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 cblkjg

Joined: 4/6/2006
Msg: 251
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/7/2006 2:19:18 PM
well put cactus
 Realgoodman123

Joined: 3/31/2006
Msg: 252
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Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/7/2006 4:13:56 PM
I LOVE THE OLDER WOMEN
 CaribRicanFem

Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 253
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/8/2006 1:51:48 PM
Younger men make better students -
 batemen

Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 254
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/8/2006 8:24:10 PM
OP Thank god all the woman your age are not as full of themselves.I don't think many of us care if you like to date younger men ,its your sh*t don't stink attitude that has the men and woman ready to hurl. "I drive a Lexus" thanks for talking to us commoners
 Zep

Joined: 3/31/2006
Msg: 255
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/9/2006 6:19:12 AM
july16th,date who you want to,i date younger women because they look soooooooooooo much better
 KENHUDSON2009

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 256
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Posted: 4/9/2006 12:17:35 PM
yes us guys in our 40's can oly talk about that.. sheeesh What happened to good manners and why do the woman talk about or want to just ****..It's all the 40's men that ask or do that, and at least I can be honest If that's all I wanted it wouldn't be that hard to find..lol I just find it funny that so many young guys like the older woman cuss I did when I was in my 30's too, and use to keep them on there feet too..lol or in bed..lol just kidding people..lol I mean I'm someone who is a gentleman and not just wanting to get into some womans pants, but If she wants it then I should just say NO..Yea right the guys in there 30;s would say No ma'am I only want to talk about hockey??..lol It's all about what two peole have in common, and what they wish to talk about at the time, and sex doesn't have to be talked about in the first 30 minutes of a conversation..sheeesh I mean how many guys in there 30's want a woman who are in there 50's??? I guess thats just left up to us guy's in our 40's too right..sheeesh.lol I have just come to a point in my life that I wouldn't even ask a woman or girl out thats under 32, and that's just because I feel like she could be my daughter or we just may not have alot in coomon, but that's just my choice to choose who I would date or even ****.. I would hope you know the difference between making love and just a **** too..sheeesh. I guess I will get yelled at too, but again It's just my choice, and what I have to live with no one else's.. Best wishes always to you all...Mee aka Ken:-)))
 july16ladybug

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 257
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/9/2006 12:42:10 PM
Couldnt agree with you more ZEP....I do the same thing...I DATE YOUNGER MEN for that very same reason LOL!!!!!

Bateman get real I made that point for a reason lol....shall I send you a copy of that nasty email she sent me? Why dont you read the comments that were made to me....am I supposed to not reply to them.....JEALOUSY is a horrible emotion and this wise gorgeous young hottie said this to me one time he said "think of jealousy like the flu and get over it lol" These women have such low self esteem issues surrounding themselves that they feel the need to comment negatively about anything "any women" who has confidence commented on this thread. Everytime a woman comes into this thread and says how they can relate or has great self esteem in themselves the "catty" women appear and have something negative to say....and really you only need to look at their profile to know where they are coming from and it "SHOWS". So really you shouldnt be so upset over my lexus comment....read some comments from the others and stop being a homer and show some individuality surrounding new people on these forums who may be a bit different.... We all need to embrace differences and if I comment that I have felt in my life that younger men have spoiled me its because its true in my OWN experiences.

This is whats wrong with some women they get "catty" when other women have confidence and are happy with their life, I have had many unpleasants in my life and have had heart ache over breaks up but I strive to still move forward. I didnt make this forum to like so many have said "promote me". I was at a crossroads and like so many others on this site wanted to share and get some feed back.......

Like that other women said to me ....cant take the heat get out of the frying pan so to speak lol.....I never back off from any debate...how do you think I could have made such a comment....hard work!

Men are different and exciting at all ages and if I do meet a man my age or a bit older that does it for me...then I will start another thread......with the same enthusiasm...right now I have had nothing but bad experiences....ITS ALL A LEARNING CURVE FOR ME AS WELL...with every date, relationship etc....I take a better part of it with me and learn more and more.

OH KEN where does it say I just want to fuck although wtf not....and I do know the difference between making love and fucking and I LOVE BOTH...its funny when women get to an age where they can be more free with their sexuality that men get fucked up about it....and yes I can say that conversations with men who can talk hockey get me alot wetter then men who ask me wtf Im wearing.......I think its based on an intelligent man who gets off with a womans brain as well.....now dont go off thinking Im cutting older men down Im saying ALL MEN!!!!!

I actually love being this age....you have way more freedom and it shows!!!!!!!!!!!!
 july16ladybug

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 258
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/9/2006 1:00:55 PM
Bateman UMMMMM just read your profile...do you not say your looking for " A SLIM ATTRACTIVE WOMAN"......please dont come preaching to me about my attitude.....ok....THANKS!!!!!
 arri

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 259
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/9/2006 1:12:44 PM
Each to his/her own. I know I can get young girls if I wanted to, but I get bored and the ones my own age, drive me crazy with attitude. That's why I am single
 Indigo Rose

Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 260
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/9/2006 3:21:25 PM
You mentioned my "mean" e-mail twice must have really hit a nerve ...sorry
It was mostly a joke but I see your rather lacking in the good humor department.
If you enjoy young men good for you I like 'em too!...You said there have been "many many" in your life! I can't brag about MANY as all my relationships have been long term.They want to keep me!
Oh and we don't have buses here on the prairie ...plenty of horses though... So I recognize horse puckey when I see it!
 july16ladybug

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 261
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/9/2006 4:44:41 PM
Actually no it wasnt a joke ( I think you know this as well) lmao or you would have said it in this forum ( me thinks you dont want your online chat friends of yours to know whats really lurking behind that smile) LAMO....well hmmmm all those long term relationships huh you brag that you have had MANY long term, it seems much the same...well I was MARRIED for a very long time, just recently got divorced, and unfortunately it was I who ended it and my EX would very much like for us to get back together... lmao....you never give up do you, why cant you just be happy for me and say good on you girl... you present yourself one way and then slug back another.

I never got personal at all with you, I guess that remark about provocative pictures really struck a nerve, honestly I didnt even know you had them when I made that remark. ...I was just making a point about the self promoting, how does one differ from the other and the other well, is just obvious to everyone on this site. I KNOW I KNOW your going to say...got em show them...but some should really not do that dont you think (blech).

Regarding the many many men in my life....yeah I have many cause Im actually just dating right now...and I like it this way until I find someone worth having a relationship with.....see I have a career where I make a good salary, I own property and have two wonderful children who are in University so why would I have to run into a long term relationship, Im not in a hurry. I realize some women cannot make it on their own financially and think they need to be with a man.....but I really can sit back pick and be choosey....ITS I HONEY WHO DONT WANT TO KEEP THEM!!!

Best of luck to you and the MEN who want to KEEP you lmao......oh and talking about horse manure hahahahahahaha.... you seem to really contradict anything you say.....

Education is a really great tool to have in ones life....it keeps your brain healthy and moving, gets you further, so as that you too, can have the opportunity to be picky choosey and HAPPY!

Dating is loads of fun....I only regret one and well emotionally I should have allowed it to have happened but found out to late that I WAS WRONG....see i can admit my mistakes as well.

You need to not worry so much about what I have to say, I went for a nice long bike ride today.......getting plenty of exercise and sunshine is also a very healthy thing to do.....wouldnt you agree?

Stay Sweet......got to love your smile nice!!!!!!
 dbndon

Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 262
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Posted: 4/9/2006 5:11:12 PM
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Here’s a middle aged woman who says she likes hockey. Or, should it better be said that this middle aged woman likes the hockey team? Nothing really wrong with that. I mean, who really cares?

Nope, no one really cares and that’s the point a few have made above. It wasn’t till this middle aged woman came on a public forum to announce to the group that her favorite game is mattress pool, and hinted around that she has played it with enough guys of hockey playing age to make up a team or so, that people started wondering why she was doing this.

What is appalling to some, but rather amusing to most of us, is the way this middle aged women promotes and justifies her supposed behavior. Rather than defending her action on its merit, of which there is little, she instead lashes out with the absurd falsity of an ad hominem attack on anyone disagreeing.

Which is to say, this middle ages women argues with the logic of a 13 year old girl. Writes like one, too. She says she is educated, but that education obviously did not include logic or debate. And that, I might add, is exactly what makes this thread so humorous and keeps people reading.
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 july16ladybug

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 263
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/9/2006 5:55:20 PM
LMAO oh but it always seems to bring the OLDER SENIOR CITIZEN back though doesnt it and Im pretty sure how obvious it is to "everyone" that you may have a secret little ole crush on me.....lol

One who thinks debating on a thread is childish behavior to someone who sexually promotes on a dating site with sexual images of themself, needs to reaffirm why it "GETS TO HIM" so much that I have something to say.....all threads of this nature are personal to the OP thats why they make them.....I dont think I need to tell you that....

How can one disagree with "younger men have spoiled me"....read what you have written, the only disagreeing is YOU PEOPLE at how happy I should be about it.

All of you made it a personal attack about what I look like, my age, my sexual life, instead of intellectually realizing that I SAID "YOUNGER MEN HAVE SPOILED ME ....so how absurd that you would say you disagree hahahahahahahahahaha. No where did I make slight of anyone, instead I talked about my own experiences with older men, I never once made a personal attack on anyone until your posse came in here and started all that nonsense. ONCE again I need to remind you that being JEALOUS is a horrible emotion and I learned a long time ago that it will not get you anywhere but feeling more bad about yourself.

So what if I came in a public forum to announce that.....I think that there are worse things that could be said about ones life and ummm I have read enough forums to know that people talk about lots of things and sex isnt one they shy away from even publicly. So really GRAMPS if you dont care like you said you dont then why do you bother.


It is healthy to like sex and like it which every way one does as long as it is consensual between two adults.....you did read that most men I have dated younger were not that much younger then 10 years so reallY "GRAMPS" what is your point. Why does it concern you if I have ****ed the whole VANCOUVER CANUCKS lol......thats actually a pleasant fantasy!


BREATHE DEEPLY and think INSIDE YOURSELF and really ask yourself what is the REAL reason I keep coming in here.....does my friend need rescuing, am I trying to self-promote?

YOU like the others contradict yourself over and over and its my pleasure to let you do it....you may need to reread all that you wrote in this forum....your LOSING IT!!!!

I believe that it was the term of reference that I put "YOUNGER MEN HAVE SPOILED ME" that has all your panties in a knot......I only defend whats personal and right to me....I think MUFFY had it right when he said your only looking to have this thread shut down and so be it.

Im happy to have participated and got so many people thinking.....isnt that what this is all about.....healthy relating and thinking......not putting someone down in sutle ways because your jealous of her experiences.

You do also realize that the term middle age is in reference to the life line and how long someone has to live...Im glad Im middle aged if 88 is the time line your talking about....hmmm 64 is like 24 years away isnt it....."phew" thank gawd you say Im middle aged!


GOOD NIGHT and GOOD LUCK!!!!

 pickem

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 264
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Posted: 4/9/2006 6:08:08 PM
tsk tsk .. picking on the senior citizens now..omg. what next...the pope . don't know if this was covered earlier but is there a "youngest" limit you place on yourself
 bigggpapa619

Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 265
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/9/2006 6:09:39 PM
you just havent came across the right 44 year old ......till now
 arri

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 266
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/9/2006 6:12:13 PM
Why would do you guys care about an admitted cougar, with an attitude, when there are so many classy women around?
 verybubbley

Joined: 2/6/2006
Msg: 267
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Posted: 4/9/2006 6:25:31 PM
HEY "JULIE"...YOU GO GIRL!!.YOUNGER MEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN ATTRACTED TO ME,BECAUSE I HAVE ALWAYS LOOKED YOUNGER THAN I AM.I PREFER YOUNGER MAN ALSO.THEY HAVE ALWAYS TREATED ME BETTER...AND THEY ARE MORE FUN...SPONTANIOUS.KEEP DATING THEM DONT WORRY ABOUT THE FUTURE....
 july16ladybug

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 268
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Posted: 4/9/2006 6:29:24 PM
I find that term cougar vulgar and its YOU MEN who use it.....Besides arent Cougars women who prey on younger men....and since the youngest I dated was only 10 years younger....please dont put me in the category.

YOUR RIGHT ARRI...why should they care and yes please go find those classy women....who promote themselves with their tits hanging out and their legs half open....they have so much class...............I beg of you please!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL

Why do I have an attitude lmao.....

and pickem....your gorgeous!!!!!! enuff said!
 arri

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 269
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Posted: 4/9/2006 6:40:48 PM
Thanks, but I have already explained why.


Each to his/her own. I know I can get young girls if I wanted to, but I get bored and the ones my own age, drive me crazy with attitude. That's why I am single


I wish I could stay entertained dating younger women, but not enough to sustain long term interest. Also, cougar is not that bad of a term, and you do prey on younger men ... this thread that you have maintained active for 11 pages is nothing more than self promotion.
 july16ladybug

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 270
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/9/2006 7:19:32 PM
PREY ON YOUNGER MEN...... Are men ten years younger really consider that much younger, Im sure if it were the other way around no one would call a man my age a Cougar. I dont actively go out of my way to find younger men, I dont actively go out of my way to find any man....and dont have to really. Yup self promotion in all its glory....what am I self promoting? I dont really date anyone from this site....I have met a few but nothing to write home about and I dont really take a dating site that serious.....so not trying to self promote on this site. I take myself off anyones favorites list that I think isnt a fit and most of them are younger. So really you people who keep saying that may have issues surrounding your own self promoting.

I think you may be doing the self promoting with "I know I can get younger girls if I wanted to"......hmmm do you actually think you can? lol

Keep trying and dont give up!!!!
 arri

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 271
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Posted: 4/9/2006 7:33:37 PM
"I know I can get younger girls if I wanted to"......hmmm do you actually think you can?


Well .. let me think about it .. yeb .. in addition to good looks and a little charm .. I drive a BMW
 pickem

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 272
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Posted: 4/9/2006 7:34:42 PM
i started chatting with a lady herein my city who was older than me.. when i asked her if she would consider herself a cougar, she flew off the handle completely, so obviously some take that word as an extreme insult.. didn't mean it that way and didn't know it was very offensive to some at the time.. but what is with all this stuff about self promoting.. isn't that what a dating site is? a forum to self promote... i read the forums as much to find out about the people as much as the actual topics... who in this thread considers themselves open minded or non judgemental or seeks that in another
 july16ladybug

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 273
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Posted: 4/9/2006 7:42:25 PM
wow "in addition to good looks and a little charm" Arri is this not self promoting lmao and good on you that you think you are...thats called confidence in one self, not everyone may think so, but you thinking that is healthy.......so why do I have an attitude then.?..if you can just say what you said LMAO




Thats true pickem, if I didnt make this thread I would not have met gorgeous gentlemen as yourself and Muffy, and have started a nice friendship with.....Im really grateful for that...thank you
 medicaldiver

Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 274
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Posted: 4/9/2006 8:06:17 PM
Perhaps it is the type of men your age that you are having difficulty with. Unless of course you are talking about sexual issues. Not a good position to assume.
 AbrakaDeborah

Joined: 1/26/2006
Msg: 275
Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 4/9/2006 8:24:14 PM
I prefer yonger men too. It's not just for the sex it's for the respect and they are more fun to be around! I'm just not attracted to an older man set in his ways that doesn't dance or be a spur of the moment type person. And not set in their ways...

I love the way they dress and everything about them!

Younger guys are so sexy and outgoing! They are awsome and know how to have treat a woman. Fun Fun Fun!
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