| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 11/4/2005 10:13:59 PM | PLEASE, let me solve the mystery. I am the "elusive woman" that spidey has so "affectionately" spoken of. I do not kiss on first dates. I am traditional. I believe that the man should ALWAYS make the first move. And for the record, I did use the "cliche" we can still be friends because spidey is a cool guy, extremely intelligent, and a fantastic conversationalist; however, I never asked him for dating advice. That would just be rude and thoughtless. I should also tell you that he did give me one rose and it was beautiful. MYSTERY SOLVED.  | |
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| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 11/6/2005 11:22:51 AM | Dfwgirl.... that's how a lot of us good girls are!!! We don't USUALLY kiss on a 1st date!
The "cliche" about being friends is our nice way not to hurt someones feelings.... although it still sux to be on the receiving end..... of the "cliche"
I have to tell you dfwgirl... I dated a guy that on the 1st date I never thought i'd go out with him again... the 2nd date I kind of felt the same way...but man.. by the 3rd or 4th date he had me!!!! We didn't have instant chemistry... but it sure did come along and knock me over! | |
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| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/17/2009 11:09:03 AM | | what kinda hug was it, was it legs 2 ft apart and the "lean in hug" if so, yer out! If your legs were touching, much more intimate and a good sign. | |
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| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/17/2009 11:21:09 AM |
what kinda hug was it, was it legs 2 ft apart and the "lean in hug" if so, yer out! If your legs were touching, much more intimate and a good sign.
I was just gonna say if it was an as.s out hug then may as well move on.
lean in hugs imply I like you but this is as far as we'll become to getting physical. | |
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| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/17/2009 11:53:19 AM | | Go in for the kiss next time and show her you got balls. She might wanna play with them the next time . Nothing attracts women more than confidence so grow your pea size balls to grapefruits. Trust me, she'll apprecaite eating your grapefruits more than she will peas. | |
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Posted: 9/17/2009 2:09:25 PM | | DFWGIRL, so for the record to be clear, this guy is sunk. Because by using the cliche " just be friends" you've let him down easy and there's no intent on your behalf to further the dating process with this guy. Is this correct, yes or no??? | |
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Posted: 9/17/2009 2:23:42 PM | Ummmm....people.....read the date of the original post... This date happened over FOUR YEARS AGO!!! You can dispense with the advice.....
And since his profile is still up, I would at least assume it didn't work out after the tree hugging........ | |
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| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/17/2009 8:43:01 PM | | One of the most disappointing and irritating things to me, is when at the end of the night, if all goes well, the man expects a kiss. Really? If you just met, give it time. I had someone actually have the nerve to ASK for a kiss, after realizing I wasn't moving in for one and I was totally furious and turned off. There are certain things you don't ask a woman for cause if she wants if, she'll go after it | |
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| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/18/2009 12:00:06 AM | There may be better looking guys out there, but it doesn't mean they have better "Game" than you. So get that nonsense out of your head.
As for the hug, it could be anything. Maybe she was waiting for YOU to take control and go for a kiss. Maybe she doesn't kiss on the first date. Maybe she hasn't warmed up to you yet. Maybe she's not attracted at all. Unless we were there, it's kind of hard to judge what she wants just on one hug.
Keep talking to her and see where it goes. If you guys hang out again, start touching her more. You can sort of see if she's digging you or not by touching her. | |
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| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/18/2009 1:57:20 AM | ..if she meets up with you a second time, then she's interested, or at least, interested in seeing if she's interested :)
a hug can mean many things, i'd go by her rate of response to you to gauge her interest, more than by the hug | |
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Posted: 9/18/2009 12:53:43 PM | | What is wrong with just a hug after you first meet!? Yes, it is difficult to determine whatever the other person is thinking....Answer? Simply ask! A second date is a sign of interest...maybe you will get a real passionate and sweet good night kiss then....if you deserve it...lol | |
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Posted: 9/19/2009 5:46:38 AM | | A hug is way better than a handshake. Consider yourself lucky and go for the second date. | |
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Posted: 9/19/2009 5:48:44 AM | | Why are people replying to a 4 year old thread? | |
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Posted: 9/19/2009 6:10:56 AM | Because they can?
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| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/19/2009 9:18:52 AM | | When girls go on dates and they really like the guy, there is this problem that goes thru the girl's head of how to end the date. Kissing may seem too forward, handshake or no touch seems too standoffish. Personally, if you got a hug, you must be doing something right! A lot of girls, myself included, are worried about giving the wrong impression on a first date. It sets the whole tone for how your possible relationship may go. If you start out with a bang, maybe it will just fizzle, or the guy will possibly expect more the next time. I wouldn't worry. Give her a second and third date and let her make her own pace. Don't get so down on yourself. Sometimes a hug means more than just a hug. | |
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| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/19/2009 10:01:24 AM |
I told her I wasn't gonna be one of her girlfriends and that it's not right for her to dump me and then expect me to help her attract other guys.
Do you guys think I was right?
You were EXACTLY right! And congrats for being one of VERY few nice guys that have BALLS!!!
She'll probably kick herself later on for passing on you...
hold out for a good woman who knows enough to appreciate what she has in her hand! | |
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| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/19/2009 10:15:54 AM | Your definately worrying over nothing. Some girls like to take things slow. My homegirls do this MOST of the time....so
Don't expect her to just grab your head and start giving you some tongue. | |
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| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/19/2009 2:09:19 PM | | THe first time I'm meeting someone I'm kind of in observation mode. I mean, I need some neutral time after to think about it. So, I don't kiss on the first date, but give a hug. And that doesn't mean that I don't like him and that doesn't mean that I'm very slow. It just means that I just met him and my walls are still up until I decided that , yes, he's someone that I want to let my walls down for. I don't kiss just anyone. | |
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| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/19/2009 2:43:00 PM | | I pretty much only hug on the meet and greet wether or not I'm into them and I assume it's the same sort of thing for alot of women. I would find it odd that someone thought I'd be uninterested based solely on a parting hug versus a parting kiss. You can make out for 10mins and they still might not be interested to actually date you :P | |
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| does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/20/2009 12:23:20 PM | | a hug is more affectionate than a handshake! You say she is a great catch. Maybe she doesn't like to kiss complete strangers/prefers to get to know you better. You'll know more how she feels as things progress or fizzle. Only time will tell. Expecting a kiss on the first date is for highschool. Adults recognize that intimacy takes time. | |
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