| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 11/15/2005 7:05:02 PM | | THere is nothing wrong with you wanting to date someone younger. Every one has there preferences on what they like and what they don't like. ALthough I am not even in my thirties yet I prefer someone who is younger. For me in my experience I find older men to be controling, manipulative and carry way way to much baggage. Guys have been plunking women in the daycare centers for years it's about time women got the opportunity to do so as well. Good luck! | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 11/15/2005 10:27:01 PM | YOU have given me the greatest compliment lol. The pics you said of my being young were taken in September 2005 LMAO and the blurry one that you say are of me being old was taken last June 2004LOL
Thank you Im getting younger everyday!!!! lol
YOU MEN JUST STICK YOUR FOOT IN YOUR MOUTHS ALL THE TIME and it is just tooooooooooooooooooooo funny lmao............hahahahahahahaha OH by the way I have a cam lol
This was the best post I have gotten today all I can say is yessssssssssss I do look younger.
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 11/16/2005 2:24:43 AM | | july16ladybug... you are 44...?! And you look this good!? I don't think you need to worry about getting wrinkled and ugly anytime soon lol. You will be beautiful for a long, long time :) | |
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| Re: Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 11/16/2005 3:34:51 AM | OK ... lets forget the two sexist generalisations that there are only two types of mature aged guys ... I am sure you would find someone saying there are only two types of women to be equally narrow minded.
But for the subject of being spoiled by younger guys ..... where are they now ? ..... what experiences are they sharing with you now and hoping to share with you for many years to come ? And .... why are you on a dating site if they are so good to you and concerned about you ?
I suppose if a relationship to you focuses primarily on the physical, then that may be enough to satisfy you ..... however ..... I prefer a relationship to be mutli dimensional and a progression that is born and grows over the long term, forming a friendship that no short term relationship could ever match.
I sincerely and truly hope you find what you are looking for, younger or of your own generation. I relate well with younger people but I tend to think for the purposes of building a strong, caring and enduring relationship, I prefer someone around my age.
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| Re: Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 11/16/2005 6:54:52 AM |
I suppose if a relationship to you focuses primarily on the physical, then that may be enough to satisfy you
Here we go, back to the same old generalization that when an older woman prefers a younger man, it's only about sex. | |
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| Re: Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 11/16/2005 7:21:32 AM | | I am on this site like so many others I guess.......to find the "MAN" of my dreams...whether younger or older. | |
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| Re: Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 11/16/2005 7:33:57 AM | | Its not really a generalization, shore. He said IF it PRIMARILY focuses on the physical aspects. He did not say ALL or MOST older women are focused on the sexual aspects of it. | |
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| Re: Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 1/31/2006 5:04:14 PM | UPDATE: since this post I have dated several men different ages....Im now seeing a 34 year old and I MEAN IT WHEN I TELL YOU THIS out of all the other men, one being 46 another 39 and another 44........................THE 34 year old has been the most generous with not only his feelings and emotions, but his money, his time, his thoughtfulness, his humor and of course the sexxxxxxxxxxxxxxx.............best ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/2/2006 7:16:30 PM | Hi july16lagybug !!!!!
Wow, you know I found that to be the opposite, any older men I've dated are awesome,
nice,warm,respectful & spoil me rotten. I have only dated a couple of younger guys........
not a good experience for me I'm affraid........
My hat's Off to you !!!!! Cheer !!!!
Have fun !!!! maybe I should have another look    | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/2/2006 9:52:13 PM | You sound like someone quite self-centered and looking here to find compliments on how "young" you look. Why come on to a forum as this and broadcast how spoiled you are? And who cares how old the men you date are? What I read between the lines is none of those younger men stuck around, you are single and worried about getting older.
Date who you like - perhaps if you looked beyond how younger men "spoil" you and go a little deeper you will find someone who not only wanted to spoil you but sees more than your own perception of how you look and want to be there for the years to come.
I'm really not trying to be rude as I don't know you, but only commenting on your words in this post and responding accordingly. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/3/2006 1:35:12 AM | Don't know why i bothered reading this fluff, but yes, you do sound spoiled. And when you do age past this 'prime' that you are in, i suppose you will be rotten!
In my experience, age has had nothing to do with peoples disposition. I've met crotchety young people and kind ones. Same for those of age.
Unbelievable to me that someone of your age - in the sense that you've walked this earth for 40 plus years - would equate the way men of a certain age treat you in order to get sex from you as an indication of an age preference.
Enjoy your springtime my dear. There are many 'ages' in each of us: physical, emotional, sexual, and spiritual among others. I'd reckon that you are emotionally many years younger than your physical age - reading your posts has clearly shown this.
When you mature, you'll understand. Aloha
Does anyone else agree with my opinion?
No offence is implied, but should be inferred. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/3/2006 2:29:25 PM | No offence taken and your right I am much more younger in my thinking. I just talk from experience and from my own prefences and I have to say it is always the bitter resentful men who spout off there opinions the way you have ummmm your age indicates 37 I doubt that cause most men I have met your age are not as cynical and bitter as you seem lol.
Its actually the other way around LMAO......and by the way I love the sex its great and ummmm I have to honestly tell you once more ummmmmmm the sex is absolutely positively different......this one gentelmen that I am experiencing right now is physical, sexual, and spiritual among others lol and also respectful (isnt respectful a great word I actually love that word when it comes to men and having great sex with them)!!!!!!
heres a thought .....who wants to be mature hahahahahahahahahahahaha
By the way why do you men who are like this, find it so necessary to have people agree with thier opinion that shows a lot of insecurties in my books.........ENJOY!!!!!!
no offence is implied but definitely positively and for sure INFERRED
Also to the other post above yours LMAO.......I have never had any problems ever attracting any kind of man I may be attracted to find me interesting and I think many women who need to judge as yourself ummmmm may need to look at themselves and think am I somewhat a bit .......well you know the horrible word that we all hate.....starts with a J......hehehehehhe | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/4/2006 10:47:59 AM | I didn't read all your posts, but as long as you're having fun with younger men, go for it! I would stop dating them when they start saying "You remind me of my mother".
I'm also younger looking than I really am. It's like I'm stuck inbetween where younger women treat me like an older brother and older women treat me like their lost son (empty nesters). I tell ya, I get no respect | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/4/2006 11:35:19 AM | Well I doubt that men ten years younger then me will say "you remind me of my Mother"....unless their Mother had them when they were ten years old...........thats an awful thought! At 45 your in your prime MARGUEMARC and should embrace all ages and just simply enjoy.....
My colleague and I always talk about if we would settle down again and marry someone. The thought of marrying someone older then us just doesnt sit well. We have found that most older men who are looking to settle down are just simply...."looking for a mother figure to take care of them". Did anyone read the recent article in "The Vancouver Sun"...it read that older men in this city are finding it hard to date and meet women their age or a few years younger and thats because of what I just told you regarding "wanting a MOMMY". So you see its not just me spewing out my opiniions its obviously out there and a big big issue.
I am welcoming and embracing all my experiences and if by chance someone my age or a few years older comes into my life........and there is chemistry.........GREAT!!!!!!
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/4/2006 11:39:03 AM | july16ladybug...
sorry to sound sour in the earlier post.
If more people had a 'younger attitude' there'd probably be alot less lonely people.
Regarding your statement that you're becoming spoiled...
the guys aren't doing it - you're spoiling yourself in a good way.
Enjoy yourself and continue to spoil yourself with whatever makes you happy.
i'll take it as an example.
from your other posts and your profile - you don't seem to be the type to be having a good time at the expense of or hurting others.
Bitterness results in those so burned. and age may increase the effect.
from a very 'old' young guy - to you.
Aloha.
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/4/2006 11:52:57 AM | | Deja vu? Now you know why men chase younger women. If you really want to feel out of place ask them who the first President is they remember. It's really putting up a mirror. It all depends on what phase you are in and what you are looking for. Chances are it won't be anything real, but it is a hell of a lot of fun! | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 10:16:53 AM | | Eventually all the younger men you have dated will get older and become the middle age men you now talk about. So then another woman will talk about how worthless they are only to continue in a never ending cycle. But hey, as long as your happy thats all that matters. | |
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| Re: Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 10:48:59 AM | UPDATE: since this post I have dated several men different ages....Im now seeing a 34 year old and I MEAN IT WHEN I TELL YOU THIS out of all the other men, one being 46 another 39 and another 44........................THE 34 year old has been the most generous with not only his feelings and emotions, but his money, his time, his thoughtfulness, his humor and of course the sexxxxxxxxxxxxxxx.............best ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how was the date with the 44 yr old? was it exactly like the vancouver sun article said about "wanting a mommy"?
oh, i think yer a stuck up **** but at least yer honest. Not to mention you handled that troll attacking your "younger pics" with aplomb.
one thing i do wonder is whether you hang out with someone, talk about yerself alot, then break up after saying something embarrassing without ever having found out anything meaningful about the guy other than, "what do you do?" But, that's just my assumption. And beside the point, good on you...one of the more energizing threads i've read on here in my VERY short time on these forums.
haha you remind me of this nurse friend i know. she's totally RARRRRR. her friend says all nurses are hard party animals. it's funny | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 11:17:17 AM | | I am there with you sister. I love the energy and the look of the young ones too. I seem to attract them, and that is flattering in it's way, certainly! I have a higher goal than most of these youngins(20 somethings) when it comes to 'relationship' tho...LOL...and so I have made a conscious decision to not go there any more, no matter how tempting! I still feel like I am lookin for a needle in a haystack when it comes to finding the 40'ish man that appeals to me and wants me vs. the younger fake boobie babe. I am here, still got my groove...where are you? 30-45 applicants apply now... | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 12:16:14 PM | I am with you too girl. I am actually 41 (change my age for search purposes only). I seem to attract young guys too. They are more open less cynical and just more fun usually. I usually date men 32-39. I have yet to be attracted to a single man over 40. They just dont look good and seem to need to find a young chick to prove they still have it. I have started only dating the ones that have children because I am not interested in propagating further.
When I go out I RARLY get a single guy my age to hit on me. The thing that has been uncomfortable is that I have a daughter (21) that is in their age bracket. As one guy put it..."It is just weird that someone hot could have a daughter that could be hot."
All of my girlfriends are dating men from 3-10 years younger then them. I really think for a myraid of reasons in many instances younger guys and older women are more compatable. Unlike the eye candy thing for men datig younger women it really has to do with true compatability....sexually, confident, less fickle, more appreciative, live the same length of time etc.
So go for it you are not alone with this!!!! | |
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| Re: Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 2:18:52 PM | Gee Muffy.... why are earth would you think Im stuck up. Thats not all true of me and there are some men on this very site who have met me and know that for a fact. I am a very nice down to earth person, who is honest about her perspectives and preferences. I am not totally put off dating men my age, cause I know not everyone is the same and I usually dont categorize. I was simply up dating this forum.
The younger man in my life is just that, sweet and kind and when I was feeling miserable and just needed a man to talk to, he was there and the conversation never quickly changed to some sexual content that I find men in their 40s do all the time. This gentleman actually sang me real nice childrens songs as I cried on his shoulders. I have never felt so much awesome caring from a man and he is only 34, it was very special to say the least. Instead of the "I know what will make you feel better babe, feel it Im hard for you"......the usual crap I get from older men, this younger man was nice and caring who truly wanted to be there for me.
The Vancouver Sun Article was right and then there are the ones in their 40s who look younger too and act younger and **** ever woman they can get their hands on and havent gotten rid of that player stupid mentality, that is literally, ruining us woman who want to live healthy lifestyles and not catch every disgusting sexual disease out there.
Anyways ,Muffy, you shouldnt just think something of a person without actually really knowing them........I am definitely not a total ****......I love men, all kinds.
As far as just hanging out with someone and talking about myself....good point....that could be a wake up call for me and the embarassing thing, I doubt that, I am very easy going and love to laugh and the breaking up thing.......well who knows, that a total different forum....which I am sure you wouldnt want to hear about.......
Im not a party animal but I do like excitement and debate and just plain being happy!!!!! | |
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