1/26/2004
Msg: 338
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/5/2006 11:26:45 AM
A guy who doesn't like to go downtown?! Is he gay? Do you smell like a fish that's been left in the hot sun for days? LMAO Why is it girls always complain about thier lovers but I never get any and I concide myself a GREAT lover, I could go down for hours or as long as she wanted me to, I love it.
 coug4
Joined: 3/10/2006
Msg: 339
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/5/2006 2:56:52 PM
Men are supposed to eat pu$$y...why do you think god made them to look like a taco. Any one getting hungry and want to make a run to the border..how about you Vorn??
 simpleman4u
Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 340
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/5/2006 3:32:16 PM
MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM Pink taco LOVE IT!!!!!!!!! GIMMIE GIMMIE!!
 Ahhh!
Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 341
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/5/2006 9:53:32 PM
I think I would have problem if he expected me to perform on him, but refused to do it on me.
If he can go without getting any, then I guess it's allright, but eventually I think I would get really frustrated.
Then again, ever been with a guy who you wished WOULDN'T go down on you...LOL
 ebonyeyesone
Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 342
Would you leave her if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/5/2006 10:04:24 PM
hel yeah i would leave her if she did not go down on me i love to go down on beautiful women and i expect it in return. and i'm good and well worth the time
 Coppertop1
Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 343
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/5/2006 10:05:02 PM
sexually,I love going down on a woman and I have been complimented on it since I was sexually active.I feel bad for your man because he doesn't know the real pleasure in doing it.I do it for myself.And,yes,I agree with you when you say that if he doesn't want to do it for himself,then you don't want him to because then your only getting less than you deserve.When your into it then you enjoy it,when your not,you don't fool anyone.

It's his loss,and yours due to his lack of interest.
 kymber22
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 344
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/6/2006 12:26:11 AM
men named mike dont like to go down! lol jk my g/f has come across this...any ladies out there know any mikes that wont lick-e-dee lick???
 Absolutemike
Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 345
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/6/2006 12:53:58 AM
Hi Im Mike and I love goin down on girls! I love usin my tougue ring and I love doin it for long periods of time. Ive never had any complaints in fact girls seem to enjoy it more because of the tougue ring, the only thing I dont like is when girls arent shaven, damn hair gets in the way, but its still fun to me. I love tryin it different ways to gauge what the woman wants and work from there.
 slayerizer
Joined: 4/26/2006
Msg: 346
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/6/2006 10:19:35 AM
Hair is one thing but even a shaved kitty can cause damage...............stubble burn on upper lip lol yikes!!!.
but anyways do you go down on him?If so try cutting that out of your routine and see how he likes that,maybe itll open his eyes,and if not well Im with the majority,can you be hapy with someone who doesnt do something A your accustomed to...B you really really like....C...probably cant live without.and he sucks in bed for the rest of the action anyways uhhhhhhh why bother,he must have one hell of a nack for conversation lol.



I guess I'm afraid if I go into intimate encounters that I'll get a disease or some real weirdos.

And to the person that wrote this........WHAT????????????????????????????????
 Lothlauren
Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 347
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/6/2006 10:33:04 AM
--- Either give it time and he will come around, but if your like the majority of women who can only get off on clitoral stimulation (and fingers and hands only do so much boys!) you might need to reconsider your relationship. ---

My batting rate for girlfriends.. must be astoundingly lucky or too many guys out there are not patient enough...

mind you lol the stimulation was involved in all aspects ... oh yes.. for gawds sakes tell the guy you want to get munched... there was a time when I thought it wasnt fun or "the girl didnt enjoy it" .... but now that I know.... hehe enuff said
 PlayfullM
Joined: 1/26/2004
Msg: 348
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/7/2006 1:00:53 PM
Another Mike here, love go down.
 gentle_thug
Joined: 6/5/2006
Msg: 349
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/7/2006 6:06:58 PM
I think that in the world we live in today everyone gets to do things like that once in there life whether they like it or not or even never do it again after the first experience.
I have been with women that never gave oral before or hated the thought of it who ended up doing it and loving it. Its all about how you make him feel. You need to explain to him the fact that most women love to receive oral which makes them more likely to return the favour and that if a woman dont get it from her partner she definatly will find a tounge somewhere else. Gine him a really OTT oral maybe then i have no doubt that once he gives it a go and hears your moaning, feels you shaking and tastes your juices then trust me he will love what he has done....
Hope
 set the hook
Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 350
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/7/2006 6:44:41 PM
Again, nobody asked me here, but I've actually been with someone who wouldn't go down on me. Having only the noblest intentions, I stuck with her because she was great for a lot of other things outside the bedroom.

I kept gently nudging her (and going down on her frequently and skillfully for extended periods of time) and she came around in big way. It's too bad we're not together anymore because my dirty and creative mind can't think of anything she didn't do or do well.... that is not before I read posts on other POF threads by ladies who could deep throat and use ice..
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