| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:45:44 PM | | I have found this to not be the case at all. Many of the men that have gotten in touch with me have remembered things I had written in my profile that I had forgotten about. I have been pretty impressed by how much they have retained , what I hate is when they ask for your number and dont call , why bother asking ? | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:53:48 PM | | I always read through the entire profiles and not just glance at them. Hopefully whoever visits my profile does the same. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/27/2009 9:08:47 PM | | I read the whole profile, but sometimes all it takes is a glance to read about 50% of the profiles on this site. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/28/2009 2:54:32 AM | | Yea I read them. Usually it turns me away in the first paragraph, as soon as I notice a B****, rambler or crazy person. The guys who likely overlook the writings on your wall, are probably 'power mailers' trying to blanket the net with their adds, trying to work the odds... or they're just stupid. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/28/2009 12:31:40 PM |
Do you guys read our whole profiles or just the parts that you want to see. I get emails all of the time from guys that don't seem to have read through mine.
Nop. Guys start by looking at the photo. If it is good enough, then they move to phase two which is evaluating whether the photo is representative of your current looks. If it is, then they hit you up with an e-mail.
That would be the male profile review process. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/28/2009 6:33:16 PM | I read every profile I open (sometimes more than once if it's a good one) and will often point out the things in it that caught my eyes when I message them. If I like what she put down on her profile or catch similar interests/views, I will email her regardless of any amendable differences we may have.
For one thing, If I don't message then I have really not gained anything. By sending a message my odds go from zero to one(the top end of that scale still really being up to her though).
Another reason why I would still send a message to a girl who may not be necessarily be looking for a guy like me is that I feel as if I can prove her wrong on some misjudgments or stereotypes she may have. Maybe she is looking for a guy like me but doesn't really know it yet or maybe she can learn to compromise and will decide to overlook some things she doesn't like about me because she appreciates other qualities I have.
I know this is all wishful thinking here but I kind of have to stay positive. I have personally seen a case of two complete opposites meet online but then still completely click with each other because they gave it a shot. Sending messages doesn't cost me anything and has no real risk involved, so I have no problem approaching any woman who sparks my interest (even the ones who have completely unrealistic standards and ridiculous expectations). | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 5/29/2009 4:31:26 AM | I completely agree with this!
And by the way, have a laugh
http://uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/Fun
True meaning of "fun" ... :-P | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 7/15/2009 4:57:58 AM |
Why do you email anyway?
Should it surprise anybody that the same question could be put to the most intelligent, detail-oriented women? It would appear that this particular failing knows no demographic boundary. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 7/15/2009 6:16:58 AM | I'd say yes I do, but just as with women if I don't find the person attractive I probably won't write to her.
The profiles that are just a huge wall of text are the ones I skip over, I don't need to know EVERYTHING about you in your profile, I would like to at least find out some things when we meet. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 7/15/2009 8:31:19 AM | | Yes, I always read every word of a womans profile. I do like it when a woman writes a long profile, as it lets me decide whether to contact her or not. Short profiles are ok, but I find it difficult to focus on one aspect to begin a conversation or as an "ice breaker". However, I have several ice breakers I have used, which have worked quite well in the past. If a woman has a lot of "friends" or is on a lot of member "favorites" I tend to move on to view other profiles. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 7/15/2009 8:58:21 AM | | If the majority of the men that contact you haven't read your profile... What does that say about your profile? Why don't the men who do read it contact you? It may not be that men aren't reading. It may be that the ones who do don't like what's written. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 7/15/2009 1:10:06 PM | This is an important topic.
My impression is that most other guys look at the picture and react. Their emails may become garbage-in, garbage-out.
The whole profile is very valuable. When I look at a woman's profile, I want to gain a sense of whether we might be a match or not. I'll try to read between the lines. I try to gauge the quality of her mind from the way that she writes; the intellectual/mental component is very important to me. It's vital to know whether it is worth one's time to pursue someone who may not click with you. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 7/15/2009 1:13:22 PM | If this is a problem perhaps you should hide a little thing in your profile near the end like add a  in your reply if you actually read it all. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 7/15/2009 5:14:29 PM | | ok im sorry to say this but im a visual person im sure most guys are..i really look at the pic first its like wow attraction, then you start reading and if they are not worth it then next...but if they are it just adds to the already beautiful picture!! | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 7/15/2009 6:20:16 PM | | Only up to the first Emoticon. Then it's over. Or, when she writes "Friends first and we will see what develops from there." The woman doesn't even know you yet, and she's already taken control of you in the relationship. And stolen all of your power and authority. Forget that. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 7/15/2009 10:27:42 PM | | No because they then ask me what do I like to do and that is under interests. When they ask questions that are answered on your profile u know they didn't read it. Also they ask what is your name and it is at the bottam of every letter u write! | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 7/15/2009 10:44:11 PM | | Some do, most don't. I continually get 15-20 messages per day saying "hey whats up" and that's it. It clearly says on my profile not to send me that garbage. Also guys with no pics, or flexing in pictures still message me. It takes alot of effort not to send back messages saying "dear extremely dumb individual..." | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 7/17/2009 10:28:48 AM | I don't know about anyone else, but I read all of a profile. (or try seriously to if my eyes are glazing over ) If a woman is interesting enough to have a look at, she is interesting enough to see all the things she considered important enoug to put in. | |
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| Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 7/17/2009 12:50:14 PM | | i tend to read profiles but mainly with pictures as you can tell alot about someone ie;dress sense and if they smile or a happy person its nice to see who your emailing aswell | |
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