| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/9/2006 12:16:35 PM | A BOUT PROFILES !!! HOW CAN A WOMEN/MAN JUST GO AND TRUST ANY ONE WHEN THERES CHILD MALESTERS AS WELL AS MEN/WOMEN THAT ABUSE WOMEN/MEN BY OVER POWING THEM AND BEING VERY CONTROLING AS WELL AS OTHER THINGS LIRKING, AS WELL AS DRUGS WE LIVE IN A VERY DARK WORLD, LOOK AT ALL THE MEN/WOMEN THAT ARE IN THe prison SHOULD TELL YOU SOME THING,, IM NOT SAYING ALL GUYS ARE LIKE THAT A WOMEN/MEN HAS TO BE VERY carefull THESE DAYS ,OUT THERE AND NO TELLING WHAT ELES THAT COULD BE HIDING IN THE DEEP DARK WORLD, I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT THERE ARE GUYS/WOMEN THAT ARE GOOD,, ANY ONE THAT YOU ARE INTERESTED in SHOULD BE CHECKED OUT AND FRIENDSHIP SHOULD ALL WAYS COME FIRST and slowly by all means, SOME TIMES YOU CAN LIVE WITH OR MARRY SOME ONE THAT YOU THINK U KNOW ALL ABOUT THEM, LOOK AT JOHN WAYNE GACY AND OTHERES LIKE HIM SCOTT PERSONSON THAT MURDER HIS WIFE AND UNBORN CHILD THEY SEEN LIKE A REALLY CARING GOOD GUY. I CANT SPELL HIS NAME SORRY,, GACY'S WIFE DIDN'T KNOW HE WAS A GAY AND KILLED LOTS OF young GUYS AND SHE WAS MARRIED TO HIM,, I COULD KEEP GOING ON WITH STUFF LIKE THIS. MYSPACE.COM IS A PLACE WHERE SICK GUYS AND YOU HAVE MARRIED MEN AS WELL TRY TO TALK TO TEENAGERS AS IF HE WAS ONE TO TRICK THE GIRLS,THE FBI IS ON THAT CASE RIGHT NOW, IT REALLY IS VERY HARD THESES DAYS, SO ANY ONE THAT MEETS SOME ONE DO A BACK GROUND CHECK AND REALLY LISTIN TO WHAT HE/SHE IS TELLING YOU. PROFILES FROM MY ARE ONLY AND EYE CATCHERFOR THAT MISTER WONDERFULL WITH FULL OF BS. FROM MYexperience IT HAD DATED A COUPLE OF GUYS AND THEY REALLY WERE NOT WHOM THEY SEEN TO BE. I WAS BEING CONTROL AND ABUSE FROM THAT PERFECT PROFILE OF GUYS I REALLY LIKED. all im saying is check the guys/women out,, there are aids/hiv out there and you never know who has it, AS I HAD SAID BEFORE NOT EVERY ONE WILL AGREE WITH MY THIS IS FROM MY experience AND opinion. MY PROFILE IS ASKING FOR FRIENDSHIP AND MY PERSONAL INFO. IS NEVER GIVEN OUT UNTILL I GET TO REALLY REAL KNOW THAT PERSON. ALL WAYS MEET IN PLACE public PLACES. tHEN GO FROM THERE AND WHAT EVER YOUR HEART TELLS YOU. iM NOT SAYING DATING SITE ARE BAD JUST BE CAREFULL,
PS i HAS A LOT OF MARRIED MEN SEND ME E-MAIL. | |
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I1269r
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Joined: 4/18/2006
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/10/2006 8:54:58 AM | I get bored easily when I read too much, "I don't like this, I don't like that and I don't need this or don't need that.... Gonna move on to easier pickins. Too fussy for me.
My 3 cents... Like I said. I'm not that particular. Just gotta have a tight a$$, LoL
I haven't messaged very many women after reading all the don't likes. I'll wait til the fish bites onto my bait. If no bites well I'll move to another hole (fishin' hole that is...) don't care either way. I'm in this for the fun of it. Still having fun, anyway...
I opened the door from the inside and kicked her the fck out, does that count??? LoL
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/10/2006 1:12:41 PM | Why are you even on here if it's that bad, When I was reading what you wrote it made me want to stay about from some one like you like scary even, you need to grow up and be more matured,
I since that you may had been hurt a few times but hey we all been there. I think not reading some ones profile, you could really miss out on that chance that could be a match,
I really seen to have a bad altitude by what I had read, I'm sure you would want someone to read your profile. But hey I guess thats on you, You profile is not bad, take care
good luck
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/10/2006 1:14:00 PM |
(Msg 376)HOW CAN A WOMEN/MAN JUST GO AND TRUST ANY ONE WHEN THERES CHILD MALESTERS AS WELL AS MEN/WOMEN THAT ABUSE WOMEN/MEN BY OVER POWING THEM AND BEING VERY CONTROLING AS WELL AS OTHER THINGS LIRKING, AS WELL AS DRUGS......
LOOK AT ALL THE MEN/WOMEN THAT ARE IN THe prison SHOULD TELL YOU SOME THING,, ...........
A WOMEN/MEN HAS TO BE VERY carefull THESE DAYS ,OUT THERE AND NO TELLING WHAT ELES THAT COULD BE HIDING IN THE DEEP DARK WORLD,............
ANY ONE THAT YOU ARE INTERESTED in SHOULD BE CHECKED OUT............
SOME TIMES YOU CAN LIVE WITH OR MARRY SOME ONE THAT YOU THINK U KNOW ALL ABOUT THEM, LOOK AT JOHN WAYNE GACY AND OTHERES LIKE HIM SCOTT PERSONSON THAT MURDER HIS WIFE AND UNBORN CHILD.......
I COULD KEEP GOING ON WITH STUFF LIKE THIS. MYSPACE.COM IS A PLACE WHERE SICK GUYS AND YOU HAVE MARRIED MEN AS WELL........
SO ANY ONE THAT MEETS SOME ONE DO A BACK GROUND CHECK AND REALLY LISTIN TO WHAT HE/SHE IS TELLING YOU..........
PROFILES FROM MY ARE ONLY AND EYE CATCHERFOR THAT MISTER WONDERFULL WITH FULL OF BS.
I read your profile and it starts with "Im a very caring affectionate trusting woman...." Trusting??? Surely you jest. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2006 1:14:29 PM | opps,
YOU!!!!!!!really seen to have a bad altitude by what I had read, I'm sure you would want someone to read your profile. But hey I guess thats on you, You profile is not bad, take care
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/10/2006 1:17:18 PM | msg 376 just blew up my brain. 
If they do or don't does it matter? In the end, meeting face to face is going to tell the real story. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2006 1:20:05 PM | | I AM TRUSTING WHEN IT COMES TO HONESTY AND BEING MYSELF ,, IM NOT PERFECT BY ALL MEANS JUST DONT TRY TO READ IN TO SOMETHING THAT'S NOT THE REAL MEANING OF HOW I REALLY AM OR FEEL ON EXPRESSING MY FEELINGS, | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/10/2006 1:31:34 PM | Vixen,
As for myself, I read profiles only to find out 90% of the time that they are a lie. There is no consistency. They will say that they are easy going, low maintenance, honest, etc...... and when you finally get to meet or talk in person the truth filters through. Having said that, I still don't email anyone that I don't seem to be a good match with. You have to read the profile to figure that out. Looks attract and communication bonds!
I am a person that looks at expressions on faces, and other body language that you cannot disguise. I am certainly not an expert, but people do things that give them away. I usually go with the feeling I get from that. You can also hear it in their voice as well if you listen. Bullshit is pretty obvious when it shows up.
Also, you can filter your emails so that only certain people will be able to email you. I don't know how detailed you need to get but it is available.
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/10/2006 1:48:39 PM | | Men aren't always at fault when it comes to reading all the profile. I had a lady contact me and then when I contacted her back she said that I made first contact! I firgured she had so many on the line that she forgot who was doing what. We aren't perfect but we do know what we want and at least try to follow the lady's lead. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2006 1:57:04 PM | i can understand that a lot of people will skim if a profile is particularly long...but if you're too bored to read it, how interested are you really?
what annoys me the most is when i very clearly state a preferred age range, and men 20 or more years older than that range try to hit on me. then when i point it out, they say something like "too bad you aren't willing to stretch your age range a little". ummmmm how is 2 decades A LITTLE?!! lol | |
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Posted: 5/10/2006 3:13:30 PM | Always,
I do anyway. I'm out of a 3 year relationshp and I'm just starting to date again. Because of that I have a pretty good idea of what I want but also an idea of what I don't want. I only message people who I want to meet. If all you want is sex, there's plenty of websites designed specifically for that. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/10/2006 8:36:30 PM | | Personally I will read a profile of a woman that catches my eyes. A profile thats just full of my do's and dont's and a list of wants and needs shows insecurity, being picky, might be controlling to have a list of demands. I mean people have the right to have things they want and things they like. However, you have to also show what you can do for the other person as well not just demand things to be done for you. Makes the person seem like a taker rather than a giver.Thats just a huge turn off. Some of the people *not all* who put a list and becomes picky is probably just a basket full of head games and full of baggage that others dont need. If the profile has a nice flow and shows what a person want but what they're about as well without making a demand list ; then thats interesting enough to be read. | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/11/2006 11:06:16 AM | lets be honest here shall we? the first thing anyone notices is the picture coz that whats on display if you dont like the picture you dont message the person!
but i try to read profiles as much as possible however a lot of profiles have absolutely no information other than dont do this dont want that dont send me this dont send me that!!!! just block the stuff your not interested in and tell us something about yourself!!! tell us what you do want what you do like! give us little hints in there that we can pick up on if we do read the profile! were not all after one nighters or a quick fling!!! be more open more trusting and most men will respect yopu more for it!!! | |
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Posted: 5/14/2006 9:51:30 PM | men are simple. i read profiles, but not the ones that are like a novel. ive seen profiles that were 20 long and boring paragraphs.
men need info not your life story.
when a women sits there and makes demads on what must happen on the first date, why bother messaging them. to demanding.
of coarse i will never understand why women will sit their and say im looking for this, than completely change their mind when you contact them. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2006 4:48:32 PM | Mine is long and yes I call it my novel..BUT..there are no demands whatsoever...there shouldn't be..I'm looking for a good relationship..I want to be their companion not their boss..
I do tell quite a bit..I want the person emailing me to have an idea of who he's contacting.. so he has an idea of what I'm all about..I just want him to know I'm serious and NOT into playing games..I would go to the playground for that not be on here...I just want to make myself clear in my thoughts and that's why my profile is long...and hey..it's been quite effective..haven't received onE bad email about it..most said they enjoyed reading it saw my sincerity...I get very positive comments about this!!
Also..I feel if you can't get passed my 4th line then your not the one I'm looking for...I want someone who wants to know what I'm all about...I found quite a few men who also had long profile's that I enjoyed reading..this gave me insight to who I was talking to...this is great topic of conversation since we had an idea of what we were all about from our profiles....the short one's kind of throw me..not enough info for me to have any contact with...especially in this day and age...most don't tell the truth so they limit themselves on what they say..RED FLAG!!!!!!! | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/16/2006 1:06:13 AM | | hi how are you i don't like looking at the pic first because i like to see how you really are and like to get to know you for you and not for what you look like so i would like to get to know you and then if you want to then look at your pic but i want to start likeing you for you | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/16/2006 4:35:22 PM | | YES. I am a guy and I read the whole thing. The pics are just to let you know what the person looks like on the OUTSIDE, not the INSIDE. I don't care about the outside near as much as I do the inside. That is what separates me from guys in general. Oh well... | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/16/2006 4:49:05 PM | I try to read profiles all the way. The large russian novel looking ones I just simply pass by. You don't need that much detail in your profile. Its not nessicary. If people want to know certain things they can just ask.
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/16/2006 5:11:37 PM | | I read the profiles. They all tend to be about the same though. The chipper ones are from new users. The "detailed" profiles tend to be done by people that have been on here a few months. The bitter profiles are written by people on here a year or so. A profile is a prepared statement. I put very little stock in most of the "average" one's. Long walks, no players etc. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/16/2006 11:59:16 PM | I usually read profiles two - three times. Its important to know who I am talking to, you cant just talk to anyone. You girls are really cutting us up here, just a reminder we are not all like that. ;) But then again I am a virgo so that may have something to do with it.
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