| does anyone believe in karma? Posted: 3/22/2008 2:18:03 PM | | I do believe in Karma. I didn't until I saw what has happened to my ex-mother in law. It caused me to see things in a different light. I can see why my ex's life is turning out the way it is and mine too. I'm not all convinced that it's some great mysterical force, but more like if you're an ***hole then no one is going to want to hang out with you and thus you won't have any friends. How you treat people causes them to treat you a certain way and that may extend to how they treat other people and so on and so on... Everything in this world is tied to everything even in the most minescule way, both physically and mentally. | |
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| does anyone believe in karma? Posted: 3/22/2008 2:29:35 PM | | Karma is a storey told to the children of god if you want something do it your self. Living in hope is a curse hang with people who love you | |
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| does anyone believe in karma? Posted: 3/22/2008 2:32:42 PM | | Why is it that only about 15% of posters seem to read the whole OT before posting?! She said EX boyfriend. Key word. If you are on a public forum b!tching about this why did you offer to have sex with him when you dropped him off, and if he said no and was as rude as he was why the hell did you go in and then sleep in the same bed with him?! Are you a glutton for punishment or do you enjoy being treated like dirt?! I think the bigger question here is will karma come back and bite you in the ass for rolling over and taking his abuse time after time. Drop the douche and find a real man and in the process gain some self-respect. It does a person wonders. | |
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| does anyone believe in karma? Posted: 3/22/2008 2:39:02 PM | | Karma oh yes its real.....Ihave seen what it can do. Myex & his girlfriend suffered for it. Just glad neither was killed.They were on a motor cycle & was hit head on by another cycle. His ankel was crushed, she lost her ring finger. | |
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| does anyone believe in karma? Posted: 3/22/2008 2:39:43 PM | I DO AND IT REALLY EXIST...IT MIGHT NOT COME SO SOON BUT DEFINITELY IT WILL IN TIME...IT'S KINDA "PAYBACK" TIME EH... ... | |
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| does anyone believe in karma? Posted: 3/22/2008 2:49:14 PM | Deuce...I agree with you 200%
I was wondering the same flipping thing...why does she care if he is sleeping with others if he is an ex, and why would she 'sleep' with him if he was so rude and was an EX.
Don't get it...people need to yes have self respect and realize we show people how to treat us. | |
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| does anyone believe in karma? Posted: 3/31/2008 5:16:20 PM | It's exactly that Pay Back... I use to not believe in the whole Karma thing I use to use the term Bad Luck , But after Friday the 28th I am a believer I went to court on Friday , To see if i was able to obtain my driver lic back, It's been a long an expensive trial, Any how i told the lawyer that i did not need him anymore that i would take my chances by my self, When i get to the court room i see one of my ex girlfriends from about 5 years ago ..and It ended in bad terms, to say the least.. Her exact words were I Will get the best of you ! Well there she is District Attorney...Had me convicted on all but one charge and got my LIc for 3 years with no chance of a restricted one,,20 Days Cal trans work, and my total fine was heavy. And the crazy part is that I'm more mad @ the fact the she did get me back rather then the fact that for 3 years i will be ****ed with out driving. Either way i got what was coming to me and yeah! Karma is 4 reels. | |
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| does anyone believe in karma? Posted: 4/5/2008 6:05:15 AM | OH my GOD - Do I believe in Karma - YES I tried my ex boyfriend bad 6 years ago and trust me my ex-husband is bad news!!!! What goes around comes around but Karma came onto to me big time and I never thought I would be in this kind of relationship | |
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| does anyone believe in karma? Posted: 4/5/2008 9:25:26 AM |
Why is it that only about 15% of posters seem to read the whole OT before posting?! She said EX boyfriend. Key word. If you are on a public forum b!tching about this why did you offer to have sex with him when you dropped him off, and if he said no and was as rude as he was why the hell did you go in and then sleep in the same bed with him?! Are you a glutton for punishment or do you enjoy being treated like dirt?! I think the bigger question here is will karma come back and bite you in the ass for rolling over and taking his abuse time after time. Drop the douche and find a real man and in the process gain some self-respect. It does a person wonders.
I agree totally Deuce. Of course, the OP is from several years ago (obviously someone revived this old beast of a thread for some reason), but c'mon... its the *EX*. I mean, if my ex called me up stranded because her car caught on fire, yeah, I might help get her home, just as I might for a friend, or might for a total friggen stranger if I was driving by and saw them stranded... its just a nice thing to do to help someone. And I would expect that person to be, uh, a little upset/stressed that their primary (perhaps only) transportation was out of commission (how do you get to work, etc). But wanting to have *sex* with the *EX*?
Thing is tho, she said "he bought me dinner and I thought everything was fine" - it very well could have been, she did him a favor, he bought her dinner as a 'thank you' for helping him out - don't particularly sound like "an evil, cruel, person".
I question "I asked him if he wanted to have sex and he said no because I wouldn't 'shut up'" - because "I asked him if he wanted to have sex" to me basically says THE OP WANTED TO HAVE SEX... and he said no, and the whole thing sounds to me like she then spent the rest of the night trying to have sex with him, and bugging him "why not?" I dunno about anyone else, but that would wear on me... perhaps to the point where I'd get "ugly" about saying "no means no" all night.
He's an ex, one really has to wonder... why did she stay there? She wanted sex, he didn't, he's an ex - why is that such a big deal to her? Why does she need to know if there's "someone else"? Why would she care? He said no, why does she need to dig furthur? She felt like he was being "cruel" and ignoring her - why did she stay and spend the night?
Besides which, "I am so sick of him and he was soooo cruel to me last night" - why does that sound to me like this isn't the first time she's been having (/wanting) to have sex with her "EX". Is he an "ex" or not? | |
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| does anyone believe in karma? Posted: 4/5/2008 12:59:18 PM | sounds like he just called the last hope of a free ride home. thats it. You were just a ride home! and didnt get the hint!
You shoulda gotten up when he said you were a **** and quietly moved (cant say take them on the net..) keys, his wallet, remote control, whatever it is ..... on your way out and let him figure out the rest! | |
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