| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 5/2/2007 8:12:04 AM | All you women who say dump him. ......
bulshit on you ...friggin amazes me that if it was the other way around and she didn't go down on him and he dump her. . he'd be called a loser ***hole etc
It's alright if she doesn't su.ck****but hell no he'd better eat some puddin.
and wtf you don't swallow, but sweet shit you eat my puss. You can't swallow but we better eat your juices | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 5/2/2007 8:18:37 AM | Personally, I believe sexual compatibility is incredibly important in any relationship -along with friendship, love and acceptance. If there is frustration or incompatibilty in the sexual realm, it can affect the other aspects of the relationship. So, if my needs or my partner's needs are not being met, that is certainly an issue that needs to be addressed....and if it is not resolved in some fashion, then the relationship may be in jeopardy.
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 5/2/2007 2:51:45 PM | My MY. Hostilities are evident!
First of all, I wouldn't want to make man-does-woman or woman-does-man a part of EVERY sexual encounter. BORING.
If a guy is not comfortable with something, then I won't be either, and it will be an exercise in futility.
Then you have the guys who think they are GREAT but....not really. Don't want to get into a false praise situation either.
I have a vibrator. Guys, no need to wear yourself out or force yourself to do something you don't like. It's OK.
PS I have ALWAYS reciprocated. Too much information?
Thought - is a wonderful relationship to be trashed over such a minute issue? If you are soulmates and he is thoughful/considerate, would you deep six him over THIS issue?
Give him MY phone number, please. And thank you! | |
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Joined: 7/18/2006
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 5/2/2007 9:34:16 PM | | I am glad most women seem to enjoy receiving oral. Hoping I never have to answer the question in reverse. It would be tough to date a lady that wouldn't let me go downtown. What the heck is a guy supposed to do in that situation. Just sit there and salivate all night knowing you can't have desert? | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 5/7/2007 6:15:58 PM | | Well if it was me I think I would have to say something first, if nothing changes then yes, you deserve the best in a relationship. I myself love to pleasure a woman with oral, it is such a turn on for both of us. I don't want to brag but every woman I've been with say's I'm the best they have ever had, the reason being I love what I'm doing and I know my way around the sweet spot. I sometimes get so carried away that she has to stop me to catch her breath, WOW how cool is that? There's nothing better on this earth than a sweet tasting woman. Answer is, give him a chance first, if he's so against it then yes you should think about getting out of dodge. Just my 2 cents. Guy's take care of that sweet spot or I will. | |
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Joined: 12/14/2006
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 5/7/2007 11:34:13 PM | tough question....
In the 18 months that I've been with my man, he's gone down on me exactly.. ummm......TWICE. But GODDAMN he's good at it! The last time he went down on me, he got a case of chapped lips that lasted two weeks.
I've brought this up numerous times... I'm asking straight out " So what does a girl have to do to get you to lick her ****?" or" Goddamn, Dirtbag, you're good at it... when can I look forward to having that again?". He's no dummy and I know that he understands exactly what I'm telling him.
Every other aspect of our relationship is very good.. He's affectionate, loving, tender, patient, blah blah blah, and we have mind-blowing sex together (albeit not often enough for my taste)... it just seems to be this one little thing that gets in the way sometimes.
I'm not going to leave a great guy just because he doesn't go downtown more than once a year... but I'm sure as hell gonna keep asking him to do so!!! I'm very much considering refusing to suck his****until he gives me what I want and have been asking for for months. But leave him? Hell no!!! | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 5/8/2007 10:52:35 AM | | truthfully yes i know that sounds bad but i went out with someone before who didn't. 2yrs i was with him. in the end you start holding out on them and they do the same, your left with crap sex. cos neither person wants to do what the other likes. or maybe i'm just selfish lol ! | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 5/8/2007 10:58:03 AM | | i have to laugh a little at this one.... she complaines that he wont go down and my ex complained that i went down too often...... lol.... get him to listen to your needs and if he loves you he will have to do it... but baby steps....... | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 5/12/2007 3:58:28 PM | | You have to put your priorities in order,do you want a great guy ,or do you want great sex,sometimes you cant have your cake and eat it to. You could just be patient with him he might eventually go down on you but if not be happy you have someone who wants to be with you.There are alot of women out there that dont care if he goes down or not and just want someone to care for them. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 5/13/2007 4:13:54 AM | | Everybody has different tastes (no pun intended!). Most of the girls I've been with have had good hygiene downtown, but I did have one who didn't, but she wasn't into BJs either, so at least I didn't have to reciprocate. Some guys love giving oral and some don't. Same with girls and giving oral. Or even receiving it, since some may feel some "shame" in that area for whatever reason. "My p****'s ugly" or something to that extent. | |
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