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Posted: 10/30/2005 7:46:23 PM | You are seriouly worried over nothing ... there are so many meanings for a hug
Just take it as it comes ... if she's still e-mailing you then things are looking good
Just go with the flow and not worry about it ... take things slow with her - that way you really don't have too worry
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Posted: 10/30/2005 7:53:07 PM | I gotta admit at this point I'm just overwhelmed with the positive response I've gotten on here.
Hell, if I knew good advice was as easy as posting a question, I would have done it LONG before now!  | |
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Posted: 10/30/2005 8:03:27 PM | LOL..........whelp and agreement to go on a 2nd date is good....
But if it starts out at the coffee shop and ends there.... then Ya have something to worry about!!!!
If ya decide you guys don't want the date to end and you move onto something else.. That's a good sign!!!! | |
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Posted: 10/30/2005 8:10:37 PM | The last date, origionally, was supposed to be just a walk in the park. We both had decided it prolly wouldn't last more than 20-30 minutes, and like I said we ended up talking for over 2 hours.
She called tonite around 9:00....the convo lasted for 30 minutes, even tho I was distracted by a football game (and she knew it...I told her I was watching it!). We've talked about every other day since the date, so I think that's a good sign too. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2005 8:13:25 PM | ^^ That's definately a good sign! It's not a  That's for sure!!!
Man... Now I'm missing all the fun stuff in Dallas!!!! I better hear and update that u took her someplace fun afta coffee! | |
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Posted: 10/30/2005 8:17:06 PM | The date is set for Tuesday nite (So I won't have to miss Monday Nite Football!  )
I'll put a post here on tueday nite or Wednesday and let everybody know how it went. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2005 8:34:06 PM | Ravens beat the Steelers?! Are you smoking the Ricky Williams weed?!
Ravens will get CRUSHED beneath the Steelers heel like so many bugs.....
And it was a mutual thing. She has bible study that night, so it worked out well both ways. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2005 8:42:57 PM | wow ppl still get flowers on a first date ? *pouts..... I don't get flowers period lmaoooooo
geeeeeeeeeeesh
Yer on the right track spidey... :) keep us posted and wish you luck | |
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Posted: 10/30/2005 8:57:52 PM | | When you start seeing someone, don't get side tracked when you are on the phone with them, because thats a total turn off. Atleast I think so. You know people are different, but if you buy her a flower why you are out, its a lot sweeter, and makes a person feel special. Buy it on the way taking her home, so she don't have to carry it all night. That way you got all of the browny points. Oh yea, its not good to kiss and tell, incase she is on this site. She may hold back so the whole world don't know what she is up to. Even more so scence its in the new stages. You do things how you want, but I thought I would just add my two cents worth in there. People are different, so who knows if it will help. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2005 10:45:56 PM | Worrying over nothing.
If she really wasnt interested she would have shook your hand. Then be worried !
I dont kiss on the first date, Mostly because Im nervous or shy or I just dont want to give the wrong impression. Kissing to me is kind of an intimate thing.[ Im not referring to a quick peck] But I hug them if I like them.
first scenario -She could have been nervous / shy. Give it another chance.
other scenario - yes It could mean she hasnt made her mind up, but nothing wrong with that either. Give it another chance
I think just ask her out again...you will soon get your answer | |
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Posted: 10/30/2005 10:47:30 PM | IMNSHO/Experience - I hug only if I feel comfortable with the other person.
More about boundaries for me.... where is it written that we must share our personal space with everyone we interact with
A hug with a  is the next step (second get-together) | |
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Posted: 10/31/2005 2:08:18 AM | | I think it means that she likes you! Most women aren't going to jump you on the first date :). Personally, I like a kiss and a hug at the door kind of thing, but each woman is different. I wouldn't worry about it - the fact that she stayed with you to talk for a few hours speaks volumes. Women who aren't interested, will typically cut it short. | |
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Posted: 11/1/2005 8:22:04 PM | Well we went out tonite, and she basically said that she doesn't see this working out long term, BUT that she still wanted to call me for advice on other guys. "Oh, we can still be friends!"
I told her I wasn't gonna be one of her girlfriends and that it's not right for her to dump me and then expect me to help her attract other guys.
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Posted: 11/1/2005 8:41:37 PM | ...that it's not right for her to dump me...
Some chatting, 1st date, and an uneventful 2nd date (I'm assuming) don't constitute a relationship therefore I don't think she really dumped you. I think it was a relationship that hadn't really started, yet.
Your first feelings or instincts were correct. Usually when you feel that way, something has given you the reason.
Quit wasting your time thinking about her and move on. That's my opinion.
Most people keep a few on the line in case the others don't work out, maybe that's what she was doing with you? | |
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Posted: 11/2/2005 7:47:17 AM | Hugs are a what I would call a "good start", especially on a first date.
As it was said, a handshake would be pretty bad.
If it's a high-five, though? Me thinks you should forget about it. :) | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 8:26:58 PM | folks, folks, folks
did you see what moonstarr wrote at the beginning of this string?
1) she might be shy
2) she talked to you for 2 hours
3) how many times are told by society that guys are supposed to take the lead? she might be waiting for you to sweep her off her feet?
seize the moment. Do what you feel and call her, kiss her, and get past this discussion!
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...and I'd never kiss a guy unless they kiss me first...I'm way tooo shy..
