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 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
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I look to see what he is wearing on his feet and does it match his clothes.
 TOMic bomb
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 177
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 9/9/2008 9:33:14 AM
approaching from afar......

1. body shape and size
2. hairstyle
3. clothes

then as i get up to them....

4. face, then eyes, lips, TEETH (very important to me), nose and shape of face
5. details such as fingernails, makeup (too much, too little), overall cleanliness
6. i then make an overall impression mentally but subconsciously
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 178
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 9/9/2008 9:35:02 AM
^^^ That pretty much covers it.^^^


There is usually something striking that gets my attention first. A best feature sort of thing. That will be different for each woman.
 DreamGirl41
Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 179
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 9/9/2008 11:20:21 AM
HOW TALL HE IS....

He must be tall for I am 5'7"
 Gracie_Luna
Joined: 9/5/2008
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 9/17/2008 1:40:56 AM
eyes,lips,posture.......clean hands
 duckling
Joined: 2/28/2006
Msg: 181
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 9/17/2008 6:51:21 AM
For lack of a better term, I'll call it their aura. With the exception of super-models, 99% of the population have a few really nice features and everything else is fairly average (when singled out). Some people seem to have really average facial features but when seen, they just have an aura about them that makes it all far more beautiful than it really is. Their attitude seems to take their physical form to a higher level.
 zestyvirginia
Joined: 1/14/2008
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 9/17/2008 7:11:56 AM
Shoes, body, butt {and if they have class and what you wear and how you wear it shows that> I am a Lady so this is what I look at first called""" first impressions of a man that I meet.."""
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 183
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 9/29/2008 9:28:11 PM
I notice his clothes and his teeth.
 VaFishnetstockings4u
Joined: 9/3/2006
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 9/29/2008 9:48:57 PM
~OP I think TOMIC - about covers all basis here on this topic .

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Here's my take on this - It's all in the eyes , they tend to tell the real story
and also if someone has eye contact with me - Looks at me when I'm talking to
them that tells me much much more.

Then comes that shinning smile :) heck it does it everytime- Just melts my heart
makes me all the more attracted to them.

Next is how they take care of them selves and there personal apperance is extremly
important to me such as hands , finger nails.

I also think communication is key , and also the chemistry meaning,
that certain attendtion look as well as the body chemistry- thats
important to have with someone.
Love someone that can carry a good intelligent conservation , keep my interest.

Findly I look at personality and inside and try and see them for the them not base it
on looks alone but on everything. Last but least there humor and if they are able to laugh and also have a serious side too!

But the eyes says it best does tell the real story - How can one go wrong by the mirrors
of ones soul hmmm ?

I try and notice and pay attention to it all plain and simple

Peace & Love All !

..........................................I'm Out

-Brenny-
 gottaluvkids
Joined: 7/23/2007
Msg: 185
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/7/2008 8:02:15 PM
eyes (a sucker for blue eyes),
smile (not fake and put on, natural),
lips (goes hand in hand with smile, but they need to have kissable lips)
arms (could have them around me at some point and they need to be cuddly and strong),
ass (self explanatory)

Those are just a few of the first things I notice. After talking to him, I build more in depth opinions.
 OldFolkie
Joined: 6/8/2008
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/7/2008 8:06:45 PM
I'm with Brenny...it's all in the eyes. It there's going to be a spark, it will flash there first. I truly do believe that the eyes are the well into the soul.
 The rock man
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 187
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/7/2008 8:11:06 PM

approaching from afar......

1. body shape and size
2. hairstyle
3. clothes

then as i get up to them....

4. face, then eyes, lips, TEETH (very important to me), nose and shape of face
5. details such as fingernails, makeup (too much, too little), overall cleanliness
6. i then make an overall impression mentally but subconsciously


That works for me!
 italnyernnc
Joined: 5/17/2008
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/11/2008 11:01:11 PM
I've been consistent on these 3 since I was 14.. eyes, lips and legs...

In my club/bar hopping days, I was attracted to the girl in the group wearing the shorts or short skirt even if she wasn't the best looking.

That was for starters of course. Lately it seems like I'm finding the "buried treasure" - the one that everyone overlooks for one reason or another.
 pandapuppy
Joined: 1/27/2008
Msg: 189
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/12/2008 8:31:06 AM
First thing is eyes....then lips/mouth (must be kissable & happy)....teeth (must have some)....thighs (thick)
 truthodare
Joined: 2/26/2006
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/12/2008 5:52:13 PM
Lol, if they don't have teeth, I'm out of there. No explanations necessary.

Aside from that, I have a thing about hands, and it can be a factor in whether or not I'm attracted.
 Larissan04
Joined: 4/28/2004
Msg: 191
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/12/2008 6:10:53 PM
honestly, i check out the guys clothes. if a guy doesn't have a sense of style i am not attracted to them. i am an artistic person and design is important to me. i am not saying that the guy has to wear designer duds by any means, i am just saying he needs to have his own sense of style. having a bad hair cut, outdated jeans, a ratty tshirt usually with some beer or sports insignia on it, with the shirt tucked in and a belt pulling the jeans way up high around the waist... yeah that's a big turn off.... and wearing tennis shoes with denim shorts and socks... oh god! what a turn off...

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 defaultname105
Joined: 3/31/2007
Msg: 192
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/13/2008 8:37:43 PM
actualy. i listen to the sound of their voice. people can change their hair color, eye color, wear makeup, high heals, etc.
but you cant change your voice. it can realy clue you into who someone realy is
 Scotty 3 Hotty
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 193
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/13/2008 9:18:50 PM
I notice them for their:-

* height
* hair style
* smile
* eyes
* nose

what they look like with facial expressions and what they look like when listening to me. I pick up on all of that body language. And being a respectful guy that I am, I don't look down the way at their body checking them out etc, why? because that isn't why I would get with them, only an idiot would argue with that one.
 *Sassy Redhead*
Joined: 3/2/2008
Msg: 194
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/13/2008 10:32:15 PM
I notice how tall they are, the broadness of their shoulders and the warmth in their eyes. I like tall men!
 DamCute
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 195
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/14/2008 12:05:26 AM
Eyes. Their expression. If a smile reaches them. Do they avoid eye contact?

How they carry themselves. Are they articulate? Can they carry a conversation? Do they speak intelligently? I mean you dont have to have a Ph.D , in philosophy, but c'mon! Attempt to put a Few words together!

Body Language

Body Hygene
 YourAngel_a
Joined: 9/25/2008
Msg: 196
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/14/2008 1:36:56 AM
If he smiles when he sees me, his chances with me double alomost instantly, I love a man's smile : )

 diamonds_or_pearls
Joined: 6/18/2008
Msg: 197
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/14/2008 3:38:20 AM
[If he smiles when he sees me, his chances with me double alomost instantly, I love a man's smile : )]

I'd much rather see that smile than an "oh s&%t" look!
I have a thing about teeth too. They don't have to be the whitest ever, or perfectly straight, but it is really important that they be in good shape-- to me anyways. I guess it's because I'm obsessive about mine. My parents spent alot of money getting mine straight!
 arista1
Joined: 9/5/2008
Msg: 198
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/14/2008 5:01:56 AM
I look into someone's eyes and you can also tell how someone is interested by the eyes as well.
 girldc
Joined: 1/25/2008
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/14/2008 10:16:44 AM
one time I noticed a guy's EARS. If you look like you haven't cleaned your ears with a q-tip in about a year then I have to wonder about what other daily personal hygine routines you neglect...

 NvrLookBk
Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 200
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/14/2008 6:26:09 PM
Well the very first thing I notice on the opposite sex , which I find EXTREMELY attractive, is A JOB!!!
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