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 sa3arhluv7
Joined: 7/15/2006
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Well this ones a doozy I would have to say yes I'm always horny and I'm 32 so yah its true!
 sa3arhluv7
Joined: 7/15/2006
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 8/13/2006 12:21:13 AM
Oh yes cynderella I agree with you on this subject could it be more true? LOL
 kap10cavy1963
Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 103
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 8/13/2006 5:23:47 AM
I like balance.
 reddfire
Joined: 2/19/2005
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 8/13/2006 3:51:41 PM
Wait, you mean it's going to get worse? I'm 38 and think about it 24/7, ok maybe only 22/7. The more I get (If indeed, I do get some of quality) the more I want. Not that I'm not satisfied, I'm just greedy. So you mean to tell me I'll be worse?
I can't wait!!!!
 sparticuss
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 105
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 8/13/2006 11:28:06 PM
That depends.
Like I said, the men getsick of having to jump through hoops and stop asking.
If you don't expect em to jump through hoops its going to stay about the same.
 TxShooterGuy
Joined: 8/2/2006
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 8/14/2006 12:10:01 AM
Every explanation I've heard, except the one about the vibrator getting boring and "Mr. Perfect" only being interested in the 20 yr olds, seems to hold water, to me.
I know that hormones can be a VERY strong behavior modifier. I can find considerable foundation for the notion that the ladies over 30 being more confident in their sexuality. And I don't have a problem with believing that the libidos of women over 30 might at some point say to the brain, "let's cut the pretentious Bull$h!t about being lady-like, and concentrate on our gratification, for a change!"
I think it's probably a combination of all of these things. The only thing of which I'm certain is that I'm VERY GRATEFUL to the ladies for being so unpretentious about their needs, and allowing me to assist in satisfying said needs as often as they have!
Of course, more would be better, but that's up to the ladies.
 babe121
Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 107
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 8/14/2006 2:50:15 AM
well i have allways been horny,my sex drive is just the same
as in my 20's which is so so high damn it
i need a man
 Leana76
Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 108
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/10/2007 4:06:24 AM
Because we are more comfortable in our own skin now. We don't have to look like a "porno star" anymore to please a man, we don't have to act like one either to please a man, and we can just be ourselves in bed. Just my 2 cents in...
 trubblemakr
Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 109
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/10/2007 7:11:00 PM
usually cause they already have 3 to 5 kids n have been used n abused thruout theyre 20s and have finally realized some independance or just gotten rid of the guy that knoicked em up or was married to them b4 . now they are prolly neutered n got nothin to lose so they hunt
 Leana76
Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 110
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/12/2007 4:31:56 AM
^^^ I never had children and I'm more comfortable in bed than I was in my 20's.

And no, I'm not neutered either^^^....SHEEEESH!!!
 passioniteone
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 111
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/13/2007 7:32:57 PM
I have the same sex drive as when I was in my 20's......
 WhiteSambuca69
Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 112
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/14/2007 5:12:04 AM
I totaly agree with u we spend many years thinking if we do some thing that we will be sluts or that men won't want a girl that is like that. Heck I remember when u would never admit to a bj then u were dirty now if u dont do that u arnt worth having around it is a part of sex. I think that woman at 30 have decided the hell with the sterio types why not enjoy life and try everything that comes to mind that sounds fun. At the same time there are many things out there and we have to be careful so hey men if u are looking for something like that treat a girl well because I know my self I am not into many men but one good man sure is going to get the benifits....When I find him I also know now I have more realistic thaughts about relationships then I did when I was in my 20's we all learn as we go along
 Mary12465
Joined: 1/5/2007
Msg: 113
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/14/2007 9:00:27 AM
What a great forum topic..but I can add to it even further. I'm forty-one, fiesty, fat and freaky ( maybe it's just my sun sign..but who knows), in any event, I must say that my sexual drive has always been ON, but trying to find a man who can keep up has been difficult.

It's bad enough my hormones are perpetually raging, but getting off-handed remarks about my size and sex are comical. I love the messages and comments I get from a select population of men who ask 'is it true ( or I know it's true) fat girls are more fun in bed'. I don't think age or size matters, but more in how you see yourself.

I'm a normal person with normal needs and desires. I can safely say I do enjoy sex and have very few hang ups about it. The bad girl stereotype is lame and I try to overlook narrow minded comments about it. I've said it before and I'll say it again...liking sex doesn't make you a 'ho', it makes you human.

Sex happens, and wanting to have to NSA sex or wanting to have sex because you love someone is fine to me, it's all a matter of CHOICE and CIRCUMSTANCE. I choose who I desire to sleep with and if I want you..I'll go after you and if you arent' doing things to get me off, I have no problem telling a man how or what I like.

Everyone has needs, wants, preferences and desires and no one person will pick the same kind of individual to fornicate with. I just expect that a man respects my needs and understands..NO MEANS NO...everything else should be fun and pleasurable. And the notion fat girls are more horny than thin ones is a joke! I am sure I have just as many lovers as a women of normal to average size. ( I just have more padding ..LOL)

Just my thoughts on SEX

 passioniteone
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 114
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/14/2007 9:59:37 AM
Sex one can get anywhere......making love with someone you care about is soo much better....I am a romantic and I preffer the intamacy of one...
 peanut70
Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 115
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/14/2007 11:13:33 AM
I don't agree with that. Maybe most wives 'hold out' on their husbands but not me! I've always been ready to experiment in the bedroom. Now that I'm single I have nobody to experiment with!...lol
 racelover08
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 116
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/14/2007 11:36:41 PM
I was horny at 18, I am horny now..age is not a factor... I am a sensual being..not ashamed, actually proud..yet discriminating!! Sex is awesome.....it makes one younger and aside from that it is true stress release..Prevents ulcers better than Prilosec!!! LOL
 Verissa
Joined: 1/7/2006
Msg: 117
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/14/2007 11:49:44 PM
You mean it gets worse after 30? Oh my....good to know I'll buy stock in Energizer!
 tuppence
Joined: 1/9/2006
Msg: 118
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/15/2007 12:21:09 AM
Women over thirty often have been in a stable relationship where they feel safe. A woman who feels safe can explore her sexuality without worrying that she will be labelled for it. Once that door is opened then sex is much better for everyone. Women are more satisfied with sex when they are in a stable trusting relationship. ( all people are really). So when you know what you like and you are satisfied when you do get to do it, you want more.
 IHAVEAMIND
Joined: 3/5/2007
Msg: 119
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/15/2007 6:55:27 PM
Because we know what we need.
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/16/2007 7:31:54 AM
*How deep is your love...* we know jolly well not only on the outside but on the inside too.
 Found someone
Joined: 2/27/2007
Msg: 121
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/16/2007 1:13:22 PM
Why? Because that's when we're in our prime...You boys hit yours at 18 to 20, I believe.
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/16/2007 4:07:42 PM
Boys may hit their prime at 18 my dear, but men keep going and just get better as you do as well.......

I know very few men in their 30's, 40's, and 50's that are not still horny and wanting to enjoy the opposite sex unless they are out of shape, medically impaired, mentally depressed or have devoted their time and energy to other activities.

I enjoy women as they mature, free themselves of all the pressures of youth, find their own path to follow, and want to be treated as the equal they are.

Just my opinion.....
 Escences
Joined: 2/7/2007
Msg: 123
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/16/2007 6:48:56 PM
I think a lot is hormonal. The fact we do know what we want and in particularly when we want it and for most of us, WHEN is quite often...To want it. To have the knowledge of what we like and how to please and not feel as inhibited as we did when we were younger. Its a powerful feeling.
Just would be nice to have one partner to keep up . Im not out to test drive everyone who says Hey! She is a horney old broad... let me see if I can get a tour of her house(I had that happen twice)!Not falling for it after the first time.Im still learning the single man tricks I guess. So yeah, knowledge, experiance,and you cant forget desire.
Still trying to figure out tho how to get laid just by walking down the street as some guys seem to think women have that power.
 Undamagedgoods
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 124
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/16/2007 11:33:42 PM
I certainly wasn't about to read all responses to this, the answer is simple.

When a woman reaches late 20's to 40's, her body says to her "have a child now or never" and the second most dominant instinct in any species is to reproduce.
So, it's like being at a bar and they hollar "last call",,you immediately buy a six pack at least!,,well, biologically speaking, the womans body is saying "last call", and her body wants as many as are available.
It really is that simple. Anyone adding complications to that are contoversy instigators.
 CASSw/SASS
Joined: 3/12/2007
Msg: 125
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/17/2007 11:36:01 AM
Because it is OUR PEAK. There is scientific research to back this up. Also I think too because we are coming into our own at this age and know who we are & are comfortable with our bodies.
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