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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/6/2007 11:06:59 AM | | Well, you must first ask yourself, how important is "a good sexual relationship", in your relationship. If its high on the list, and it isn't that great now, prior to receiving oral; then instead of getting deeper into the relationship, your best bet, is to dissolve now. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/6/2007 11:20:47 AM | ok number
1. how old is he?
2. sounds likes he,s just after pleasuring hiself
3. tell him he is,nt satisfying you
4. maybe he does.nt know how too, so you will have to teach him(that could be fun) | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/6/2007 2:15:39 PM | | I realize that this is a very old thread, and in addition, after reading far too many of the old post, I realize that the women here who have replied, didn’t actually put much thought into their reply, but instead just responded based upon instinct opposed to at least feigning to have a little compassion for this guy. I too realize that getting oral is a great feeling, but some people have had bad experiences and it takes a little time for them to come around to doing that. I mean seriously, who could possibly respect someone who on the first encounter goes down and begins to tongue-fully show out. Having sex is one thing, but going down on someone, that should take some time. I mean seriously, a man should first have a firm understanding of her hygiene credentials before he decides to venture down south. Who knows, the guy may have contracted a mouth infection at one point in his life from just going down south, and thus, he is now very apprehensive. JMO | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/6/2007 5:45:37 PM | Run, Forest Run comes to mind.
I can tell you from first hand experience he is struggling with his sexual preference.
Str8, bi or gay.
I dated a guy just like the one you described. Great all around, but sex sucked! | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/6/2007 6:10:54 PM | there's a difference between "sucking in bed" and totally lacking passion. what i'm wondering is...are there any other redeeming qualities (sexually, that is). I mean, if he's a lousy kisser, does it really matter if he goes down on you or not? from my experience, it is pretty tough to infuse a relationship with good sex if there is none from the get go. his reaction to your request that he go down on you is also weird, albeit honest! maybe he honestly doesn't know where to go, which would be consistent with him sucking all around.
your other option is, next time you get close to having sex, just say, "i don't really like it, but i will if you want..." touche, and good luck! | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/7/2007 3:12:56 PM | | Man you have isues. Your mouth is way dirtier than any womans vulva everyone knows this also I don't know any man who doesn't enjoy eatin some good vulva maybe it is an acquired taste but well once you get some you just can't get enough. And once you get used too the smell you almost develop a craving for it. Well I should clarify this is coming from a normal straight guy. But trust me I have talked to others and this is definately normal. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/7/2007 3:16:45 PM | I would hate to see the type of women you have dated harrabylad if their "precious" stinks and tates disgusting....What kind of females are YOU being intimate with?
EWW, bad choices in females eh?
Just a hint....the nether region does not have a "taste" persae' nor should it stink....if a female you are with has either one...it probably indicates some sort of problem.
In which case you should run and never touch with any part of your body again!
Good luck finding a clean female harrabylad! | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 7/16/2007 12:21:36 PM | | very interesting.....funny thing is the last girl I dated, we finally got to the romance and sex date...after many......she wanted me to just poke her, doggie style, right NOW, she pulled her panties off and knelt down on the floor on all fours and demanded it...and I wanted to play, offering to go down on her, and she got offended and grossed out by it. said most women do not like it..(news to me!). I guess because she was younger.. FOREPLAY is BEST, that's my motto... now, we aren't seeing each other anymore.. of course! | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 7/16/2007 12:47:44 PM | Absolutely! Men expect it, why shouldn't we? Besides, we deserve it. My Motto to Men:
"You gotta do alot of lickin and flickin before you go stickin your d!ck in"
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 8/26/2007 8:46:20 PM | Some men do not expect anything but what is freely given
My preference would rather give than to rcve.
It is the best smelling/best tasitng thing in the world
as long as no hygeine or medical problems lurkin in the erkin... | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 8/26/2007 10:43:20 PM | | OP...I would never date a guy who refused to go down on me..it shows me that he has some major hangups about sex...no thank you..I like oral too much to give itup | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 8/26/2007 10:46:37 PM | | I would probably not even date a woman, let alone leave her, if she did not like recieving oral. I very much enjoy going down on a woman. And yes, there are some women out there who don't seem to care for recieving oral. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 8/26/2007 11:05:22 PM | | i would like to just say this plain and simple..You dont get it... he dont get it. the last girl i was dating told me that she didnt give head...for the first bit i tried to do without but would still do it for her..im sorry but foreplay is one of the BEST things about having sex..its not something that should be ran through..most importantly ITS NOT ABOUT YOU ITS ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON!!!!! Its not suppose to be about what you like its suppose to be what they like...your not doin it to yourself your doin it to them...if you remember that then everything will be GREAT! you make them scream and they are goin to be on you like white on rice my friends..anyways THE WHOLE POINT to the first part of this was after like a week or two i stopped doin it for her..she noticed..she asked me why and i told her straight up..why should i do it all for you and i get nothing..she played like it didnt matter....2 days later i was gettin head...so again...make it for them not for you...that is THEIR job.. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 8/26/2007 11:40:40 PM | | It wouldn't bother me in the slightest. It's nice and I'm not turned off by it, but there are other things that I like to do much more. Some women just don't get off on it, even if they do physically. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 8/27/2007 4:12:35 AM | Simply unbelievable.
Would I break up with a girl that wouldn't go down on me? NO. Would I break up with a girl that made a big deal about me not going down on her.... in a heart beat.
I can't believe most of you people. Oral sex seems to be more of a issue than personality, career, etc. I suggest you women that deem it so necessary put that in your profile to save a lot of us time/effort. I'm not going to bother taking a girl out for dinner if this is on her 'list' of things in a guy, and you'd be pretty surprised with how many men would be downout shocked. (Not including the guys that have posted about how much they love giving it, to increase their chances on here) | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 8/27/2007 4:37:26 AM | I didn't leave, but I didn't want to be with him once I found out he wasn't really into it. and the relationship suffered as I felt he was being selfish in that he wanted HIS but I never got mine.
I said for the next relationship I'd not settle for less, and won't. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 8/27/2007 5:34:53 AM | Msg: 597
I can't believe most of you people. Oral sex seems to be more of a issue than personality, career, etc. I suggest you women that deem it so necessary put that in your profile to save a lot of us time/effort. I'm not going to bother taking a girl out for dinner if this is on her 'list' of things in a guy, and you'd be pretty surprised with how many men would be downout shocked. (Not including the guys that have posted about how much they love giving it, to increase their chances on here)
haha or to the guys that have to make like thy dont think about it either right??? everyone knows sex is a huge part of a relationship..if u dont satisfy eachother then WHATS the point? sex would be REALLY borein if it was "poke poke done" EVERY SINGLE TIME..so dont try to tell me that if a girls says i need oral sex you wouldnt take her out..unless you have something against pleasing the one you care about.. | |
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