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Posted: 11/11/2005 3:08:42 PM | I'd just like to talk with a Lady that wants a lasting, monogamous LTR...! . .{ Just to TALK!!}
Not serial Bloggers...Not men-bashers..Not golddiggers...A Nice..Friendly..Lady...
...keep the arguments for a Chat-room...!!
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Posted: 11/12/2005 9:25:01 PM | | I "date" more than one person untill i find one that really catches my attention.. then I lavish all of my affection on her.. LOL.. | |
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Posted: 11/12/2005 9:28:29 PM | | If she stimulates me more then sexually and my interest is more then vague I will concentrate soley on her and getting to know her but its a catch 22 as well. I like to also feel she is putting as much effort into getting to know me not just keeping me on a leash in case something better catches her attention. | |
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Posted: 11/12/2005 11:33:47 PM | | well, I'm concentrating on only one person...I've never been good at the 'dating' thing...only relationships, therefore...I'm working on a relationship... | |
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Posted: 11/12/2005 11:39:37 PM | If there are any girlie girls left out there who are old fashioned enough to want to put their egg in one basket, I promise to stroke it.
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Posted: 11/12/2005 11:50:36 PM | Nope.
What's the point?
I'm doing this so that I can find someone I adore.
I don't need to kill time. Just whip em through.
I want to meet as many people as possible.
And I won't settle for second best.
In the sense of searching, I guess quantity is important - statistically increase your odds of finding Mr. Right. Right?
When I find Mr. Right, I'll stop. ;) | |
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Posted: 11/13/2005 12:30:21 AM | For me personally,,just one. Lets say for example you are getting to know 3 people at the same time. Obviously you like them all enuff to want to get to know them right? So,,what happens down the road when you've been on dates with alll 3 and you eventually decide you only want to continue with the one? 'Hey other guys,,,sorry,,,,but ive made my choice and oops well,,its not you! Thanks tho,,for wasting so much of your time on me!'
Nah,,,i'lll stick with concentrating on only one atta time. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2005 8:33:20 PM | | Great thread and very timely for me. I read most of the posts and found good points in the many different opinions. Myself I totally focus on one person, that's just my nature. For me it's okay to chat with several people until I really start to like someone, then I stick with that person alone. The last thing I would want is a situation that's been mentioned where I have to tell people I've hung out with or even had long continuous chats with "alright I'm done lookin you can go now". I find it best for me to treat others the way I'd like to be treated. Anyway thanks for the thread I was worried that I may be the only one that felt this way, but I'm super happy that theirs others. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2005 9:24:38 PM | If you walked into a bar and said half the things to someone that are said on here you would be beaten. Chatting, idle chit chat, learning and getting to know, more than one. To me once you start to discover about that other person and want to see if the spark exists, its one on one to me.
Face it, if you walked into a bar and started talking to 5 or 7 women all at the same time learning and romancing all at once. How far would you really get? Maybe 30 seconds before the words jerk or even better came out. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2005 12:27:56 AM | I talk to lots of people, go out on "first meetings" meetings with lots of people. If I am interested in actually dating someone, the I just concentrate on them. When you shop around for a car u dont just try one for a month. You look at a LOT in a short time, gather information, spend a liitle time with each, then pick one to keep for a while. | |
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Posted: 11/22/2005 11:44:06 AM | | It's really hard to concentrate on someone if you can't see them all the time so I date several people at once. IF they want to get a little more serious, I need a time dedication as I don't wait up for people who talk. Actions speak louder than words and if you want more commitment, you need to give something in return. It takes time to get to know someone and if someone says, "I want to be with just you", they better prove it because many people talk a lot and don't actually show dedication. Plus sop many people come and go that I like to keep my options open and date casually with several candidates. | |
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Posted: 11/22/2005 11:53:25 AM | | Well you are not juggling if you are being upfront that you are dating with hopes of finding someone special... My attitude is if they would like to pursue something serious with you they will show you that.. otherwise what the hell am I devoting all my time and energy to you for? If you are that inerested you will show me that.. Otherwise, I continue to see other people. No one is left in the dark... It's more of a motivator if you ask me... Sh*t or get off the pot.. You won't have to juggle when the cowrads run. The one who is worth your time will understand that you have options and you aren't going to just settle for the first one who acts serious. You can get to know more than one person at a time. No one said you had to be sleeping with them.. you're just dating. :) | |
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Posted: 11/22/2005 12:46:26 PM | ...carissma,..can you elaborate a little ...I am very stupid and sometimes I dont' quite get what people are saying..
Are you saying talk to and see one person and no one else??
Exclusive..? No telephone, email , or sly winks at any other person other than the one you have set your sights on??/
If that is what you are asking hon ,..I would call that "married"...or at the very best ..confining... | |
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Posted: 11/22/2005 1:28:03 PM | | Well since my fav fanasty is to watch my partner go down on another woman that is usually what I think about if I am not too busy concentrating on pleasuring my partner. Now I just need to find a partner with the same fantasy lol! | |
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