| What would you do?
Posted: 11/3/2005 5:58:19 PM | If its ended its over.
If you have a relationship with no name you have no relationship.
What should you do? Whatever you want to do.
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| What would you do?
Posted: 11/3/2005 6:12:16 PM | If you mutually agreed that it is over, then it is over and he has no claim to your time and what you do with it. If you agreed to take a 'break', and he will be dating others then you should definitely do the same.
A friend of mine got involved with a guy...his life was a mess, but they were so compatible. He needed 'time' to get his life straight...one month has so far become 6 months...Why waste your life waiting for someone who is not 'into' you enough to work through the issues?
The real question is 'Why are you willing to wait in the wings while he is out doing whatever he pleases?' He sounds like a controlling person who wants what he wants...time...the option of having you (or not) if and when he wants...
Good luck with your decision...
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| What would you do?
Posted: 1/3/2006 4:52:49 AM | | froggy.... I refer you back to your own Profile when i quote, "Most of all, I want someone who compliments my life, not someone who complicates it". It's not fair for him to ask that of you. If you have ended, or put on hold, your relationship then you are free and open to meet new people, guys, whatever. He should have no say in it, no matter how nice of a guy he is. Far too often, good intentions or not, I have seen men put women on the shelf like that and there they sit. You said it yourself... they wait, but then the man needs more time... and more time... and more time. Move on. If he's still there in the spring, or you haven't found someone new, then maybe it's meant to be. But don't avoid seeing someone or having guy friends over or meeting someone new in hopes this one works out. If it's supposed to, it will. | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 1/3/2006 5:07:28 AM | This sound like it could turn sour very quickly
If you already have different view about things then it's likely that there will be more
If you're waiting for him to get himself together you could be wasting your time
If you're his inspriation what will inspire him to do other stuff?
The fact that you're here already tells u that it's not something u like or want (to be controled)
If someone told me to wait and I had a feeling of doubt. I would so go exploring, at 22 I would have waited around at 33 life's not like that.
A man does not complete me, he should only make me better.
Waiting around is only wasted minutes | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 1/3/2006 5:12:58 AM |
Actaully hes very mature and very selfless. Thats one of the reasons why I dont understand why I am not 'allowed' to meet, date or hang out with my guy friends. He is not a jealous person and I just dont understand his thinking at this point
Complete contradiction of terms.
Run!!!
Run very very fast. This is a control freak in the worst way.(IMO) | |
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jimb77
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Joined: 8/30/2005
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| What would you do?
Posted: 1/3/2006 5:22:01 AM | | You "prefer not to say" marital status and you "have kids". You ask for help and you defend him when the 1st reply isn't what you want to hear. You are on a collision course. Then you add major details that he needs a liver transplant. How old is he and why does he need one? or what caused it? | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 1/4/2006 5:52:03 PM | Read your forum post again...and tell me, what you think is wrong with this picture? If you can't see it...let me help you out:
YOU ARE BROKEN UP WITH HIM, AND YET HE WANTS YOU TO REMAIN UNAVAILABLE TO ALL OTHER MEN. | |
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