| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 8/22/2007 6:55:17 AM | no no no no no no no NO WAY!!!
to me that is the biggest turn off. I need dominate men or it just doesn't work for me very well.  | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 8/22/2007 9:07:48 AM | Wow, it would seem the women here have a huge problem with being massaged for a few hours followed by cunnilingus as she lies back and he does all the work. Infact it would transpire that women find this actually very insulting.
As for me I prefer to have sex without the metaphorical culture, a priest, a polititian, my parents, my freinds, tradition and so on in the bedroom as they watch.
More fun that way I find. | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 8/22/2007 9:17:51 AM | I can detect that many of the women here feel as though a sexaully submissive male is lesser, something to be ashamed of as they link it to real life in that they think it is a reflection of a mans "manhood" or something as if he cant "protect" her or cant stand up for himself.
Lol, its just a sexuality where Im coming from at least.
If you saw me on the street would you recognise me and go "Ewwww its that submissive guy!" then send your boyfriend over to beat me up thus proving how good he is in bed by some weird stretch of the imagination.
Or would you notice me then talk to your boyfreind about it as you both keep quite and make sure I cannot hear you incase I come over and pummel your boyfreind if you dont shut up? The humiliation of being beaten up by a submissive male would be hard to stomach I know. | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 8/22/2007 11:37:45 AM | It's not about being lesser. It's about what turns us on.
For me - sexually submissive men do absolutely nothing for my libido. It has nothing to do with me thinking they're lesser, or not manly enough. It's an autonomic reaction. Sexually submissive men = me having no sexual interest. No arousal. | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 8/22/2007 11:42:23 AM | | Personally, I like a guy who will be the aggressor off the bat....pick me up and throw me on the bed! whew! but then that gets me riled up and I'll definitely take on the more aggressive role following....most guys I've been with, however, seem to not quite get this...I'm a rather dominant personality in normal life and they seem to expect that to follow through completely to the bedroom....I'm tired of being dominant by the time I get there....I wanna be controlled a little and change roles for a bit....someday I'll find someone who gets that. ;) | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 8/23/2007 6:37:18 AM | | Great its just sexuality Im glad that got cleared up, I wasnt really addressing you to the girl in the collar anyway but some of the others. Submissive women do turn me on a bit too Im about 5% Dom I think as I like to see them tied up sometimes. Im pretty much open to anything really if she is enjoying it altough my personal sexual preference is to be the submissive. | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 8/23/2007 9:01:41 AM | I love a man that is a MAN! .. forget that sub stuff.. if I was looking for that would look for a woman . I want a man that is forceful , rough , aggressive ! A real man ! | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 8/23/2007 9:10:47 AM | <-- not submissive and no real desire to be.
But what i'd like to know is this: Are women that are aggresive, assertive people in society more likely to be a submissive behind closed doors?
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 8/23/2007 12:57:28 PM | | Talk about denigrating a submissive male by associating him with a woman as if a woman is a lesser being by false association, why denigrate a sub male by comparing himself to a woman seeing as you are a female yes?. Real man my arse lol, I know cage fighter who also happens to be sexually sub. I guess how he likes to be tied up by a woman in private means he is actually a "woman" lol. If your not into it fair enough but no need to make brash unfounded assumptions based on societal norms. | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 8/23/2007 1:02:10 PM | | In reply to whirly bird: No women who are assertive and confident in real life wont nesseccerily want to be submissive in bed, they may be but that would be co-indedental and more to do with her sexual preference. There isnt really any correlation between sexuality and anything else. For example one of the Kray twins was Bisexual and into men but this didnt mean he was a mincing fag. Not to mention 4 of the kings of England in the past who where infact gay. Then theres Pete from the Big Brother series the guy with tourettes who liked to be "chained up" yet he didnt appear to be that lacking in confidence personality wise seeing as he was on national television in front of millions of people. | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 8/23/2007 1:17:16 PM | This thread is a bit of a pity. There are many women out there who would actually like to play the Dominant role in bed but too often they cant come out with it because of the perceptions of this sexual dynamic such as in this thread. I have spoken to a couple and the only person that knew about it before that was them and them alone, they thought their ex boyfreinds would find them weird. Some women I tell think its too good to be true when I tell them I am sub but obviously thats a more private situation not like on this thread for example.
Theres nothing like a good spank over a womans knee if I dont say do myself!
Germany is a very sexually liberated country indeed: The amount of female Dommes in any part of the world does actually correlate to the teenage prengancy rate, the rape rate, the quality of sex education and many more. The factors of the amount of Dommes and those other factors do not directly affect each other but they are part and parcel of socialy liberated attitudes.
So countries with higher standards of living thus more women brandishing whips as part of the liberated free thinking attitude would be Holland (the politest children in the world, no chavs for example), Germany, California, Canada and probably some others too.
If you want a better soceity then perhaps more women come out with it and get out the whips. | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 9/9/2007 9:13:44 PM | uhh maybe everyone should try being a top and a bottom--- with different partners and different situations we can change from one to another ... and everythings good!!
sometimes its fun to tie a man up and make him squirm!! and sometimes its noice to have his full heavy weight ravage you~ like a wild animal ~~
ohhh really its best if you can do just about everything with the same guy -- share power and share lovin'.... YEAH!
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 9/9/2007 9:14:30 PM | No, creeps me out. After a long day of taking over the world, the last thing I want is to have to dominate my man.
If he has my mask ready, he's already whipped himself to tears & is licking my boots before I get my coat off, that's what I like to see. A little initiative, ya know? | |
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Posted: 9/14/2007 3:32:00 PM | So if this is the case then what do people think of a genuine female Domme? If a male who likes to play the sub role is "pathetic" then does this mean a female Domme is some kind of abomination?
As far as being unnapealing I know loads of beautifull, intelligent, normal, freindly genuine female Dommes from all over the world as well as from my own country in person and so on and there are 100 men like me to every 1 of them, so if I like to play the submissive role which means Im weird or pathetic or whatever then how come I get the attention from Dommes when the odds are severely against me with only 1 of them to 100 guys?
The amount of previously repressed "Dommehood" at the last Vanilla/fetish cross over night I was at was incredible. Unfortunately it was just a one off night and I couldnt make my mind up who to go for and ended up with nothing. I said that just then incase someone might jab at me in reflection to the above things I say for having a profile that says I am single which I currently am, now I suspect that might be met with derision as if I am showing off that "I couldnt make my mind up", can't win against ill informed emotive ignorance.
This forum is only the internet not *real life*..........which is a completely different matter to the trend of this thread. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2007 3:48:45 PM | The guy who commented "submissive with credit cards" is right too. There are many desperate pathetic male submissive wanker fools who are pathetic desperate losers that masochistically erotisize the lack of Dommes.
A bit like how if there where 1 man to every 100 women and women started to offer me a car, boat, house, lots of money for a date not that I would have the lack of respect to take the piss and take advantage like that.
A Pro Domme once gave me 7 hours for the price of 1 she couldnt get enough, Ive seen everything. Gosh she was lonely but thats what you get for inadvertantly entrenching yourself into the implications of sexual repression.
Ive also spoken to some women who where extremely apprehensive about their sexuality before they spoke to me, the tone of this thread is part of what keeps them repressed in my opinion so in a way this thread is opposed to females by virtue of what is on the other side of the coin of what many of you seem somewhat discusted at.
So some men like to be abused, whapped about a bit or whatever. Ive been doing it for years with podium dancers, strippers, Burlesque dancers and all other kinds of women who have one thing in common that few here seem to have.
Either way I can tell that the very short, not particularly well thought out quick fire comments after my last one are because there is too much emotive here. It would be nice to have a rational debate other than "ewww is that Rasberry? I only like Strawberry!" | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 9/14/2007 9:44:48 PM | | are you looking for a mistress??? just kidding..yeah I like my men submissive but then I also like them in charge...so Im 50/50 | |
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Posted: 9/14/2007 11:47:28 PM | I dont know about every other chic in the world, but i love nothing better than a man to come in all sweaty and shirtless, walk right up to me and rip my clothes off and go at it doggy style. Pure, unadulterated, sweaty, hard f***ing. I believe he has to be DOMINANT for that | |
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Posted: 9/15/2007 12:27:36 AM | | I know that there are women who like submissive men. Would I go out with one, NO. Of course she wouldn't be intersted in me either. But the idea that most women do want one and are afraid to admit it is insane. In my experience most women want a more dominate man. Or at least not a submissive one. And that works for me. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2007 1:19:12 PM | | Well yes of course nikki blue eyes, once it took me and arm and a leg to try and get a girl to tie me up n spank me but she wouldnt so I bent her over and gave it to her from behind while spanking her butt, calling her names and grappling her hair to pull her head back. She seemed to enjoy this. lol | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men?
Posted: 9/18/2007 3:33:22 PM | Having been in a 25 year marriage when I had to be the one to initiate all intimacy I find myself wanting the man to control the situation..but...Im not a doormat ...Have ran into men lately on line that like to tell women what to do. a true dominant man is kind and loving..not a macho do this now cause I said so..I'm really not into that but I like the man to take control of lovemaking..I think its the whole caveman cavewoman instinct.. | |
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