| Bob's Posted: 2/1/2008 8:10:39 AM | anazdaddy...YES I totally agree with him...its like a 3some with no jealousy!!
The wonderful thing is there are soooo many toys available and affordable now it doesnt even need to be a vibe...it can be beads...or a toy she wears while your out...and you carry the remote...toys where you both get the buzzing sensation...there really is no reason to be jealous...and for me I find sex makes me horny...so even if I am using it on my own it just reves me up for when he comes home. | |
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| Bob's Posted: 2/1/2008 8:43:00 AM | I love my bob i have quite a collection to i have a special one that i take to work and college with just a click of a button im in  | |
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| Bob's Posted: 2/1/2008 11:51:37 AM | I love my BOB's. Without them, I would never have been able to figure out how I like things and what and where I get the most pleasure. I don't think they replace a man at all. They cannot cuddle and they aren't like regular foreplay. They will however allow you to be able to help your partner figure out what you do and don't like and how hard or soft.
I also agree with the previous poster. It keeps a lot of women from just picking up random men and going home with them. You know you are going to be able to get off every time when you get home to BOB while waiting for the special one to share it with. | |
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| Bob's Posted: 2/1/2008 1:47:40 PM | They used to be politely referred to as Marital Aids... but I guess that fell out of favour. Not fair to single girls? I think that the spirit of the name is still applicable... they can be something that helps a couple have more kaboom in bed. Like other posters have said... almost like a threesome, but without any of the complications.
I do have one reservation... and maybe it's silly, but... I would prefer that my partners toy be as toy-like as possible. There are models available that are supposed to look and feel like "the real thing." Part of my prohibition against this, is that I wouldn't be at all shy about my partner touching me with a vibrator during sex play, but it has to look like a toy, not a penis. I guess for her as well... if I'm in bed with a woman, the only penis I want to see going into her is mine. Something big and blue with a ring of massaging beads? All good.  | |
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| Bob's Posted: 2/1/2008 2:08:32 PM | | I adore my Bob, but he really gets around, doesn't he? | |
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| Bob's Posted: 4/1/2008 7:53:07 PM | All you ladies flatter me. Thanks a bunch. 
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| Bob's Posted: 4/1/2008 8:00:04 PM | | Love love love my bob's when im in a relationship or when Im not, theyre awesome..no it doesnt ruin it for guys, sex with a man is totally different then playing with bob... Im also totally for playing with BOB's together when in a relationship.. | |
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| Bob's Posted: 4/1/2008 8:44:08 PM | don't think i have met a woman (since i was in high school) who didnt brag about BOB -(battery operated boyfriend) or her hand held shower massager if you want proof: -walk into an adult store and see what 95% of their merchandise consists of do your part to save energy, try to convince women to go organic: -go green, save the earth  | |
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| Bob's Posted: 4/1/2008 8:44:36 PM | I personally don't like them at all. I have one, but no longer use it unless I have a lover who wants to play with it.
I'm sure it's different for different women, but for me, I used it on my own a few times when I first bought it, but found the orgasms were much less pleasurable than from old-fashioned masturbation. Too fast and kind of stupid, to be honest.
Also, I found that after using it, it started to take me longer to climax naturally. When I went back to my preferred methods (manual masturbation or real sex with a real man), I soon returned to getting the ultimate pleasure from less - what's the word? intense? - stimulation.
There's something I've noticed quite often on these threads. Some women say that "casual, meaningless" sex (usually defined as sex without LUUUUVVVV) leaves them feeling hollow and empty, yet they ALSO say they "have" their BOB for sexual satisfaction. That's mind-boggling, to me. Masturbation with a dildo is more satisfying than casual sex with a flesh and blood human who's giving and getting pleasure?
OK. Different strokes. I'll take meaningless sex with a man over meaningless "sex" with with a vibrating gizmo made of plastic or rubber, any time. | |
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| Bob's Posted: 4/4/2008 7:44:35 PM | BOB is the best form of casual sex! He never cums too fast, and can go and go until you are done. You never have to worry about what to do after, it is never awkwad, you just put him away for another time. Sorry guys, I have never, nor will ever have casual sex again since I have met and used BOB. The best part is he doesn't mind if I think of another guy and even call another guy's name, as I always pretend he is someone else.... He's my man until I am in love again.
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| Bob's Posted: 4/4/2008 7:48:09 PM | No guys have Jackie and Pam to help them out LOL... | |
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| Bob's Posted: 4/5/2008 4:31:26 AM | BOBs can add spice to a relationship because it allows you to pleasure more areas than might be possible without then. I find them cool. Besides, every woman I have met in the past 20 years has had a BOB or two. Or three.
But I must say I once dated alady who had a whole drawers full. Seriously. Must have had 15 toys of various sizes and capibilities. I had to wonder about that.  | |
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| Bob's Posted: 4/5/2008 5:04:48 AM | What about letting us guys 'drive'???? You might like it.  | |
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| Bob's Posted: 4/5/2008 1:36:15 PM | | Hahahah, I have to say that when it somes to funny freaking questions this one is close to the top. But I got to say that I have walked in on a g/f working with B.O.B and she was so hot and ready that it was amazing sex!!! Of course I have been known to be pretty broad minded. I think this person meant to send a question to Miss Prudence LOL!!!! | |
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| Bob's Posted: 4/16/2008 3:00:23 PM | There is nothing wrong with a "BOB" or 2 or 3. They can enhance the experience with a partner. My ex was the one that got me started with BOB. Now, I have a whole "toy box"
Ya Gotta love BOB, (no pun intended) he fills in the "gaps" when needed!!! | |
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| Bob's Posted: 4/16/2008 3:31:12 PM | OMG
Give me BOB, or give me DEATH!!!  | |
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| Bob's Posted: 4/16/2008 3:52:54 PM |
wondering how many woman have a Bob (boyfriend on batteries)?? I have been told that it ruins sex for future men, is this true..?? would you advise or go against it??
I have several, and particularly love bullet vibes. I use them both alone, and occasionally during partnered sex, which both I and my partners enjoy when I do.
How would this ruin sex for for future men (and what does that even mean)? | |
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| Bob's Posted: 4/16/2008 5:14:20 PM | | Absolutely, most women I know have at least one!! Ruins sex for future men?? never heard of that one. Definitely advise it!! | |
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