| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/10/2006 8:06:01 AM | | Every email I have received so far (barring 2 pompous ones that just leave an email with not even a hello..... very very rude ) have gone into great detail about my profile. A few have even picked up on some of my unusual interestes So, I think for the most part they read it, maybe they just dont comment on some or forget to. | |
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Ehukai
| Joined: 12/26/2005 Msg: 327 | |
| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/10/2006 5:50:45 PM | HAHAHA this whole thread is very funny...because I often think that the people who write to me are such idiots HAHA....
and they DO read my profile they just ignore it....even though RIGHT IN IT it says please dont message me if you are this and that...they STILL write and say "I know Im this and that but ...blah blah anyways" STOP WASTING MY TIME!!!
It just proves even further that people are lame. If I said in my profile DO NOT WRITE TO ME IF YOU HAVE PURPLE LIPS....I'd get 33 million messages from people with purple lips saying "Hi...I have purple lips but check out my profile anyhow...."
SHEESH SHEESH SHEESH
(And before I get any comments about purple lips and 33 million messages...that was all HYPOTHETICAL....not lets just see how many people prove my point) | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/10/2006 7:06:40 PM | I usually read whether or not you use drugs FIRST. I'm just not into the whole let's get high and drunk scene.
Next it's on to your interests............I like to see what floats your boat.
Then from there it's on to the rest of the profile...........
Pictures do help but if you really caught my attention I'll write you anyways..... | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/11/2006 3:54:33 PM | I would guess most men dont read your profiles but for those of us who do you gals should be looking for us. OF COURSE THOSE GUYS SEEM TO GET THE GIRL CUZ GIRLS SEEM TO LIKE THE GUYS WHO TREAT THEM LIKE SHIT. THEY JUST LIE THEIR WAY OUT OF IT. ANY WAY I READ EVERY PROFILE COMPLETELY. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/11/2006 4:10:21 PM | No, we don't. We see what we want to read, for instance:
affectionate - wants sex likes to hold hands - wants sex romantic - wants sex likes to cook - will feed me after sex serious replies only - seriously wants sex social drinker - all right! beer and sex!!!
Something like that. It's the whole selective hearing thing done visually. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/11/2006 4:12:46 PM | | I always read the entire profile at least once; usually more. I want to make sure that I can find some common ground ao that I don't waste my time or hers. I do understand where you're coming from though. I often talk with people that obviously didn't take a minute to read mine. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/11/2006 5:54:39 PM | In a word - yes - usually at least a couple or 3 times, and sometimes it is even better to save them to favorites and wait a couple of days to think about it.
I must also comment that on some of the sites I have seen some very funny 'wish lists' by women, especially here in northern New England - they ONLY want a guy over 6'2", who makes 100k+, has no history/baggage/kids, and more besides that I don't even remember - it is sooo funny !
What really makes me laugh is when their stats aren't even close to what they want - unemployed, 3-5 kids, separated, and why a woman who is 5' wants ONLY men 6'2" or over is baffling to me, personally....
I guess you could say that since I enjoy reading, I read some of them a few times just for the giggles !
Best Wishes,
mark* | |
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tree24
| Joined: 10/8/2005 Msg: 334 | |
| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/11/2006 6:15:33 PM | Looked at the pic and said Woooooo great gal
read the profile and said she is the one for me
She had over 350 fav's not a chance in hell I thought
Sent a message and guess WHAT
we have been seeing each other for over a month now
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wowmom
| Joined: 1/22/2006 Msg: 336 | |
| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/12/2006 8:41:47 AM | | Hi- I think most red blooded men look at the pictures, and , being soooo visual, + only using the smaller head, they just react and email. I try very hard to be specific about my preferences, but the Sr citizens still apply. I do not want to hurt anyones feelings by rejecting them, that is a major reason why I state clearly what my preferences are...so just remember guys, when you see a picture, Please read the profile 1st! Thanks! | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/12/2006 7:12:23 PM | Not all men think exclusively with the 'smaller head' (as you put it) - in fact, some of us are almost the exact opposite of that, which tends to infuriate certain women endlessly...seems they are quite used to easy manipulation of the neanderthal set, and some guys disappoint them greatly when they are quite immune to such manipulation.
And: Over 45 is now a definition of 'senior citizen' ?? Cool. Get me my walker, youngster !! (Too bad I am not eligible for social security !!!)
Funny, I am 49, and on jobs where I work with what I call 'kids' - folks who are around 20 - they sit down panting while I am still going strong.
Generalizations can sometimes work against a person's success.
Perhaps you refer to guys that have spent 20 or so years drinkin, smokin and druggin themselves into premature old age.
Some of us skipped all that, and stayed in much better repair as a result.
Best Wishes,
mark* | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/15/2006 6:11:27 PM | The profile is just as important, if not more important than the picture....at least to me it is. A pretty face is great....but i can tell so much about a girl by what she writes and the way she writes it. I want to make sure that our personalities have at least a little bit of a chance of clicking. I don't want to be the guy that just looked at the girl's picture only to miss the last line of her profile which might have said "I love to smoke crack and worship satan" or "i love my pet grizzly bear....but i'm trying to train him to quit attacking men's groins"---peace----Kracka | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/15/2006 8:28:32 PM | Kracka, you made me chuckle. About reading the last line on the gals profile. Men should read each line. This will GIVE THEM A CLUE.  | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/15/2006 10:31:48 PM | Silly guys don't. I don't know why, because the girl will bust them soon into the conversation.
That's when you break out the forest gump line: "stupid is, is stupid does" | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/15/2006 10:55:15 PM | | I always read the entire profile, quite often just hoping to find a redeeming quality somewhere in the lists of must be's and I wants. Unless of course they make me laugh so hard I pull a muscle, then I read it twice. Besides 80% of the profiles are 3 lines or less, even I can muddle through that. The ones with chapters I can't help but read, I love a good book. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/15/2006 11:06:29 PM | | Profiles are like unsolved mysteries... you lave to read to the end to see what people are like...a cliff hanger or two. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/15/2006 11:13:11 PM | Hi Ladypagey, your right about that one. I use the first paragraph just to weed out those sans sense of humor, and those with weak hearts. lol Besides If they don't want to message me, it's rewarding to know chances are quite high they spit out thier cola into their keyboard. Although I have had a few requests for reimbursements.  | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/15/2006 11:41:01 PM | | reread your profile, mighty good read.. I would agree it would weed out the weak of heart...we women read whole profiles too.Curious how a story will end. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 4/29/2006 3:51:36 PM | Read? Who wastes time reading. Pictures--that's what we read--and if your book(or profile) isn't loaded with good pictures we're not reading. Geez, all these literacy requirements! What is this? College? Reading is overrated--try long, elaborate alegrabic formulas instead. That's bound to eliminate all those needless emails.
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 4/29/2006 8:04:05 PM | Honestly I think some men and notice I said SOME men only check out the pics..... then they check to see if they have something in common with the woman...if she has no pic, they dont bother....again...I said some men
They are visual creatures then again so are some women | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 4/29/2006 9:30:45 PM | You have alot of room to talk ,You expect men to read you whole profile but you dont even have Picture to go w/ the profile? We all like to see what were getting into...YA know, I dont want to email some crack whore looking B**tch that looks like shes been smoken, shooting, and hasnt bathed in a month....Damn, you need to get w/ the program ....  | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 4/29/2006 9:36:04 PM | | It's a turn off to read a 1000 word-profile and then not get any response later. I prefer short-straight-to-the-point profiles. A smart woman is one who knows how to express herself with few words! | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 4/29/2006 10:11:28 PM | I could write a whole "War and Peace" novel here, but.....
The women with no pic who say...."please (or must) have a pic, or no reply..."
LATER... | |
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