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 saiyan_1
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 126
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?Page 6 of 10    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10)
Well.. there is actually a scientific reason... I havent seen a posting here which covers this phenomenon with any scientific info... so here it be:
In a womans thirties, there has been a substancial period of time that has passed where she has passed puberty, the time where her estrogen levels have increased. Over time, raised levels of estrogen causes the lining within the vagina to get thinner. We all know that women primarily attain orgasams thru clitoral stimulation, and, depending on the individual woman, this sensitive area can even provide orgasmic results in pre-pubescent girls. A woman with a sensitive clitoris will always have an orgasmic sexual life. However, once in her 30's, the wall inside the vagina thins, and... you will find it easier to acheive the ever famous g-sopt orgasm. Now granted, some women are anomolies and have sensitive g-spots, like women who have overly sensitive clitorises, however, for the MAJORITY, g-spot orgasms dont occur til their thirties, when the lining within the anterior wall of the vagina thin due to estrogen. The results.. can be very very visible in their diference, for many women who acheive g-sopt orgasms...
squirt. And I mean SQUIRT, like a litre of fluid, that is actually sterile, and NOT urine. The best way to acheive this is through rear entry sex (doggie style) or better yet, thru digital stimulation with at least two or three fingers (not as difficult with a woman in her thirties, sinc most have either birthed children thru non-c section delivery, and have had more sexual activity over the years). The "come hither" motion, as I call it, stroking the g-spot (rather vigorously, in most cases) with the fingers, pressing up and in against the anterior wall of the vagina about three inches and finding the spongy region of the g-spot (which is as elusive for someand requires the same amount of accuracy as the exact and precise location and pressure of the clitoris) will produce the g-spot orgasm. Youll notice, just prior to ejaculation, that the entire vagina-inner and outer labia- will open, almost like a flower, and, in some cases, the inner vagina will almost protrude. When this occurs... I suggest getting blankets or towels ready... and a pair of goggles!!

Now, if theres any HOT post thirty women that need asistance acheiving this... come hither!!
nah! Im just buggin! lol

but seriously, comfort zone, experience, and familiarity with her body aside, the science shows this to be prime time for women, and it makes sense, since this is the last stage they reach before menopause, and its her bodys want to reproduce before the biological clock runs out, coupled with the long term increases in estrogen, that thin the vagina walls and make g-sopt orgasms (which are reported to be thunderous and more intense than clitoral ones, and can be acheived multiple times, where clitoral orgasms can be multiple as well, but less occurring, since, like its male counterpart, the clitoris can become too sensitive for a short period just after climax).
Funny thing too, since a womans level of libido is usually associated with her levels of testosterone, but that association.. is based on clitoral stimulation, the female penis. So the g-spot orgasm..is strictly hers and hers alone and perhaps is akin to the male prostate... one thing I know absolutely nothing about, or care to!!
 lucie lou
Joined: 10/26/2006
Msg: 127
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/19/2007 12:59:18 PM
well my input on this is i can honestley say that i have always had a high sex drive, but i think as we get older we understand our body's more and have hopefully had a few experiences so we know how to get what we want and are less embarressed about about asking our partners to well hit that spot, but yes i agree sex in your late 30's is soooooooooo much more enjoyable than in my 20's and i loved it then so now im having a ball
 loveroffire
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 128
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/19/2007 3:09:58 PM
Somebody should tell my wife that this is suppose to happen to here when she gets over 30!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 saiyan_1
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 129
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/19/2007 9:36:08 PM
Maybe..it isnt her...
maybe you need more than a big stick!! lmao!!!
have you bought her some toys?
 NSA LOVER
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 130
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/20/2007 9:11:12 AM
yep and they finally know how to have sex and not just sit there like a plank of wood.
 h0ldfast
Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 131
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/20/2007 9:36:33 AM
They do it to annoy the men who have been trying to get into their pants for the past fifteen years.
 geezerbloke1
Joined: 2/19/2007
Msg: 132
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/20/2007 11:00:35 AM
well look at the poor sods of the male population who want the older woman,in their 20's and you turn them down.i love older maturer woman,its brilliant,theyre peaking at thirty and beyond.
 fierynette
Joined: 12/30/2006
Msg: 133
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/20/2007 12:32:30 PM
I noticed a huge difference in my sex drive after I turned 30... and it's not decreasing, it's getting higher. I was told by a 40something friend of mine that she got even worse at 40. I can't imagine being worse. I don't buy into the bit about holding out for Mr. Perfect myself, I just want someone who's right for ME. I don't find myself having to settle, and I've been 5 months without now. Doesn't mean my drive has dropped any, just means I've learned to make do... and to be patient.
 Vixen08
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 134
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/20/2007 6:40:59 PM
I am 30 almost 31 and it seems the men that can match me are 20-25 or so...not on skill when I say matching but just in appetite i mean
 saiyan_1
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 135
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/20/2007 8:23:28 PM
Maybe so...
but NOT all guys slow down in their thirties...
like you women.. experience starts to play a factor, and many guys get quite better as we get older...
as for appetite.. again it must be just the guys YOUVE run into vixen...
Im still waiting for them to invent an anti-viagra to slow me down
I especially have a ...hard time.. wearing silk boxers and baggy dress pants...
 tattat
Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 136
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 1:27:43 AM
Does that mean your underwear and dress pants turn you on?
 saiyan_1
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 137
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 6:34:36 AM
That was a joke... alluding that many guys over the age of 18 can and do have frequent ...pop ups ..throughout the day, especially some of us more ah... virile guys. My ex actually got thru to Sex-With-Sue, the Canadian Dr. Ruth, and asked if theres such a thing as anti-viagra, because, well, being my g/f, she was aware taht I probably had 30 unprovoked erections a day..whether I was boating, sleeping, or playing video games. She used to joke and sing the old song to the commercial for the Irwin game "Trouble" to me all the time ("pop-o-matic")... and I didnt find it too amusing because I lived in the 'burbs, and commuted into the city for work every day, and many a time Id nod off, only to awake with an erection, and have to miss a few stops til I regained my composure. And, being a fashion buff, a prerequisite for the office I was working in, I realize(and have made a long standing JOKE) that a pair of silk boxers, baggy dress pants, and a strong breeze (the third ingredient I neglected to mention) would cause me endless problems. Wed be slow dancing, and people would actually see... something in my pocket. She thought it was funny, me, embarrassing. I should get Nicole in here to tell you herself... or just about any of my exes. Yeah..I got issues, and a certain something seems to have a mind of its own.
Hell I was conducting a training session with a group last week... not one person was attractive, at least to me... and I had to sit down and chill for a second because I was popping one and for no apparent reason- I was concentrating on a key part of my presentation. And I was wearing Body Armour drawers that day. Maybe I.. need help, and why I chose a particular emoticon to end my post...or maybe just a g/f with a hefty appetite to help slow me down. I dunno... Sue didnt provide any answers, and my doc says I suffer from sensory overload, whatever that is...
I mentioned it HERE because the poster before me, msg. 134 made by the rather hot vixen, alluded that men her age tended to NOT possess the same sexual appetite, in HER experiences, as guys in their 20's. I say... depends on the guy. If I was anywhere NEAR a woman like her...like on a DATE... Id surely NEVER wear silk boxers or baggy dress pants, and would probably have to follow the advice that as given Ben Stiller in the movie "Something About Mary".
Dude, dont think I dont see between the lines of your assinine question either, smart ass, theres plenty of other things you could focus on, esp. HERE in THIS PARTICULAR forum..considering the TOPIC. If you werent so... whatever it is you are (obtuse? cynical? jealous? queer?) youd have commented, supported or even attacked the actual underlying point I was making, which is a defence of us 30 something guys. With comments like


Only w/ Cars and Oysters
Id asume that you would support the idea that age is just a number for many and not a factor in ones sexual appetite, but I guess your previous postings are b/s, eh cowboy?? And hell... look at vixen. Shed make a 50 year old man pop a rod dammit. Id have to wear my MMA jock around her. Funny what YOU chose to hone in on... scatat...I mean Tattat, and I wonder if the thought of ME wearing underwear (specifically SILK boxers... save up your welfare checks, or nix your beer allowance, and go buy a pair yourself... you look like a tighty-whitey cowboy boot and tight jeans kinda guy, so maybe you wouldnt have a clue to what I was saying anyways) perhaps turns YOU on. An why you picked the emoticon you did.
Maybe, as you said once, your shits gone bad from too much flogging and silk boxers, dress pants, and vixen in 3d still wouldnt cause you the slightest stir!!
Weirdo. Go buy some enzyte or viagra!! Some of us DONT NEED IT! And that.. was my point. Address that!
Sheesh, some people!
 Vixen08
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 138
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 10:27:09 AM
And thank you Saiyan
I should also say since Ive divorced almost 2 years ago most of the guys that make a move are the younger ones and well thats where 20-25 came in...
 softrider
Joined: 6/16/2004
Msg: 139
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 3:11:03 PM
for us "slow starters" this is also true - hitting 38 now and feeling like it's just getting started!
 Singlemale1962
Joined: 9/21/2006
Msg: 140
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 3:25:11 PM
My sex drive has always been high. had to wait for the women's to catch up !
 joyce1000
Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 141
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 3:33:32 PM
factors of my life (such as the needs of my children, etc.), it's actually gotten quite difficult to find a woman of real class and distinction. For some, anything to easily attained is not worth having.

A woman of class and distinction is much more discerning. They are just not that desperate. I am astonished at how easy some women are and then they wonder why they cant find anybody to be interested in them. If i were a men i wouldnt be. I know a lot of men have attacked me on this but i keep my pants zipped up! I have a absolutely no illnesses . My future partner will have to be subjected to a medical test ( i already have given him several questionnaires so far) He so far has past the test and i have already told him i am not easy and dont do casual sex. He has agreed and if he thinks i will change my mind he has another thing coming. And for females that disagree with me , too bad, do whatever you feel like i am not telling you what to do.
 Tequila Sunrise1
Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 142
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 8:00:32 PM
correction, we hit our peak after 30!!
 tattat
Joined: 1/16/2006
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Posted: 3/21/2007 8:03:43 PM
saiyar___1 :^^^^^^^
Sounds like Mr Pop-O-Matic has a bit of soft spot for whats in his underwear.....Hey don't sweat it there (City). We cowboys understand y'all city folk tend to get a little up tight liven in the fast lane, little advice tho, Don't think about it so much, stop touchen it, and don't loose your cool so easily, The ladies see a man who cant control his attitude might mean he cant control whats under them thar fancy silky undergarments ya wear...... kinda tying his horse up in to many stables. Well you you know what I mean city,
 saiyan_1
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 144
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 9:32:13 PM
hahaha bub, you havent even seen me get close to being uptight! Loose my cool spattat??? hahahaha if I was , I woulda blasted ya good, not just jokingly dissed ya. Really though, maybe YOU cant see it, but.. to make a comment like you did in THIS forum... well cowboy, I gotta wonder if your a steer or a queer!
and... the "soft" spot in the drawers.. I think that be YOU
Ladies might be more apt to see a man who comments on another mans drawers, and not the essence of what he was saying, as a guy who cant control his ...ah..queer comments ... for it WAS CERTAINLY an odd thing for you to focus on... where you from... Brokeback Mountain?
yeah I tie a horse..you a lil pony.. now go ride off in your chaps, and stick to topic, BUMkin!

Speaking of which... Im catchin a certain vibe here...

A woman of class and distinction is much more discerning. They are just not that desperate. I am astonished at how easy some women are and then they wonder why they cant find anybody to be interested in them.
Sorry, but I GOTTA address this. And joyce, I mean no offence, but...
that sounds awfully condescending and judgemental. The...underlying vibe I get from your posting makes me kinda feel like you have a bit of a holyier than thou attitude, and your statement
do whatever you feel like i am not telling you what to do.
further adds to this upper-browism, ostentatious and pretentious feeling I get from your posting. Just my opinion, mind you, and correct me if Im wrong.
factors of my life (such as the needs of my children, etc.), it's actually gotten quite difficult to find a woman of real class and distinction.
. You make it sound like virile women ignore their kids (assuming they have any...just cuz YOU do doesnt maen everyone else does) or responsibilities in persuit of rampant, wanton, loveless unprotected sex, and cant find a man because of it.
And who said having a sex appetite, being virile, and enjoying a blooming or consistently healthy sex drive makes anyone desperate? Or low classed? or Lacking distinction? Thats rather inflammatory. I definately side with mary12465 who rightfully said:
The bad girl stereotype is lame and I try to overlook narrow minded comments about it. I've said it before and I'll say it again...liking sex doesn't make you a 'ho', it makes you human.
Actually read her whole posting. And unlike YOU.. shes very comfy with who she is, and has a pic up.Wheres yours?
How about passioniteone (like...WHOA... between her and vixen...Id pass out from lack of blood to the brain!! damn women... if we could box the two of you, and a few others here, we could put viagra outta business!) who said[qoute]Sex one can get anywhere......making love with someone you care about is soo much better....I am a romantic and I preffer the intamacy of one.... Hmmmm... these dont sound like women devoid of class and distinction, who are either easy or desperate. And doesnt allude to whether they persue unprotected sex with untested partners. Or that they participate in casual sex. Thats rather presumptuous joyce1000. Imagine poor buddy, subjected to all these tests and questionnaires (like wtf? You think your shits made of gold???) to find out you really are a prude and suck? as sparticuss said:
there is a shortage of men prepared to mum through hoops for sex.
... so whose gonna end up desperate? You are right though joyce,
anything to easily attained is not worth having.
.
But who ever said a womans increased sex drive, (especially in her THIRTIES where she is not only more comfortable with her body, but wiser to the ways of men, sex, and love) makes her 'easy' and easily attained? Women like fierynette who clearly show shes patient in waiting for a quality partner, despite her drive (and.. another one to add to my BOOYA ! list lol).
And your assumptions say plenty about men too... like we are all parasitic sharks looking to bang incessently, and that all we care for is loveless, casual sex. Now..not all of us, men and women alike, are baseless lil slutbags ya know, and some have learned that" sex without love is for virgins and animals." And here.. I quote myself.
Lastly... you never did say whether your libido has increased in your thirties!
 jumpin-java
Joined: 7/26/2006
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 10:19:29 PM
from what my doctor told me, the estrogen levels off in women and that makes them more aggressive and sexual. In men, it makes them more passive, which is nice since then they want to stay home more... or so I've found.

my sex drive tripled in about 1 year.
 tattat
Joined: 1/16/2006
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Posted: 3/22/2007 12:17:06 AM
Hey city if ya cant seem to recall, scroll back. You be da only one talkin about the queer experience, wit da broke back thang watchin ya ding-a-ling and how it feels down in ya shorts. (your comment)
ya gotta get off-a dat BS, maken ya look bad. Maybe ya need ta cruze on down to ask a guy. There may be a boy or two ta your liken there who likes check-n himself out too.
 saiyan_1
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 147
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/22/2007 5:16:32 AM
you still flappin you gums?
Well dude... I had to make some sort of assumptions about your motives, since the main point I was making wasnt about undergarments, it was about the virility of 30's guys in relation to 30's gals...especially in relation to hotties like vixen... and what had YOU to say?? Scroll yourself...
and stop worrying so much about me and how 'bad' Im lookin, worry about yourself...cuz Im actually making some awesome friends here, outside of this forum from this forum, where you should throw your comments if ya got the nads, and not here, where your shit is outta context, way off topic, and ostentatious to say the least...
Either knock of your yokel okel bullshit, and make an actual contributon to the thread, or f*ck off...
sounds like youre the one getting uppity, and your 'cowboy' lingo is not only droll, its a good mask for your nescience
enuff is enuff
now go on, git

I am curious to know..jumping java..TRIPLED???? Whats changed? And when? Are you saying that 40's women can experience a further peak (you obviously spoke to your doctor about this)? I guess that answers ClassyLexus' earlier question about women in their 40's. As for the 40's guy... and becoming more of a homebody... I dunno if that means hes lost some drive, or tired out... maybe hes FINALLY grown up and settled down!!
Seems to me, despite science and common trends, we still cant generalize about sexuality, and like everything, we gotta guage, accept, and analize everyone and their situation individually. Especially for the counterpart to the thread topic... us men. Maybe were GENERALLY supposed to peak at 18... but not all of us. Ill keep my PERSONAL findings.. outta here. Some women here have stated that theyve always been virile, since their 20's and not noticed any particular increase, like babe121, passioniteone(yum yum), racelover, indigo rose, and redheadedcutie67.

FYI... did you guys know"excessive" sexual appetites amongst women in the old days was considered a sign of insanity? Freud himself looked upon masturbation as a sign of insanity and "self abuse"...
furor uterinus, in more modern times, (sorry, what we call nymphomania), is only considered a disorder now when when a womans (or in the case of men satyriasis) sex drive is so powerful and excessive that it interferes with her every day life. Like... she cant get outta bed, or maybe has graduated to toys ..that are gas powered, use the plug for your stove or clothes dryer, or a car battery, and require WHIMIS training to operate!!
just kidding lol
But seriously..any of you women here have it so bad that it affects your functioning in everyday life? lol Ever wind up late for work (or..hahahaha miss a bus or train stop or..cant get up) because your drive has overwhelmed you?
Or had a thought induced orgasm (look ma, no hands!)? lol
And apparently... alot of men subconsciously feel emasculated by the increased virility of women (especially thoose that can ejaculate), especially 30's women, and maybe why women like vixen are primarily approached by younger guys...
It wont faze me but might make me PANic (lmao).. Im a northern boy looking for his Selene... his aurora borealis. Lets see whose smart enuff to catch that....

and, Im learning from this thread ... theres more than steers and queers in Texas!
 Trillion
Joined: 11/14/2006
Msg: 148
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/22/2007 8:50:26 AM
Its the hormones, their have been studies done which say that women over 30 are horner because of the hormones seems so, they say and i mean doctors say we should get younger men who can keep up with us, seems the men our age or older just dont have what it takes to hit that home run we are looking for in bed, so its best to get a man a few years younger, now ladys dont get someone who is still stuck to his moms tit! for goodness sake get a man a couple years younger and youll have the fun you are looking for. like ummm........im 38 so a man around 33,or even a 30 year older might be the man for me in bed that is lol. so think about it since we are horny we may as well get someone who can do something about it either way enjoy! I know i will.
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 149
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/22/2007 10:32:39 AM
Ok I am not alone-----------------Phew * wipes my brow*

I thought I was the only 30+ female walking around humping the air.....


Ya I have found that since i have gotten older the better SEX seems to be!!!!

good explanation on that one------------------^^^^^^^
 Vixen08
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 150
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/22/2007 10:48:37 AM
Saiyan ...actually the thought of the wind getting a man especially a nice looking one excited as Crazeegyrl says at this stage in my life, can get me excited too, I could be "humping the air"
DARN where is my cucumber and KY Jelly
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