| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/5/2005 10:03:19 PM | hmmm... top ten reasons to enjoy it and be the best at it!!
10) a horny girl makes a good girl...ah bad girl...good girl... oh you know what i mean!
9) oral sex usually leads to round 2 ..... or three or " you are a GOD!
8) a woman subconciously feels obligated to return the favour especially after the big "O"
7) we enjoy doing things we are good at.... practice makes perfect....
6) a great way to take advantage of "recovery time" ... aka multitASSking....
5) hmmmmm.... tastes sooooooo good.....
4) she will actually brag to her friends about it .... your stock just went up!!
3) your odds of getting some increase dramatically compared to... "wannna do it?"
2) she may actually do your laundry, clean your car or even cook for you... just becuase...
1) rule #1... keep a smile on her face even if you dont like it... sometimes its not about you
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/6/2005 12:27:09 AM | I will never leave her I love giving oral sex to a women I love to go down on
on her if we had a serious relationship to gether I'm good as I go down on a
women giving oral sex I would like to hear from you thanks   | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/6/2005 8:24:37 AM | Okay we need to address like an earlier poster addressed the girl (which is totaly normal) that dont cum from actualy sex just from clitorial sex. I think guys need to know more about this and work it! :)
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/8/2005 4:12:32 PM | | I was married and with my husband for 12 years. In all that time he only did it 3 times. He always said he didn't like it, and no he was no good at it either. But my point is, it didn't make me love him any less just because he didn't do it. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/8/2005 5:27:49 PM | | Just because a woman wants good sex or sensual sex or adventurous sex does not mean she doesn't want a heart felt relationship. I'll tell you right now I've had relationships with guys who didnt want or like to go down on me. They were not even teachable I tried. Personally I feel if it was important enough to him, he would of figured it out by now. From what i read it seems like he hears what you are saying. He is probably hoping you'll shut up about it. It seems not to be important to him. Which is okay for him, there are other women out there that think like he does. Yet I sence from you that you are a sensual person and dont let anyone tell you that is not an okay thing to be. I've learned to always talk about these kind of things with any men I'm thinking of taking it to the next level with. If they seem prudish or more into missionary I dont pursue the relationship. It does not mean your cold or mean or selfish if you want sex to be fun. It's just who you are. The right men will understand that about you . Now you can try to convince him other wise. But your asking for alot of tears and disapointment when he either tries and looks disgusted or just ignores you. Now that that has been said. Ive known alot of men that enjoy going down on a girl. There are all kinds of people out there. And personally a prude and a sensual person should not be together. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/9/2005 9:26:48 AM | This is an easy one.
I don't think you should leave him, but I also don't think you should get your hopes up if it is something vital to your having a relationship with him.
I was with my wife for nine years. I wasn't fond of it either when we first started out. I would do it because I knew she liked it, but it wasn't my favorite thing to do. I really have no explanation for what changed, but I found myself enjoying it a lot later on. I think it may have just been the two of us feeding off one another. I've always found my favorite part of sex to be seeing, feeling, and listening to her satisfaction. I'm gonna have to guess that, as I became better at it (no coaching from her, I had to figure it out on my own) she enjoyed it more. The more she enjoyed it, the more I enjoyed it, the better I became, so on and so forth.
Now that I'm single, the only rule I have about it is, I won't do it until I get into a committed relationship with someone. There's no friggin' way I'm taking the chance of sticking my face where other guys.....
It's ultimately up to you, but if the guy is great in all other ways, give it time. It'll come around. If it's not something you can deal with, you gotta be true to yourself and move on. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/9/2005 10:46:53 AM | | zinfandella well i'm not the only one then well i have been seeing a guy and yes same problem won't look down there,won't finger , i said to him if i give you head then how come u won't do anything to me and he said"no way i'm not into that " and i honestly thought thought i was his first cus he surprised me, until he told me he had a 2 year old son | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/9/2005 10:54:17 AM | | Yes. (Unless I wanted to marry him - which most likely would not apply in this case b/c I think partners need to be interested in the same things (especially sexual things) and if not, they gotta be at least willing to please the other even if they may not enjoy it.) | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/9/2005 11:32:19 AM | Yeh right, and if a girl won't go down on me and I dump her I am an ***hole. But I guess it is ok for a women to dump a guy for the same reasons.
WTF go buy a dildo tongue some lub and away you go with it.
or tell j=him that and here we go again. That if he won't you will be tempted to find some one who will on the side. Hell if I said that, I'd be an ***hole again. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/9/2005 7:22:55 PM | | I don't think you'd be an azzhole if you didn't pursue a woman that refused oral sex. Not at all. It's all in the courtesy and respect we show one another. You can back away slowly and be kind or you can dump em and be an azzhole. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/10/2005 11:04:48 AM | | it sucks when you find someone great and then you have to teach them.. but it can be fun too... well my moto is if ya want me to go down, then you do too.. sorry but thats just the way it is | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/12/2005 3:53:56 AM | I've never had a problem with going down on my ex's. In fact, I love it. Eating out a girlfriend makes me so horney! I love to lick up and down around their **** and to gently lick, nibble and suck on their clit. I also like to stick my tongue into their **** opening and lick out any of their cum that's in there. It's ironic, actually, because my ex didn't like me to eat her out...at least not until she was totally into it. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/12/2005 4:03:30 AM | | I don't understand why he'd be so afraid of playing with you and eating you out. Those are two of my favorite things. I know that everyone has their own nitch in life, but still. At a place that I used to work at, I became known as Fingers. I let a couple close friends of mine in on a secret that I used to use my finger do figure 8's inside of my girlfriends crotch. It used to make her have so many orgaisms that a puddle of cum would form on the mattress. | |
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| Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 11/12/2005 6:45:57 AM | | LOL. I can't beleive a man like this still exists. That's the first thing I wanted to do with my ex once it got sexual. I'm ruining my cuddly nice guy persona by saying this, but I could eat a kitty all damn day. I love to go south. Any man who don't should not only be left by the girl he's with, but he should be shot!!! | |
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