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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 8/27/2007 8:48:49 AM | I was once with a gal who didn't like doing me. Now, I'm not a guy obsessed with receiving, but the fact that she wasn't into it turned me off. When she'd compliment my looks I'd think " whatever, if you find me disgusting down there you don't find me attractive enough "...
Once you've been with someone who goes animal on you down there you can't help but prefer it.
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 8/27/2007 9:47:50 AM | My opinion is this ,oral sex is and should be part of a intimate relationship period. And if they don't like it they should do it anyway, for the sake of pleaseing your partner! After all isn't that what love is .Good Day!
Having had someone offer do it for "my" sake, no thanks. I want someone who loves doing whatever it is we are doing or don't bother. I would dump a girl who didnt like giving and I'd dump here even faster if she didnt like getting. "I" like doing it, its just a huge bonus she loves it too.
For me sexual compatability is a huge part of a relationship. Something you should discuss prior to getting getting nakid. As someone said earlier not getting what you want/need will cause resentment and thats going to show up in all kinds of other places in the relationship so how good will it be anyway. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 9/12/2007 7:21:18 PM | OK....if he won't go down on you....one of two things...he's had one very bad...BAD experience......and he can "smell' you and won't go there........or he's gay and won't tell you.
In my experience if I can "smell" a girl during forepaly and I don't care for the "essence"....you can forget about me going south.Go see your doc...you've got a problem down there.
OR......
he's gay and won't tell you!!!!
I have gone down on most of the women I've been with and absoutely adore pleasuring them this way.
The feel the taste and the touch is something without description.
BUT.......if in the throes of being "forepalyed"......and without getting too graphic......
I think you all know what 40 is talkin' 'bout here!!!
'nuff said!!!
Think about it.
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 9/12/2007 8:32:46 PM | | Depends on how much that you value that particular thing during sex., if you absolutely love it and it pisses you off then yes, if you can get over it and move on then no | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 9/13/2007 2:08:45 AM |
What.....an.....Idiot
lol
Stradle him, and yell at him, SAY MY NAME, SAY MY NAME B***H!!!!!!
order him to, and if he sucks at it...lol no pun intended, if he is not the best at it, Whip him and YELL at him how you like it......lol
that'll shape him up in no time
 id defo go with this answer !!! | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 9/13/2007 2:51:20 AM | | i've tried staying with somebody like your guy once - it's a mistake - sex is part of a relationship and if it's not a fit there it'll affect the rest of he relationship and brings in a lot of frustration.... | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 9/13/2007 2:56:26 AM | Well, I'm talking as a guy here, but I kinda think this would apply to either side. I really wouldn't blame a girl for leaving a guy who wouldn't be willing to please her, heck, even if they're just willing to do it, but only begrudgingly. What's the fun if the person who's pleasing you is acting like it's a chore and not a joy to be doing that for you? I don't think I could enjoy any act with anyone unless they were enjoying it as well.
As for guys not willing to do it... what is with that? *laughs* Shows you how far they really are willing to go to please you I guess... heck, I think it even looks -fun-, myself. Anyway, back to the point, in such a situation I think I would. And in the reverse case if I ended up with a girl not willing to go down on me, I'd probably leave her, too. I'm more than willing and happy to do it for her, I think it's only fair to want it back :P | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 9/18/2007 9:04:56 PM | Hey I'm right here. I'm addicted to going down on a woman. I love it. I crave it. I'm very good at it. I have bought every book every dvd I can get my hands on. About how to give the woman you love mind blowing pleasure and fulfilling every need and desire that she has. I don't care about myself if I'm pleasured or not. What matters to me is that I have done everything I can to pleasure the lady I'm with. But one thing I don't understand is I have voiced that I'm looking for a woman that wants a guy who will bring her pleasure that shes only dream about. I can't find anyone. Well maybe I will find love someday. Oh I have had no complaints  | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 9/18/2007 9:17:26 PM |
Stradle him, and yell at him, SAY MY NAME, SAY MY NAME B***H!!!!!!
order him to, and if he sucks at it...lol no pun intended, if he is not the best at it, Whip him and YELL at him how you like it......lol
is it a bad thing that this statement is now a new fantasy of mine????
maybe I should of kept this to myself..... | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 9/18/2007 9:35:10 PM | If you have talked about all you have mentioned and masturbated in front of him, you are far from shy. He cried and said he had never gone down on a woman before ??? Did he attempt it after that confession ? Did you offer to guide him through it ? Have you tried watching a porn flick together ?
I myself would just move on. For someone you are "dating " no matter how great he is, you are not fullfilled ! I do not know your age or his but if he was married 10 years i will assume he is in his 30's or older...could he be gay ? You have said NOTHING good about the sex...at all ! | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 9/18/2007 9:36:15 PM | I wouldn't leave a guy over that, but then again, I hate it  (why is there no puking smiley on
here, anyway? WTF?!) so it wouldn't be an issue anyway. I have often read in the forums here,
how so many people place such a high priority on how good the sex is, in the relationship.
I guess the reason it is not such a big issue for me, is that I don't sleep with someone until I am
falling in love with them, usually. Therefore there is already a strong foundation for a good, solid
relationship. Sex is only one part of a relationship & shouldn't be the most important one, IMO.
After all, in later years, that changes. More important to have a good loving partner.
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and in response to post #603 by 40inmarch, that is just ridiculous! Lots of guys have different
taste/preferences in sex than you & that doesn't make them gay. And while many people of both
genders may develop dis-likes for certain types of sex due to bad experiences, that isn't universally
true. Like a preference for anything else (food, drink, etc), it is often just a matter of personal
preference. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 9/19/2007 12:38:47 AM | | I'd kick him to the curb. Men have so little of offer successful woment these days that if they can't even over up the tongue then what's the friggin' point of dating? | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 2/25/2008 1:54:31 PM | WELL IV BEEN SEEING A GUY THAT WONT GO DOWN ON ME AND HE SAID THAT IYTS NOT THAT HE DONT LIKE IT HE DONT WANT TO RISK HIS LIFE LOL SO I GUESS I NEED TO MOVE ON BECAUSE I LOVE THAT MMMMMMM   | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 3/29/2008 12:15:14 PM | Busty,
Refrain from using ALL CAPS!
Forum rules! Read them!
I have encountered women who wasn't
into 'down south', though we broke up
cause of personality problems.
Hmmmmmm....nicer personality......
liked 'southern hospitality'........
[note to self] | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 3/29/2008 12:23:13 PM | I wouldn't just drop a guy because the *first time* we were intimate he wasn't satisfying. Even after a few times, there's still probably alot to be discovered and you learn together. There could be alot of reasons why the guy you're dating isn't pleasuring you the way you want. Maybe he's inexperienced or shy, or even had a bad encounter. Talk to him about it openly. I'd start asking him what he likes to do, suggest other things besides oral for the time being, maybe he likes more kinky stuff, see what his reactions are and go from there.
Your last words of "besides if he licked me, he would probably suck at that too" sound like you're really frustrated and most likely that's having a negative impact on giving things a chance. If everything else is going well outside the bedroom, maybe just a little more work needs to be invested. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 3/29/2008 1:38:00 PM | Practice,practice,practice
I have had the great fortune of being raised by Lesbian Wolves
who taught me their secrets of building passions fire.The key to
arousal is in the art of the tease . The near touch,the almost
kiss. When your lover starts to force her body withering against
you. You know she's almost at the point of what Shakespeare
called "the little death" | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 3/29/2008 2:04:19 PM | When you're lookin to ask me, look down.
...and I've only had one woman who wasn't "into it" (giving) and it turned me off majorly. When it's obvious the person is only doing it because it's what you want, it's not a good recipe for success. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 3/29/2008 9:58:31 PM | Lol, love the way you described it. Well from a male point of view, i personally dont like going down on a girl, but if i feel like it at the time i will do, and i also think that if she goes down on you, its only right to return the favour.
You cant expect to be all take take take, You have to give something in the bedroom too, and if he isnt doing anything for you then you could leave him, or, next time you sleep together dont go down on him, and generally be a shit shag. see if he notices and asks why you refuse to go down on him. if he does, say, well im still waiting for you to return the favour.... i bet he does it then. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 3/30/2008 11:07:33 AM | | You cant in my opinion teach an old dog new tricks, and what a turn off if you knew someone was doing something out of sufference or purely to return the "favour" | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 3/30/2008 12:52:30 PM | well i can honestly say that if i really cared about the guy an he was cool on all levels,, then no i wouldnt leave him,, but I definalty would find somebody who luvs to eat p u s s y who could be my "special friend",, "hey it's the saying of what you dont do,somebody eles will"
of course now if i didnt give a s h i t about the guy then hell i would dump him quicker then a you could spell the name Oprah... | |
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