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Posted: 11/3/2005 10:03:54 AM | | well that song is wat i went through etc and it means alot 2 me x | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 10:04:51 AM |
now have i seen those serving wenches somewhere before ? | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 10:11:13 AM | i think wot red meant was half the people who report a rape in the UK are the people who say yes, wake up then realise they meant no.
"assualt with a friendly weapon"
half the rapes dont get taken seriously in this country, especially with young girls, which i think is a joke.
im sorry for wotever your going through missbad, it gets a little easier although it never truely goes away but i will get easier, trust me xxxx | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 10:17:59 AM | Not sure Sam, but the boobs dangling in the beer isn't too hygenic.
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Posted: 11/3/2005 10:31:34 AM | bags me lick the froth off them first.....
i was asking for a top-up not ... tops off...?..... but i prefer their take on this...... | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 10:37:39 AM | I thought that wench was a little bit deaf. We'll both lick the froth off, too expensive to waste in here. Now was yours the one on the left or the one on the right?
Catch you later Sam....going to feed me face.
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Posted: 11/3/2005 10:38:58 AM | | me too.... | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 10:47:33 AM | | how come this post has turned into such a joke???? | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 10:54:00 AM | Theres a lot of talk in the press these days about date rape where drugs have been used on the victim for the purpose of forced sexual intercourse
has anyone hasd any experiences to share either forst or second hand and the impact of this on the people involved? | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 10:54:57 AM | i dont really wanna talk about my experience
but this post is no laughing matter | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 10:55:22 AM | i dont really wanna talk about my experience
but this post is no laughing matter | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 10:58:34 AM | absolutelyhelan, its a terrble thing to have suffered,
its not a trivial matter one iota.
sorry to hear you had such an experience.
obviously painful to you did you get any professional counselling to help you though/ | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 11:03:22 AM | i wasnt raped like missbad but i was sexually abused when i was younger for a number of years.
no i never told anyone about my experience untill my sister realised something was wrong.
i know how missbad feels in a way and it really is hard to talk about these things.
i never had any councelling, i just put it to the back of my mind and tried to forget but it comes back to haunt you everytime you start a new relationship which is why im still single. | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 11:07:53 AM | | aww helan thats so bad, real sorry to heasr that hun, looks like you and missbad need a lot of support,maybe the pair of you can inspire each other in a way to move on | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 11:11:04 AM | im ok really hun xx thanks anyway
mine was alot of years ago, im just hear to help missbad get through this x | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 11:18:31 AM | yeah me too
cant possibly feel what she's feeling, but like with my ex i can offer as much support and be available to listen when needed | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 11:20:02 AM | your a good friend that anyone is lucky to have ya know captain.
i think missbad will really appreciate it too x | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 11:21:17 AM | aww shucks helean
give me a hug before i blush | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 11:24:08 AM | great big hugs xx  | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 11:29:56 AM | ok folks this is a serious thread
please read the previous posts carefully
any experiences, advice or support you can offer will be greatly appreciated
Thank you | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 11:33:11 AM | | lets just say i deal with the after effects of an abused person everyday she has just started to come to terms with the fact she was abused as a child.. most of this is way to personal for me to talk about but her so called bast..d of a step father i want to piss and sh.t on his grave.ad no it was not my own dad.he was more than a father to me and my sister... miss helan and miss bad if ever you need a friend i will be there for yopu both.... | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 11:37:07 AM | @helan
No, this thread is not a joke and no one has suggested that it is. Like all threads they will stray off centre due to spontaneity of thought and thats plausible and expected.
we were talking earlier about positve thoughts / exercises...... you may not realise this but in mental health discussion circles and mutual- help circles apart from all the tears / anger / and a million and one emotions etc...also a lot of humour goes on too - its part of the medicine...and coping strategies etc...
Its a 'heavy title thread', an important one too. We still strive to find a balance during our conversations ....or else others could start to avoid it. | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 11:37:34 AM | | I second that girls if you want a friend x | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 12:23:48 PM | Missbad, Helan and anyone else ........... I just wanted to suggest a couple of things that have really helped me to cope with my past experiances.
Write letters to the people that hurt you, you don't need to send the letters, writing them is the important thing. The letters can say everything you want/need to say to that person, somehow the sheer act of writing and expressing your anger and pain really helps............. I wrote quite a few letters to the people that had abused me, never sent any of them, I burnt them! For me it was a very cleansing thing.
The other thing, and by far the most important, is to forgive yourself, it was NOT YOUR FAULT. We all blame ourselves in some way for the terrible things that happen to us, there is always that thought that we should have done something to avoid the situation or not allowed it to happen in the first place.
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Posted: 11/3/2005 12:40:29 PM | hi ty 4 all ya kind remarks do u know i didnt think many peeps would respond 2 the question i asked so i was very shocked thankyou made me realise im not alone. But as wulfie hi... i have wrote letters b4 i havent burnt them i thought mayb if i had them 2 read it would make me realise im not a bad person im a honest careing person i just need 2 watch my step sumtimes as i seem 2 get hurt alot.ty x | |
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