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BBdrgn
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| whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 4/21/2006 2:09:20 AM | I don't believe in trying to use methods on people. Some people think if you ignore a person, they want you more.
What kind of desperate, basket case, nut-job, psychopath imbecile are they talking about?
That's not how normal people work.
If the person doesn't want you in the first place, they will go "pfft" and forget about it.
If they did want you at the time you ignored them, they will get pissed off, hurt, rant and rave all depending on their degree of desire and then forget about it.
No....actually they won't forget about it....if they are smart they will always remember and never put themselves through it again. | |
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| whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 4/21/2006 2:44:30 AM | | But WHY? you started a party profile...your not over HIM yet..so your going to find ANY guy on here and mess with his mind and body just to get back at HIM??? Your young...get over him and get on with finding a career that makes LOTS OF $$$ and meet the CEO of some company ...and live off of him..as his mistress.. | |
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| whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 4/21/2006 4:57:19 AM | LMAO!!!! 
you are hilarious!!! hahaha!!
I like what the other chickie said... about "he's an ex for a reason"... and why would you want anyone "Crawling back"... Are you looking for a doormat? FIND A NEW ONE! :)
I've noticed, through experience, that once a guy is an "ex".... if you go back (and I mean, it doesn't matter how many times you go back btw)... you'll get the same relationship you (or he) walked away from in the first place with a few tiny changes here and there (aka he may take out the garbage once a month rather than once a year like last time lol get excited now)... The same problems you had the first time around, will most likely still be there, no matter how many times you try...
some people just aren't meant to be together... and yeah, sometimes it's hard because you love the person so much it hurts, but ya know what? if you really love them? walk away... it's what's best for both of you... find someone else that won't need to become an ex :)
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| whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 6/25/2006 5:59:57 PM | Hey, Sxxxylicious, I was just wondering...
How did your exes find out about your new successes and decide to go back to you? Did you keep in touch with them, or did you guys remain friends right after you broke up?
I just broke up with my boyfriend, but I've been having a terrible time forgetting about him and truly focusing on myself. He was my first love, and I thought I was going to marry this guy. It's been hard just completely removing him from the picture, even though physically, he's gone.
Even at this point, I still want him back on some level or another. It was a mutual breakup, but I learned a lot about what I did wrong. We were both very naive, but I just so immature and impatient with everything. We are not speaking because our last conversation erupted into a fight, and I have no idea how to reinitiate contact with him. I was thinking of trying sometime in September when I go back for the semester. I would hate to appear clingy by contacting him now since I was the last one to initiate contact. He keeps telling me that it's painful to talk to me. | |
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| whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 1/9/2008 1:42:59 PM | I was obsessed with this guy I dated about 12 years ago...always calling him, bringing him cute little gifts, etc. He wasn't interested in a relationship with me, so of course it fizzled.
A couple months ago, I was at an Alice Cooper show, and lo and behold, there he stands. We talked, laughed, went for a drink, and generally hung out together for the rest of the evening.
Ever since then, HE is the one who calls me to get together and "stalks" ME...probably because I told him the last thing I needed was another relationship, and can we just do the FWB thing? (sex was always good).
So now I have him where I wanted him 12 years ago....lmaooo
Thing is: we are really getting to be close this time, and I DON'T want a relationship, just a friendship (with bennies) and I'm pretty sure I may end up hurting HIM this time around. | |
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| whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 1/9/2008 2:34:47 PM | When someone gives an answer that is possible to acheived, that would be welcomed, in regards to getting your ex back, that would be good. I can not contact my ex boyfriend, because he is, not to know, I have his new phone #, which is , true, and I make humor out of any bad thing.
I wish I could get that mental case back, ( mental case, because the idiot left me, thinking there is something better). What an idiot. My ex and I had great sex, regularily and he help support me, as he lived in my house which, I own and is completely paid off. He did things around here like mow the lawn etc. and took me places like walks in the woods and concerts of my favorite band.
He thinks there is better than me. This one girl he went out with is, 7 inches taller than him and weights a lot more than him, and she has 2 kids and I have none and I had a tubal igation so I won't be bringing kids into this f**k up world. Oh, she is younger than me. Guess what idiot ex? I, now date men much younger than you, you, moron, idiot, EX.
My ex has an account on here. | |
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| whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 1/9/2008 4:28:55 PM | What ever the issue if you still have feelings for him and he for you don't have him crawl. Are you a sadist a control freak?
Instead whatever the issue must be resolved prior to both of you attempting to put yourselves back into a relationship.
Perhaps seeing a therapist or relationship counsellor to sort you both out regarding past grievances and hurts is a better solution.
Sometimes people make gobsmack decisions which causes distress to relationships . Do you need to see them humiliated and punished until you feel better? If so , get a job as a dominatrix.
If the object of your affection still affects you then to develop a happy and healthy future deal with the past in an intelligent and helpful manner. | |
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| whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 1/9/2008 6:08:02 PM | Just hold on to his car keys.
But, why do you want him back? He is an ex for a reason.
Listen to me. I am one who have crawled back into more past relations then I can count on my fingers. Good thing most of them shot me down at first site. LOL
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I am interested in dating this woman now and my guess is her ex is driving up from georgia like a bat out of hell as we speak.
