| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 7/21/2006 6:21:54 AM | | one update...was dead set against guys younger than me...till recently...oh my...he is only a few yrs younger but OMG...OMFG...sorry but I am liking the younger guy these days...i love that there is no rush to get to the alter...but also that he isnt turned off of women from his ex wife/gf/mom/whatf*ckingever | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 7/22/2006 2:05:36 PM | | I'AM 43 AND I LOVE THE OLDER LADIES AND I LOVE TO GIVE THEM RESPECT THAT THEY SHOULD GET. I COME FROM THE OLD SCHOOL IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN AS IN OPEN DOORS NO MATTER WHERE OR WHEN GIVING THE WOMAN I MAY BE DATING A BACK RUB WITH WARM BABY OIL OR RUNNING HER A BUBBLE BATH AND BATHING HER BRING HER FLOWERS HOME AND JUST KEEPING HER HAPPY GOD BLESS YA ERIC | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 7/28/2006 8:23:42 AM | | July if you are both in Love and know it is the right thing, then no one needs to obsess over age. Too much crap has been taught to uneducated people. It is not about social views. it is about right or wrong and that is something only you and your partner can figure out. I am sorry you lost your love because of social stupidity or jealousies. Move on with what you now know and do not regret things you cannot change. The old saying that it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all is so true. There will be another for you. You will know when it is right. I wish you all the love and happiness a person can find. Ron. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 7/28/2006 9:22:49 AM | You are young at heart and that will never change......you will be attracted to younger people when you are 50....60....70...But you need to be aware that men in their 30's who have not done the marriage / children thing....WILL want to at some point. So a limited future should be expected. However....in about ten years...it will all work out just fine!!
Maybe you men in your 40's and 50's should start looking for women your age or a little older....you might be pleasantly surprised!!!! We are awesome!! | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 11/14/2006 6:52:10 PM | Holy! I forgot about this thread...wow life just goes so fast...its been one whole year since I made this one...lots has happened. I met someone who I thought I could open my heart with just to have it stomped on and my soul crushed.
If I would have stayed in the mind-set I was when I made this thread I would have been way better off and happier! KUDOS to me and that care free attitude I had last year....Im bringing it back again!!!
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 11/14/2006 7:27:48 PM | its peculair, you can;t find a man near your age to be with.. i;m not knocking you. but there are alot of guys my age who are full of life.. with some vinagar added. i have dated younger women too, and actually they seem to like the older men for their responsibility, maturness, and their laid back lifestyle. however, not all women like guys that are laid back.. and such. as the saying goes different strokes for different folks! | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/6/2009 12:57:14 PM | OK - LOVIN' this thread about younger men! Married twice - one was older and one was younger. Have to agree on the energy thing, as well as them being more "open" to new things. In other words, not already to the point of "been there, done that, don't need (want) another T-Shirt"!!
Age truly is "just a number"!!
So...I have to know . . . is there a trick to getting all these "extra little smileyes" that show up here onto the fishing site? | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/6/2009 3:49:30 PM | I am going to continue to date them until I am just way old, but what is really obvious is the older I get the older they will be too!
I don't think you need to worry about getting older. Age is relative.
Those hot guys in their thirties will not suddenly turn into old fuddy duddies once they pass 40. If you take care of yourself you can stay attractive. Not youthful but attractive. You have a lot of control over that.
Don't you remember when you were 18 and you thought 32 was ancient?
Also, those younger guys are not just cool bc they are young. They are cool bc they are of a different generation, a different mindset. Different social attitude. That's what makes them so much more attractive in my exp.
I totally get where you are coming from. I think it's generational. I find men my age and older are sexist and patronizing, almost always have ridiculous double standards that grate on the nerves and regardless of being married or not they still want to jump my bones and are crudely open about it. However, the younger guys have way more respect for themselves and women in general. I'm generalising of course but I still think it's basically true that there is a huge change in attitudes between those born in the 60's and those born in the 70's. They are not controlling and domineering and don't act all superior all the time. They are also a delight to work with. None of the stupid power games the older guys insist on playing.
I don't know what to say other than that. I wish it wasn't true bc it's bad news for women who want to date their own age but that's what I see. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/6/2009 4:24:27 PM |
I'm generalising of course but I still think it's basically true that there is a huge change in attitudes between those born in the 60's and those born in the 70's. They are not controlling and domineering and don't act all superior all the time. They are also a delight to work with. None of the stupid power games the older guys insist on playing. - and they probably haven't supported a family and gone through divorce either, might change the attitude a little, jus sayin...... | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/6/2009 5:44:15 PM |
I totally get where you are coming from. I think it's generational. I find men my age and older are sexist and patronizing, almost always have ridiculous double standards that grate on the nerves and regardless of being married or not they still want to jump my bones and are crudely open about it. However, the younger guys have way more respect for themselves and women in general. I'm generalising of course but I still think it's basically true that there is a huge change in attitudes between those born in the 60's and those born in the 70's. They are not controlling and domineering and don't act all superior all the time. They are also a delight to work with. None of the stupid power games the older guys insist on playing.
Its really all generalizations. The OP since long gone. She was making some rather boastful comments on how great younger guys were. But it smelled a little fishy. Upon looking at her posting history I found out that her comments totally contradicted her postings in other topics. When I confronted her about this she called me bitter and resentful. Here was my previous conversation to her about this in message 73:
In one of her other replys for another topic states the incredible amount of mail she is receiving from younger guys thinking shes desperate for sex just because shes an older woman. It sounds like it does not make younger guys as nice as she states in this topic.
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LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL hahahahahahahahahahaha.......reading that post only goes to show who are the ones that are bitter.....and if men only go with women for what they can offer, shouldnt we as women being be doing the same and YES WE FINALLY ARE and its not for the money hahahahahahahaha.....
I think it is all relative. Sure older women may like younger men for whatever reason. But just as many men look for older women for sex as well and vice versa. Its all just the process in finding someone that is comparable for you. So don't go by generalizations too much. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/6/2009 6:05:22 PM |
Don't you remember when you were 18 and you thought 32 was ancient?
Oh man, that takes me back. I remember being 16 and totally in love with MTV's Idalis until I found out she was the decrepit age of 30.
I can kind of relate to the OP. I get bored with a lot of women my age. They tend to be looking to settle down, start families, and live conventional, ho-hum lives. They don't seem to like to really go out and do anything fun anymore. I'm not interested in the two car garage and white picket fence thing at this point in my life. I need more than that. I need excitement, energy, and a taste for adventure. I've noticed a lot of women seem to lose this after about age 25. So I tend to use that as somewhat of a cut-off point.
The only problem is the inevitable maturity factor that usually comes into play at some point that gets really old after awhile. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/7/2009 5:29:15 PM | | Maybe, just maybe it is about feeling young and beautiful. Younger men tend to make you feel that way. The same would apply to older men with younger women. The younger ones seek experience while the older ones seek refreshment. The question seems to be about the timing. When will I not be attractive enough for younger men but yet attractive enough to find someone my age so I don't have to grow old alone. It seems as though it might be a fine balancing act. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/8/2009 10:42:33 AM | I have said it in my 30's and now at 40. ..Men are finished in dating and love and sex when they hit thier 40's these days.
Women are in the driver's seat now, call the shots and have the power. Younger men will now be thier main choice, and only those who want to settle will take an old guy. Glad I am not dating at 40. I figured if I am single by the time I am 40, I will be done with dating. Well best choice ever. Younger men are the real men out there, truth hurts guys, accept it. Unless you got money then it is a whole different picture. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/8/2009 10:52:30 AM | Elsbethlett wrote: [Wow. This OP is from 2005. And some of the people that posted on the original string with the original poster are still on this site.
And bitter as hell.
This is not encouraging.]
Are the bitter ones looking for young stuff or same age? Are they complaining about being used? People only wanted them for sex? Reading 4 years results of something can teach valuable lessons  | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/8/2009 2:02:46 PM |
Wow. This OP is from 2005. And some of the people that posted on the original string with the original poster are still on this site.
And bitter as hell. This is not encouraging.
Actually I find the OP the one that is bitter on older men her age. All you have to do is start reading her posts. She even admits to finding a younger man and admits to screwing that up.
I have said it in my 30's and now at 40. ..Men are finished in dating and love and sex when they hit thier 40's these days.
Women are in the driver's seat now, call the shots and have the power. Younger men will now be thier main choice, and only those who want to settle will take an old guy. Glad I am not dating at 40. I figured if I am single by the time I am 40, I will be done with dating. Well best choice ever. Younger men are the real men out there, truth hurts guys, accept it. Unless you got money then it is a whole different picture.
Women are in the driver's seat now, call the shots and have the power.
Women with control issues? No thanks, I'll pass. Probably why they seek younger guys, the older men won't put up with it. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/8/2009 10:53:44 PM |
Women with control issues? No thanks, I'll pass. Probably why they seek younger guys, the older men won't put up with it.
Sadly the women could care less because there is a neverending amoutn of younger guys who want them. And there will be alot of older men who will be single for a very long time. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/8/2009 11:40:11 PM | OP: Do I detect a little guilt here about these "younger men"?
You're looking at this as a potentially lifelong thing. Who cares about the future? Enjoy what today holds! If you don't like guys your age or older, don't date them. You like what you like. As long as they seem to like you, you're golden.
Keep your body in good shape. Most men don't give a rat's ass about crows-feet around the eyes and facial wrinkles--it's overall body shape that matters.
When you DO reach that point where you're too old to attract these young bucks, hang out with fuddy-duddy lady friends and reminisce about your exploits-! The ladies will listen jealously... | |
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Posted: 8/9/2009 7:12:12 PM | I have to reply to this.
I am totally stunned by the hypocrisy here.
If a dude wants to date younger he's "immature" or "having a midlife crisis" or he's just "a disgusting pervert."
In other threads I have seen guys who wanna date younger get REAMED by the older women on this site.
They blab on and on about "what would a guy that age have to talk about with a younger woman?" And "what would they have in common?"
God, the idiocy. What do any two people talk about?
But cougars are okay. Whatever women wanna do is okay, and politically correct.
What bullshit.
The truth of the matter is that as hard as it is to find someone to love, PERIOD, as long as the two people are above the age of consent, it's nobody's godamned business what they do. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/9/2009 9:30:35 PM |
The truth of the matter is that as hard as it is to find someone to love, PERIOD, as long as the two people are above the age of consent, it's nobody's godamned business what they do.
good suggestion!
but Jimmy I am sure the people who "ream" others for dating younger are not the same as the ones who are in favour of cougars. ( I think that is such a funny term makes me laugh, just because I date someone younger doesn't mean I am any different from anyone who dates older or the same age ... how silly!) | |
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Posted: 8/10/2009 5:49:52 AM | Your spelling turns me off... it's "TOO serious" or "TOO good for me". Your not knowing the difference between to, too and probably two is disturbing for a 40+ year old.
You are just so great a person to date the older guys... just the younger ones that think banging an older broad is sporting. They love to tell their buddies that a woman your age made their list. Congrats.
You're in a pickle now, welcome to it. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/10/2009 8:59:11 AM |
but Jimmy I am sure the people who "ream" others for dating younger are not the same as the ones who are in favour of cougars. ( I think that is such a funny term makes me laugh, just because I date someone younger doesn't mean I am any different from anyone who dates older or the same age ... how silly!)
Most women will anyhow, chastise a man for dating much younger. No matter she dates younger guys or not. It is a woman's motherly senses that surface. Most women who do bash a man for it usually it is they have daughters or they were once cheated on and the woman who her man cheated with was a younger woman.
These days men today 40+ are told "You guys got away with it for years, now it is our turn"...which is saying that us men are to pay the price for the men in the past.
But yes women who date younger men are different than men who date younger women. Women over 40 are wanting to be sexually satisfied and most men can't do that over 40, so she is looking for that fullfilment. Men many times are having thier egos boosted when a younger woman shows interest in him because he knows he does not match up to the young guys sexually. But many younger women want to go on fun dates, out to dinner etc, things that alot of younger guys won't do.
So there are total different reasons why each gender will date younger.
I know myself being 40, I couldn't satisfy a woman my age sexually. But I do not feel comfortable dating younger, so I chose to no longer date or have sex. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/10/2009 11:06:23 AM |
I have said it in my 30's and now at 40. ..Men are finished in dating and love and sex when they hit thier 40's these days.
Women are in the driver's seat now, call the shots and have the power.
Huh? Did you turn in your man card, because you really need to. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 8/10/2009 11:54:05 AM |
Huh? Did you turn in your man card, because you really need to.
Oh I never knew there was a specific club you had to belong to. I think I turned in my "I don't want to accept reality or the truth" card because I see so many men over 40 who seem to think they are a ladies man or have so much more than younger men. Keep dreaming, because the ladies give the final say if they will date you, have sex with you..or not. | |
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