| Do women like sexually submissive men? Posted: 1/7/2006 5:46:07 PM | | some interesting posts here.... So one might thank that a woman sho is really in control of her life and full of confidence might easier be with a submissive man... makes sense to me. To be Dominanat one must be strong, and i for one do like this in a woman.... | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men? Posted: 1/7/2006 6:39:27 PM | | That's asking if women like wimps. A pupil of Freud did a facinating study and wrote a book about this phenomenon. His name was Erickson. He found men in powerful posisions needed this role reversal and had to seek it from prostitutes. That is why every time some madame gets busted, her little black book is never revealed. Noone would be left to run things. | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men? Posted: 1/7/2006 6:56:10 PM | A good woman would give her man anything he needed. Prostitutes make money from men married to women who can't use their imagination and natural talent. A man that wants a spanking or me to take charge, woman enough to handle it and make him happy | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men? Posted: 1/7/2006 7:07:02 PM | | Nope, I think having the man be aggressive definitely makes me feel very girly. That doesn't mean that I am in any way submissive, I just prefer them to be equally as assertive as I am, and more. | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men? Posted: 1/7/2006 8:26:33 PM | nope...and even if you're in a dominant mood...I personally don't want a guy to rollover...you gotta work him into submission.... | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men? Posted: 1/7/2006 8:56:29 PM | | Switching is an option. But its not always for everyone of course. Depends on the person and their drive. Some people drive toward submissiveness and basically giving the other person control. It doesn't exactly make the person something that would fall under some sort of stereotype when it doesn't. | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men? Posted: 1/10/2006 7:25:24 AM | Switching is a playful option but doesn't have to mean that the man is a wimp....Usually when I am thru with them they feel more manly than ever before..... | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men? Posted: 1/13/2006 1:38:40 PM |
I like a man, to be man enough to know, when I want to take charge...
To be man enough to know? Meh. If you want a piece of him, leave no doubt. | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men? Posted: 1/14/2006 8:19:26 AM | I would say none of the women I have met have actively tried to be aggressive from the start. Although, I have found once given a chance to safely be sexually aggressive, the particular women I have met (at least) seemed much more comfortable with initiating sexually advances.
Even given the chance, most women I have met still revert to the comfort of being submissive and 'taking' all that the 'aggressive man' wishes to make them endure for his pleasure (and hopefully there own).
If you are really comfortable with being a man or woman ... the dom/sub rolls that we are bred and raised into become irrelevent ... ultimately you are and expression of 'human' sexuality. | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men? Posted: 1/17/2006 12:58:37 PM | I have a friend whose major chatup line is that he is submissive .. I knbew one of his exes and she just got bored with his behaviour ... almost tied him up in the wardrobe and left him for the night ..it was my suggestion lol ... | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men? Posted: 1/17/2006 12:59:10 PM | | Just my opinion, but I think women like men who know what they want. Sometimes that means taking charge and leading, and other times it means letting them take control and following. As many have said before me on this thread, a good mix of both is preferrable in most cases. | |
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| Do women like sexually submissive men? Posted: 1/17/2006 1:07:02 PM | A real cannot be submissive. That's just a moment in disguise waiting to unravel his passion & charge. Hm... then the bed sheets became moist...  | |
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