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 army_nut29

Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 76
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 1/9/2008 6:53:51 PM
There's no good way. He will never respect you if you try any way of getting him back. Live and let live, evidently, he doesn't want to come back and most importantly, you need to have some self respect.
 Jackohio

Joined: 12/17/2007
Msg: 77
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/3/2008 6:21:28 PM
No man with integrity would ever crawl back to a previous relationship.
 TheS0urce

Joined: 1/3/2008
Msg: 78
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/3/2008 7:07:31 PM
I wouldn't crawl back to any woman no matter how good she is I have self respect. But if I treated her wrong I would apologize that would be it.
 Heidi62

Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 79
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/3/2008 7:21:11 PM
Do yourself a favor and let it "him" go. What ever the reason he is not "there" now will not disapear when he comes back. In the end you both loose.
 Bethlett

Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 80
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/3/2008 7:24:02 PM
Record the superbowl on TiVo at your house....then turn off his power right before halftime.....

Course in this game, they've been losing all along, and even the advertisements sucked...so....
 spumoni spinoza

Joined: 2/27/2007
Msg: 81
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whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/3/2008 7:34:17 PM
Good one crystalise. I concur. Other than that, wait till you both graduate Junior High.
 Next Time Round

Joined: 9/16/2007
Msg: 82
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/3/2008 7:45:07 PM
Sorry, OP, but once again it really doesn't matter to me what any of the others have to say on this topic. I read your question and that was all I needed to formulate an opinion: there is no best way. In fact there is no way at all.

Short of breaking the poor f^ck's legs and holding the only available phone line to dial '911' a few feet away from him - which I put forward in a tongue in cheek manner and by no means advocate - give up already.
 acapellafella

Joined: 12/24/2007
Msg: 83
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/3/2008 8:01:09 PM
Just great....Another fine, healthy all-American relationship.




Ahhhh... I just love the smell of retribution in the morning! It smells like... I dunno... like humiliation!

--Iparkyerlips Now
 ~LoriMac~

Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 84
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/3/2008 8:33:05 PM
Just so you know....your not a good couple
grow up
get in a healthy relationship
grow up some more

he will want you back when your a better catch...right now ...not so much.

You asked...i'm just sayin'
 Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 85
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whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/3/2008 8:43:02 PM
never ever crawl back to an ex.
 Account Deleted

Joined: 1/8/2008
Msg: 86
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/4/2008 6:29:13 AM
ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Why would anyone want anyone who crawls when there are some rather functional bipeds available!?

eww eww eww! The question itself reaks of control, and BEGS Counselling!!!

geez .. didn't we grow out of that crap in kindergarten?

... no frikkin wonder dr.phil and jerry are in competition!!!

Now crawl to me you big hunka manliness!! lmao

ok .. sorry .. done (for now)

A.S.is

(we are soooo not taking over this planet, til y'all stop bein silly buggas!!)
 Ron9

Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 87
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whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/4/2008 6:40:44 AM
"whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?"

Step 1 - place a portable toilet 1/2 block up the road.
Step 2 - give him 7 beers (most people will need to pee ...... bad)
Step 3 - break both of his legs
Step 4 - takes his car keys away from him (should be easy - he is trying to deal with the pain of two broken legs)
Step 5 - walk up to the portable toilet - turn around and look back at him - dangle the keys - and go na na na na (make appropriate face)

There - that should work.
 huntersvt

Joined: 1/30/2008
Msg: 88
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/4/2008 7:01:28 AM
You are the very thing I dislike. You are the one denominating ways to get his attention, so therefore you are the one "crawling back". I hope he realizes that you are obviously a little girl that doesn't know what she wants. Go grow up and find out what love really is, learn to value a person for who they are and learn to work out your problems instead of calling names and breaking up for absolutely jack shit. Breaking up is always a last resort when NOTHING is working between two people.

And if you want him back, just talk to him and apologize, talk about your problem and find some common ground.

Hopefully everything works out well for you.
 Seeker_of_Joy

Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 89
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/4/2008 7:13:36 AM
MissJenna,

Although your feelings and sense of loss should never be discounted, this is yet another example of where we feel we need someone else in order to fill an empty space inside us.

This is why there is a divorce rate of 50%, and couple's counselors are making lots of money.

There is nothing wrong with desiring love, and happiness in your life. And surely there are times when we should offer ourselves a warm hug. Yet, the problem simply repeats itself over and over again as seeking becomes the answer to our never-ending wanting to find love.

Relationships that work are relationships whereby two determine to share a celebration of what they each are accomplishing in their lives---body, mind, and spirit---and then do the sparks fly.

Once we make a decision that *need* is our priority and the guy/gal will supply it eventually the relationship will fail. No one wants to be used to supply another individual with what they feel they are lacking. The complaints then start: "You don't love me the way I want." "You don't supply me with what I need." And it all crumbles from there.

There is another way to attract healthy, rewarding, and intimacy of relationship in your life. And that is through an observation of your own thoughts and feelings, and what you have done and why. Through personal inner change, and decision, we can be whole in and of ourselves, the message will be delivered, and the opportunities for relationship arrive effortlessly in our pathways. And once we realize the Source for love abundance, others seek us in order to find out how we have transformed our lives, and are so apparently happy.

Until then, we keep plodding, trying, working at it, experiencing a sense of loss again and again, and even suffering.

Seeker
 stoppingin

Joined: 12/23/2005
Msg: 90
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/4/2008 7:51:51 AM
why would you want him to...??? THere is a reason he's an ex....
 TONGUEME2

Joined: 12/25/2007
Msg: 91
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whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/4/2008 8:07:33 AM
I totally agree...there is a reason he is your ex, remember what that is? Better to stick with your original reason for dumping him. Unless you think he had a personality transplant
 mzincognito

Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 92
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/6/2008 7:10:35 PM
If you want him to come crawling back to you, you might as well meet him halfway.

Make sure it's over a path of broken glass though; want to make it worth your while.

Sigh.
 practicallyperfect

Joined: 9/7/2007
Msg: 93
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/6/2008 7:28:38 PM
if he left/broke it off....why would you want him back?
 PaulaByTheSea

Joined: 5/6/2007
Msg: 94
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/6/2008 7:37:00 PM
There’s no way. Just look your best and be happy, but don’t ever take him back. That’ll make him crazy. Guys are simple creatures.
 xxdragon

Joined: 1/5/2008
Msg: 95
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 2/6/2008 7:38:38 PM
OP-I didnt even read the responses to this just jumped feet first in!!! The are an ex for a reason and if they are crawling back, you dont want them. Its a momentary satisfaction that will soon fade. Leave it and move on to bigger better brighter things!!!

Goodness.

Cheers
D
 merid33

Joined: 9/11/2009
Msg: 96
whats the best way to get an ex-boyfriend to come crawling back?
Posted: 10/8/2009 8:37:12 AM
Just ignore him!!!! really works. My ex came back.
Best way to get ex boyfriend back is to ignore him and show him that you are strong and you have moved on with your life. Go out and have fun, dressing nice and date other guys. Gain confidence!!!!
You show him that you are happy, Show him that you have moved on with your life and that even though you are not together, You are a happy woman.
Do this for 2 to 3 month. I did, and my ex start calling me and told me that how attractive I am and want to see me again!!!
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