djenne
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Joined: 1/6/2006
Msg: 101 | |
| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 2:32:13 PM | | Young men also dont care about anything but getting laid(true with most guys). Its not that you dont look 44, you look at least that. And its not that younger guys have more energy its that you're big head and ego wont let you see either! | |
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Ninki
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Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 102 | |
| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 3:03:22 PM | dbndon, as long as she's honest with the guys that she's not really looking for a long-term relationship, I don't see what's wrong with her seeing younger men. To paraphrase a well-known saying: What's good for the gander is good for the goose.
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 3:24:20 PM |  WOW....well just looking at what commented I wont take it personally.....hahahahahahahaha. As far as being honest, the 34 year old has been told often enough that it couldnt go long term, but he still seems to want it to be more. As for only wanting sex, ahem, he was the one that actually spent a whole evening with me when I was having a very bad day and NOPE no sex. Untrue of the ones in their 40s lol, and they cant even keep it up very long, phew!!!!!
Im actually very confident in myself and KNOW that its not only looks that are an attraction and quite frankly I resent the fact that you didnt take the time to read all that I said except to get all pissy and bitter.
TOUCHE......
To all the guys I met on pof my age, I wasnt referring to any of you, you are far and few between....
Oh by the way where did I say that I looked any younger, its not me making those comments, its the comments about looking younger from others that I get everywhere I go..............kind of nice actually.....my MOM is 65 and looks 55 must be the genes!!! | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 3:27:23 PM | I love younger men, the youngest being 13 yrs and oddly enough the best. We still care for each other greatly but distance got the better of things.
Don't over ananlyze, just enjoy things.
and for the record, all men just wanna get laid, it's more about biology and reproduction than anything..lol..they were born with the urge.....what relevence does it have to this topic..lol...yeesh.
You go girl, live, love and laugh....with that great guy. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 4:27:23 PM | Hey Ladybug... time for my 2 cents worth...
I'm a newly 48 year old male who looks 38-40... both face and body (actually... I regularly get told my body looks younger than that). Sexually I'm as potent as I ever was, in fact I have more stamina and energy than most of my lovers, of any age. I've been single nearly 3 years, and in that time have dated from 12 years younger to 7 years older. I have one 37 year old ex g/f who has remained a friend that would marry me in a moment (I know because she has told me... often) But I actually have found I prefer women closer to my own age.
My only negative observation about your post is that your statement about men your age thinking they are better than you and going for the younger ones... ummm... reread your post a few times and then look in a mirror.
Ok... all you women who think you are special because you have young guys hitting on you... NEWS FLASH!!! You are special, but not because of that. Young guys have ALWAYS liked "older women", the difference is that now with online dating they can hook up with them. Every women I know who is dating online is inundated with attention by guys 10-20 years younger. Yes, it is partly because of the sex, older women are less inhibited and more skilled, but more important... it is relatively string-free... older women aren't looking to find a husband and start a family. YOUNG GUYS KNOW THIS! Yes, you are playing with them, but trust me, they are doing the same with you... great sex... no long-term commitment... what's not to like for a younger guy?
Unlike the guys you describe, I like women 40-50 more than the younger ones, even though I have no difficulty meeting younger ones, but I can categorically state that there are as many game players at 45 as at 35 and 25... if that is your "style" it doesn't go away as you get older. Good luck with your fun... there is nothing wrong with it, and as long as you are getting what you need... go for it. But I think you already know the bottom line, you say so in your post... there is no future there except in very rare situations... and are you really willing to wait till your looks (formidable I might add) begin to fade before you start looking for a serious companion? | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 4:32:28 PM | .
dbndon, as long as she's honest with the guys that she's not really looking for a long-term relationship, I don't see what's wrong with her seeing younger men. To paraphrase a well-known saying: What's good for the gander is good for the goose.
Well, here sits one gander who would probably ruin his reputation around town if he chased after a goose too many years his junior. As somewhat of a public person, I know it is unfortunate, but perception is almost as important as deed. Besides, at least in my case, there are plenty of reasons for looking for someone within my own age group.
I don’t worry about what others may do, although I may quietly chuckle about it a little from time to time. It’s only when someone makes a public proclamation about such things that I may comment.
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 4:42:26 PM | I hope you mean 13 years younger not 13 years old!
and for the record, all men just wanna get laid
And women don't? Aw, come on, surely you jest. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 4:58:04 PM | | Your probally gonna realize sooner or later that Most of these younger guys are using you to MOTHER them, take care of them, cook, clean and let them be Lazy. In return they keep you Happy, I've seen it before in relationships, the longer the relationship last the worse it gets. More than likely what your doing is not getting a boyfriend, just adopting another Kid!! | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 6:07:35 PM | LOL ummm fiftydollarbill, the younger ones are not the ones looking for MOMMY so to speak, see if you can look up the article that was in the "Vancouver Sun" a few weeks ago.....
Im happy with where I am at right now, and Im not looking for anything long term especially with someone younger but wtf why not just date and have some fun. If and when I meet someone that does it for me whatever the age is, then that will be the end of my escapades. I dont intend to cheat on anyone if I truly care about them. Dating is just that right...................dating.
Why do so many of you have to think about when I get older lol.....my MOM is 65 and is damn good looking and she is happy and dating.....it doesnt matter what age you are....
Dont be so bitter....I never said anything but what my experiences were....possible there are women out there that think differently.
What is obvious is how still SOCIETY thinks its wrong for older women to date younger men and the ****ing pervert who lusts after 20 year old when he is in his 50s is ok. This wouldnt even be a topic for a forum years ago if it were about men and younger women.
Seriously get over it.....yes Im going to get wrinkles and yes I will be older but so so so what, you NEED TO live your life right this minute like you may croak tommorrow.
About being older and wanting someone around to call the ambulance ummmmmmm....I could be home alone right this minute and fall and hurt myself and not get any help until someone arrives home which could possibley be tommorrow night.....so PLEASE PLEASE get off it and just realize women are now dating younger men just like older men were dating younger women........
and like I have said before NOT ALL MEN MY AGE cant cut it will me.......some are absolutely fantastic.....they take care of themselves and have done the baby/family thing as well and are happy to just live.....................LIVE PEOPLE LIVE and quit getting all upset that someone may be enjoying their life right now!!!!!!!this minute
OH AND I DO FEEL VERY SPECIAL.....and not because younger men want to fuck me lol.....because I AM SPECIAL we allllllllllllllllllllllllllllll are in our own way! | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 6:44:09 PM | thanks for the articulate response, love. *shrug* Vancouver's a big city with it's own attitude. I'm sure there's lots of men in your local POF scene so good luck...course, i live in victoria and shudder at all the crazies in vancouver.
Thank you also for not getting defensive about my opinions. I'm easily swayed by a good argument. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 9:05:44 PM | The fun thing about these threads is that you can always count on the "older" men coming out of the woodwork to put us down for dating younger men.
According to them, we are all deluding ourselves... | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 10:00:27 PM | As long as you are honest with them, as to your & their expectations in a relationship, age really shouldn't be an issue. I have found since my early 30's, I also prefer younger men. (My last husband, is 32) I don't agree with you. about not allowing it to get too serious, as long as you only choose men who either already have children, or know that they definitely don't want any.Why limit yourself? Personally, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship that wasn't serious, but that's just me.
I am always told I look early 30's. Gotta love those youthful-looking genes 
I can see why others think you look younger, although it isn't actually your looks, at all. Your pictures excude energy & vitality, which makes you appear more youthful. That is probably also, why younger guys appeal to you. And also, why you appeal to them. You have all the advantages of someone their age, but with more intelligence, wisdom & experience. But remember, personality isn't age determined. There are older guys, just like you, still full of life & enthusiasm. They may be a minority, but then again, so are you. The special ones, are worth the extra effort to find. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 10:34:20 PM | Well, thank you Michaleann.....I agree with all that you said, but unfortunately with my life style and the fact that my children are grown and one is an adult, I just cant see any relationship with a younger man be what it will be. Im having lots of fun and Im learning how to really laugh again and enjoy life. Its funny but I have to admit with the younger guys I can really be myself and just be laid back and relaxed. The younger guys dont pressure sex either, maybe I just found some great guys and Im totally wrong about the majority, I dont know......see Im not talking anything younger then 10 years so who knows.
I have said over and over again in this forum that if a guy my age comes along and we click I wont say no just because of the age, but, alas the only ones I have had the experience with were dull, nonenergetic, whinny, spoiled, players (looking to find their youth and making asses of themselves), or just plain wanting someone to take care of them. LET ME REPEAT ONLY IN MY EXPERIENCE...... Maybe there is some guy 44 in Vancovuer who wants to prove me wrong!!!!!! LOL. Thats just been my experience......I really like the 36-39 age group....they are a species all of their own lol, especially the ones that are divorced and have done the family thing....always a great time with them and they LOOK SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GOOD!!!!!! | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 10:48:45 PM |
Men around my age usually think they are either to good for me and go for the younger woman or are looking for someone to take care of them YUK!!!!
Uh, who is doing the rejecting again?
"think they are too good for me" means they don't want you.
"go for the younger woman" i.e. not you
"looking for someone to take care of them" i.e. not looking for you.
I notice you didn't mention anything about the awful bodies, aging faces, balding heads, obnoxious, dull or dorky personalities, or baggage. In other words reasons why ^you^ would be rejecting ^them^.
Fact is, flings with younger men are not that difficult of a game for an older woman. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 11:01:19 PM | | if you still got it why not use it i work in a night club and see alot of beatiful older woman i would date,and age really shouldnt be a factor | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 11:30:16 PM | | Everything you said is so true. I will be 42 yrs old in another week or two. Men my age seem to want to date those 20 year old college girls, and many (not all) seem to think they are too good for us older gals. I have had some conversations with these younger guys on here and they are very respectful and fun to talk too, just like you said. I may have just found the courage to give them a try, thanks to you. You go girl!!! T.P. | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 11:35:38 PM | | You obviously haven't viewed my profile : ) I would also point out (Not in all cases) tha with age comes....Experience and....Responsibility. Do you really think the young 1 would still be around if your looks changed? You keep....slamming Men (Not Boy's) and you just might loose the man of your dreams from your....comparing. I must admit I'm slightly offended by your Generalization, but it's your life and freedom to speak your mind. JD | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 11:48:35 PM | | YOU ARE RULED BY THE TV YOUNG OLD OR WHATEVER YOUCARE WHAT OTHER PEOLE THINK YOU LIKE WHOYOU WANT TO LIKE IF LIKE YOUNG GUYS GREAT GIVE THEM A CHANCE TO SHOW THEMSELVES IT IS YOUR LIFE WHY WOULD YOU LET THE TV , MEDIA OR ANYONE TELL WHO TO LIKE YOUNG OR WHATEVER | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/13/2006 11:51:35 PM | | YOU ARE RULED BY THE TV YOUNG OLD OR WHATEVER YOUCARE WHAT OTHER PEOLE THINK YOU LIKE WHOYOU WANT TO LIKE IF LIKE YOUNG GUYS GREAT GIVE THEM A CHANCE TO SHOW THEMSELVES IT IS YOUR LIFE WHY WOULD YOU LET THE TV , MEDIA OR ANYONE TELL WHO TO LIKE YOUNG OR WHATEVER | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/14/2006 12:39:47 AM | | I know exactly what you mean....but in reverse.!! Women my age generally want to send me pics of them with their countless grandchildren. I wish everyone well but give me a nice single 'young' lady everytime! | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/14/2006 2:57:19 AM | | TO TAKE THIS ANOTHER DIRECTION, TRUTH BE TOLD AT 47 MY EXPERENCE HAS BEEN THERE ARE NOT VERY MANY WOMEN THAT AGE WELL. AT 29 ALOT OF WOMEN ARE LOOKING RATHER SHOT OUT. WITH MEN A FEW WRINKLES ARE CHARACTER LINES OR SIGNS OF WISDOM . WOMEN ARE NOT AS VISUAL AS MEN . IT SEEMS WOMEN ARE MORE CONCERNED WITH THINGS LIKE SECURITY OR HOW THICK THE WALLET IS . I PERSONALLY HAVENT MET ANY WOMAN THAT WASENT AT BEST CONCERNED WITH NET WORTH. THE GOOD LOOKING WOMEN ALL DRIVE NICER CARR ,LIVE IN BIGGER HOUSES OR HAVE BETTER LOOKING MATES . AS SSOON AS AGE STARTS TO SHOW MEN USAUALLY BAIL OUT FOR A YOUNGER , MORE APEALING HOTTIE. IT KEEPS US YOUNG IN OUR MEMORIE SOAKED MINDS .I FOR ONE DONT LIKE UGLY WOMEN PERIOD. ITS NOT IN ME TO SLEEP WITH A TROLL. IM SORRY BUT AS A MAN I CAN SAYTHERE ARE TO MANY FISH IN THE SEATO SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN A SIX .THERES SOMBODY OUT THERE FOR EVERYBODY . NOW REMEMBER WERE TALKING MOST OF THE TIME . ITS THE ECEPTIONS THAT MAKE THE WORLD GO ROUND. PEACE OUT | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 2/14/2006 3:00:56 AM | I have always been told that I look way younger then my age, but in all reality how long will that last.
I too have the same dilemna, if you could call it that. I once said the very same thing and a wise man told me something I never forgot.
"We are all aging at the same rate"
To artful............honey please dont use caps, it makes us dizzy | |
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