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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 12/23/2005 8:04:26 PM | Hi!
Money matter to me! If I don't have money I will not be able to treat my women to the best places such as: good food, good vacation, dress, gifts, and parties.
But then money without love is what one of my Aunt is facing she is plenty rich but she is in a relationship that driven by material benifits. So love and money are both needed and a balance is a must. More money less love, more love less money.
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 12/23/2005 8:34:13 PM | | Not that I am looking for a man with loads of money, but he better be able to pay for his own meal, once in a while. I mean, nothing is more unattractive than a man who asks you to buy his deodorant for him. I'm not his mom who gives him pocket money! | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 105 | |
| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 12/24/2005 12:26:06 PM | The women here seem to say they want a guy with a heart and that it is the inside that counts but I am sure that a guy with money would surpass their expectations no matter what is inside as long as he is generous with it .
I am a generous dude , in debt because of a lot of women and if I had alot of money , I would be surounded by women and never alone . So true dude . | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/5/2006 6:54:44 AM | Well, i have noticed alot of women going with men for just the cash and when its gone, they leave them, alot of women do it and the men do it too, so its not a woman thing.
My only Ambition is to live, but for a relationship it isn't good enough, all that matters to me is paying the bills and JUST having enough for power, gas, rent and food...i am still working on this.
All i want is a woman that cares for me, as a person, no matter how much money i make....1,000,000 per year or just 12,000 per year. (1 million?? i wish!!!)
From seeing all my mates that have got money from their grand-parents passing and stuff like that, they were overweight and alot of the women that said they were too ugly to be human and not worth a second of their time, were all over them and when the money was gone, they were gone.
I wouldn't want a woman to be in my life if she was only interested in me because i was successful, its a put off, if she finds me interesting as a person, then thats cool.
I am a nice guy, i think women should be treated well. (ie. no verbal abuse, no physical abuse etc.)
I am romantic, i love the cuddling and stuff like that, but women don't seem to like that no more, all that seems to matter is:
1: looks (they need someone to show off to their mates)
2: money (so, they can stay at home and do whatever they want...trust me, i have met alot of women like that)
3: clubbing (if the guy doesn't like clubs then they are boring...thats what alot of women say to me)
4: Pubs (if the guy doesn't drink, they aren't men or something to that effect and i get that regularly)
Alot of women go with those 4 needs...well, the women i seem to meet anyway. lol
some women have been decent, but they seem to disappear | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/5/2006 7:13:57 AM | Not all women want that. There are some, I won't argue about that but you can't generalize us all together like that. Having a job is more important than how much he makes, to me anyway. As long as he's trying, that's what counts.  | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/20/2006 4:17:38 PM | In all honesty, I think women tend to gravitate toward men in a favorable financial position for much the same reason many males will seek a female that exhibits certain qualities that translate well to spousal potential, (i.e. moral integrity, emotional stability... )
Speaking solely for myself, I don't necessarily need to be with an affluent partner... I don't require that someone lavishes me with delicacies and fine dining (although I certainly wouldn't argue =p). However, if, by chance, a relationship between myself and another person progressed toward a more serious committment, where the potential for offspring arises, it is part of a woman's nature to ascertain whether or not the children she brings into this world will be adequately provided for. In essence, I think it comes down to considering the "bigger picture", and thinking responsibly about what might be most beneficial for the people I bring into this world.
Another factor to take into account relates to recognition of the fact that financial issues can place so much unwanted strain on a serious relationship (marital), and can introduce damaging limitations for the children involved (think post-secondary opportunities). I think I read somewhere, that nearly 90% of divorce relates primarily to problematic monetary situations. | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/20/2006 4:55:18 PM | | I would rather make lots of money on my own than get a dude that makes lots of money. I wouldn't turn them away if they asked me out though, provided that I feel that initial physical attraction. I've turned down financial investors, and other 'rich' men who makes over 100K because I did not feel the attraction. go figure *shrug* | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/20/2006 10:45:48 PM | Have been wondering all about this in the past week. I just moved to a bigger city to 1) make more moola as I've been stuck making the same pitance since I started the last job 10 years ago and 2) to be closer to my fav guy. who, by the way, makes less than I did.
Now that I'm between jobs, is he as interested as he was in the girl who spent more moola than she can now that she is between?
Hummm....
I asked him if he would move to another state with me if I landed a really great job there.
He said no. So he's not after my money? Or is he just so not into moving? Or he's just not into me?
Better call Dr. Phil.... | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/21/2006 7:01:35 AM | | I agree SWEETIEGUY81.....But there is some women 20% could careless if by the time your 40 you literly do not have a pot to piss in.....As a result from doing drugs all his life,no goals,Ex-con,In out of prison,no job/drivers lincenes....Basically a bum....You be surprise the women that would love men like this...But meanwhile complaing to every TOM,DICK and SUE...Why can t i find a nice hard working guy....After i see or hear a woman that has been in this situation,I can not run away from her fast enough..I could careless about this type of screw up woman....A friggin basket case.....I do not do sloppy seconds....But these same women sit there and say they want responsble guy..RIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!But the sad part about it they will have kids by this loser......Now who pays the price then...The tax payer......Then meanwhile he bails of course....Then she does not know why he does not see his kids or pays child support....WEll DUUUUUUUUUUGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 113 | |
| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/21/2006 10:34:57 AM | I work for the military , and most of the guys in my office have been divorce at least once , I see a pattern.... guy who loses money , reguardless of who is the cause , his or her spending , the dire in the red money wise will cause the wifes of these men going to get divorce papers , virtually every guy i know, which is a couple of hundred , have gotten divorse papers served to them , main cause ? money problems and wanting to up grade to a guy with more, eventually is my guess.
The few women that work with me complain sometimes that their guy has a job that sucks and pays little and they have to keep up the slack, yes what guys traditionally and normally do , other women complin about fights because the bills are so high , invaribly , it seams that the guy drives an older car than she .
Yes money is the factor for most women, guys are a commodity , especially an economically successful man .
It still seems, that generally woman sees a man as an economic support , whether partial or complete. | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/21/2006 10:44:56 AM | sdude
buddy you better disconnect your direct tv and stop watching Jerry springer or something, what a crock, first thing dont confuse the gold digging women with your average woman, Ive known a few men who has lost their jobs and the wife hasnt left, while im sure that has happened its not a high percentage.
I know a lot of women up here who doesnt see a man as ecomomic support, maybe its different in your circles but its not like that up here Jack. | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/21/2006 10:48:29 AM | | I am more then capable of taking care of myself, what a man has money wise doesn't matter to me..as long as I don't end up supporting him we're good to go...I'm a lil bitter about this, my ex was a lazy farmer who kept sayin next year would be better. Well perhaps if he had gotten his ass out of bed or the bar he'd of gotten something accomplished, in the mean time i was running the farm and working...so if he can't look after himself i'm so outta there... | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/21/2006 10:58:28 AM | | Also remember it doesn't necessarily work the other way - there are plenty of rich guys (or ones who earn very well) that find it really hard to get a woman. Money does not make you a success with the ladies. | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/21/2006 11:00:19 AM | oh looky a super hero, just what we need...
perhaps it's the rich guys attitude, he assumes all women are after his money? Or he assumes he's to good for certian women because of his money..who knows.. | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/21/2006 11:09:30 AM | I agree with country sugar. My dad always told me its just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as a poor man. Well ive always fallen for the poor ones. Men with money have attitudes and feel they are superior, Ive never wanted to go beyond a first date with them! So, Ill take the average joe with the average salary who treats me well. | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/21/2006 11:13:39 AM | | CountrySugar: I just meant that it's way too easy to stereotype about this. I know shy quiet guys who made a fortune in the dot-com boom, who struggle just the same as the rest of us. I assure you they don't go around all high and mighty about it - these guys just aren't that type. | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/21/2006 11:18:56 AM | Oh sorry Darlin I hope I didn't come across as snide I didn't mean to be..
and you are correct I am sure there are alot of great ones out there as well, but I just think that men with money are a bit more cautious .. untrusting even...as is normal I would think..but what do I know..I'm not a rich man lol.. | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/21/2006 11:42:20 AM | Mr fly
I do not watch tv unless the simpsons are on , I wanna be homer , lazy and with just enough money and a loving wife and kids .
Only what I see , you can discount and insult what I see , that is okay , divorce is so bad in my surroundings that there is even a course started for the military on how to marry a good spouse , same course fo the women , it is on the internet .
Unless you live in stepford , where all wives seem happy and no one gets a divorce., maybe you do , I wanna live there.
Crap , country girl , you mean it is normal and acceptable for a guy to support a woman and not the other way around ? see you proved it .
Lets get married , you can support me , I will give you all the sugar you want , I want your money , you want myyyyy....candy , damn too bad it looks like a turtle in hiding  | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 125 | |
| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 2/21/2006 12:09:47 PM | Well , I did not mean you said it ,
But it has been true and accepted almost from the begining of time . and still is now . A guy who is supported is usually seen as a loser from both sides , that is a normal and acceptable response .
On the ohter had , I really wish it would be 50 50 , I am old school , I would love to support a wife once again if she wanted to .
That damn turnip truck was way high , doctors said no damage was done where no damage was present in the past , dead brain cells cannot be damaged more .
Yes I am weird , I love the way I am , if you see me laughing and talking to myself in the street , do not worry , I am just telling myself jokes .  | |
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