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 cherokeee51465

Joined: 5/1/2006
Msg: 301
Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 9/1/2006 2:51:08 PM
Hell No!!! I like him to be a man, however I am pretty aggressive myself.
 Mrs.Bucket

Joined: 8/9/2006
Msg: 302
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Posted: 9/1/2006 3:07:11 PM
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>NO<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
 stephie638

Joined: 6/20/2006
Msg: 303
Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 9/1/2006 6:50:05 PM
no i dont at all...be a man and do me how i need to be done!!! be a man, be strong and agressive with me, make me feel like woman!
 Bellatrix

Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 304
Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 9/1/2006 7:05:08 PM
Ha!!! That would be so pointless cause nothing would get accomplished! I prefer to be the submissive one, during sex at least, everything else leading up to that point I am usually the aggressor.
 Huggablehottie

Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 305
Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 9/1/2006 7:13:01 PM
Haha!
It depends on the woman, of course!!
 bdjones911

Joined: 8/29/2006
Msg: 306
Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 9/2/2006 4:05:06 AM
Hell yes! There's nothing wrong with me being on top and riding until I fall off. I don't mind him giving me that occasional slap on the ass and asking who's my daddy either. Variety, is the spice of life.
 princesspeony

Joined: 10/4/2006
Msg: 307
Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 12/3/2006 2:03:51 PM
While I sometimes like to take control, I love to be the one taking orders... I couldn't deal with permanently submissive guy.....
 Bored2hell

Joined: 8/27/2006
Msg: 308
Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 12/3/2006 2:39:04 PM
^^^ "READ my LIP'S!!!!!!" Removal pants make it easier to read
I only know what I've experienced and the answer is "No they don't"
 Angel From Hell

Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 309
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Posted: 12/3/2006 5:51:19 PM
NO...NO...NO... I don't like submissive men........

A man needs to take control... The thought of a guy taking total control of me, making me do what he wants, when he wants, wherever he wants... I get hott & bothered just thinkin' about it
 mostlykitten

Joined: 11/21/2006
Msg: 310
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Posted: 12/3/2006 6:37:37 PM
no I don't couldn't ever be with one, love a man to be a man and take charge however if he gets out of line, I have no problem saying so. Neither here nor there, as in I'm not sub or dom, just middle of the equation.
 Dime12804

Joined: 9/1/2005
Msg: 311
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Posted: 12/3/2006 8:18:19 PM
The popular answer so far (13 pages worth) is that women do not like submissive men. However, I wonder if they're thinking of men who prefer a dominant woman on a regular basis or if they're really against a guy who enjoys the submissive role once in awhile.

Personally, I am a dominant man in every facet of my life. Sometimes, too much so. In my personal life, it's no exception. I prefer to take on this "man's role" that women are speaking of in this thread. However, what is so wrong with once in awhile letting the roles reverse??? They're still the same guy that rocks you any other time. If you like it rough....if you like to be spanked or have your hair pulled or whatever, why can't he enjoy it as well.

I agree that it's not something that a vast majority of men would be into all the time and I can see why most women wouldn't like it that way. However, I think the best sexual relationships are the kind where both people are accepted for the desires they possess and their partners try their best to fulfill them.

Maybe I'm just weird.

 funforit

Joined: 6/8/2006
Msg: 312
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Posted: 12/3/2006 8:22:23 PM
Not me...I prefer the man to be in charge. Even when it calls for me to be dominant....I just like knowing that he will take charge if need be...lol
 I like it real....

Joined: 8/27/2006
Msg: 313
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Posted: 12/3/2006 8:25:23 PM
Hey Dime...I completely agree with you...and with what some otheres have said too.

Yes I like a guy to be in control of the situation ...maybe even a litlle aggressive sometimes, but sometimes...I like to be the aggressor.

I dated a guy once that totally REFUSED to play the whole submissive role...kinda sucked.

A good mix of it all is just a good all around sexual relationship...woo hoo!
 Dime12804

Joined: 9/1/2005
Msg: 314
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Posted: 12/3/2006 9:25:57 PM
Yeah, the best lovers are those who are comfortable enough in their own skin to master many roles and compassionate enough to appreciate and respect the desires of their partner.

All too rare today. And I'm not just talking about sex either.
 I like it real....

Joined: 8/27/2006
Msg: 315
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Posted: 12/4/2006 11:52:51 AM
I sooooooo completely AGREE!!!

Rare u say...does this really happen at all?

It would be nice to find someone who can compliment or at least try to when getting involved on all levels.

People are sooooo scared to come out of there "comfort box" that it's just scary sometimes.

I do try to live in a triangle, and am racing towards a circle...lol

I don't like the "box" very much...
 sub4domme

Joined: 12/2/2006
Msg: 316
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Posted: 12/6/2006 5:20:42 AM
most women do not like submissive men at all i guess.the women who are open to this in my opinion have the least amount of sexual hangups.its my opinion these women are the type i'm looking for because i can be totally open and honest with them from the start.i would probally let a woman (either my girlfriend,wife or friend) dress me up for halloween as a woman or in some other female role.i would also do it as a fetish thing to spice the sex up more. the closed minds that exist even today is a real bummer to me.



 PandorasBocks

Joined: 10/10/2006
Msg: 317
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Posted: 12/6/2006 11:41:51 AM
No. Ok, once in a blue moon. I have a job where I am dominant and once I get home, would love to have someone guide me for a while....
 sunvalleyguy

Joined: 3/6/2007
Msg: 318
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Posted: 3/27/2007 11:35:32 AM
most women say they do not like submissive men.

i bet most if not all the women who say this have never been with a truly submissive man in their life.

how can you knock something that you never tried?
 lonestardaddy

Joined: 11/18/2006
Msg: 319
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Posted: 3/31/2007 8:20:23 PM
First of all, I have to ask just what "submissive" means to any woman answering this question ...besides question the previous male's reason for having what appears to be a feminine form photo w/ his profile. 'He' raises a good point ...I think, for not knocking what's not been tried before.

Being the 'slow-bloomer' earlier in life, I learned to less than assertive to start, and I still tend to approach a woman who interests me like this, even if I'm totally confident to perform as she may want and need sexually. I'm the quiet type? Not exactly, but then I am not so outspoken or as aggressive as many women who prefer to remain submissive might see in me, based on what they learned earlier on in life for 'being hit on'.

Somewhere in their life since ...and hopefully their successfully having transcended their once frustrations their being too submissive, I prefer a woman to actually speak up and tell me as their LTR potential partner what it is that they need ...and more specifically than throw me around the bedroom and make me feel like the naughty girl.
 nikoleta2

Joined: 7/22/2006
Msg: 320
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Posted: 4/1/2007 8:18:55 PM
I like a mixture. I dont like him to be too submissive, but then i hate it when hes too dominating.
 lonestardaddy

Joined: 11/18/2006
Msg: 321
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Posted: 4/1/2007 9:41:28 PM
This post and its direction since remind me of a joke that may in fact be true. A woman was supposedly being admitted into a hospital, and asked if she was "sexually active" ...to which she she replied, "No, I just sort of lays there." Again, I ask the question, just what do you mean or interpret "submissive" to be? I don't believe that I am alone ...as a man, to be w/ a woman who is at least in control of herself and her sexuality to 'tell it like it is' for how she needs her release. If submissive means my taking whatever sh*t that she's able to 'dish out', than I'm not. If your idea for being "sexully active" is just laying there w/o saying a word or making a sound ...for fear of what the kids already have a clue for guessing to be going on, than no thank you as well. If submissive means my being willing to meet somewhere between these extreme definitions and meanings within, then we might be talking, even if I still will not do IM or just chat.

How's that for my not being submissive to what is usually a totally waste of time ...beyond making a post here?
 Angel From Hell

Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 322
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Posted: 4/2/2007 11:10:20 AM
No, not so much... Being submissive myself, I like a guy in control sexually...
 suzie_shortcake

Joined: 3/27/2007
Msg: 323
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Posted: 4/2/2007 11:17:52 AM
Not all the time...but some of the time it can be fun!
 BigA1224

Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 324
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Posted: 4/2/2007 12:46:38 PM
NO! Absolutely not. Biggest turn off for me.
 *FoxyMoron*

Joined: 1/28/2007
Msg: 325
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Posted: 4/2/2007 1:37:40 PM
I prefer to be the slightly submissive partner actually.... Nothing about a sub man turns me on. I am far too lazy to be telling someone what to do... One "What do you want me to do Madam" too many and i could see myself telling him to stick a soup ladle up his bum and do the hokey cokey, just to see if he would do it.

pfffffffffffffffffffttttttttttt to sub men
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