| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 3/29/2006 8:46:16 PM | I must say that some of the older men I've met here are the most attractive inside and out!
Spoil and spoil alike!
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 3/29/2006 9:54:27 PM | Indigo ROse you definitely dont look 46 at all...you look so much younger..
I made this thread cause just like it says "Younger men have spoiled me" and I am enjoying evey minute of it..
I also have said time and time again that Im not against dating a man who was older just that my preference would be 36 - 46....I feel much more comfortable with that age range.
Im having lots of fun and thats what I feel like doing right now....my ex husband is 5 years older then me 49 and looks great and takes great care of himself, so Im not putting anyone down....if all men looked like he does at 49 ummmmm absolutely!!!! lol
LMAO at all the sour grapes and the comments of self promoting....this site has many many many forums and threads by lots of different people is everyone self promoting, I think we are all just talking about our experiences I dont need to self promote, I am pretty active and busy and its not from being on this dating site, which is another topic in itself, lol, my life doesnt revolve solely on meeting men on here LMAO......
listen up I think you may be trying to promote yourself with me....believe this I would never ever message you or email you with an interest you look to much like my father and hes 72!!!!!!! | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 3/29/2006 11:50:42 PM | | If your going to make a negative comment ,theres going to be negative feedback and isn't grapes that hockey guy..... | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 12:23:54 AM | | No wonder you are lovely! I get a lot more interest from younger men which i love. it is all about the individual and what you are like....it is great to be an older woman now and about tine too! | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 3/30/2006 12:27:07 AM | | I agree with ladybug I have dated all ages I like the confidents the younger ones have I dated from 31 to 53 all have been very nice but the younger are so sweet they call you all the time . I'm high energy and men my age have a hard time keeping up and men my age act like they have something to prove and the younger are themselves I'm also spoiled | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 1:18:19 AM | shit, you think you have been spoiled, let me get ahold of you and ill show you whats going down on the real...... | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 6:30:22 AM | UMMM what negative comment did I make except just tell about my experiences, I am not generalizing and I have actually said I have met men my age who have made me very very happy.
The negative comments from some people on here seem to stem from something to do with the color green and Im adult enough to know that LMAO.
LOL yes...............Grapes is DON CHERRY hockey commentator for Coaches Corner....do you like hockey?
MUFFY YOUR BACK.................yesssssssssss I just adore reading your posts....
although half the time I get the feeling your mocking me LMAO..... | |
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 3/30/2006 9:12:45 AM | | May be you have heard of the glass is half empty half full analogy if so try reading your first post again hummmmm if it looks negative and sounds negative . | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 1:16:50 PM | .
Now . . . were I to dare to try to date a younger woman, there’s a beautiful gal here with a great attitude, an abundance of humor and none of the conceit publicly displayed by a couple others lately. Of course, that would also be why most every guy writing in the forums is interested in her. . . . .
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Posted: 3/30/2006 1:59:39 PM | Sour Grapes and Blech!!!!!!!!!
If we all agreed on everything it would be a BORING WORLD....
Besides there are other ways to meet men, not just on a dating site LMAO | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 2:00:15 PM | | dbnbon would this speacial someone have the beauty of a rose at the same time she wouldn't BUG you like some of the Lady's on Pof lol | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 2:22:04 PM | .
dbnbon would this speacial someone have the beauty of a rose at the same time she wouldn't BUG you like some of the Lady's on Pof lol
I was that transparent about it, eh? LOL
Yep, you nailed it right away, Batemen. The beauty of a quality woman doesn’t need to be advertised. It is self-evident to all who come in contact with her. 
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| Younger men have spoiled me!!!
Posted: 3/30/2006 3:29:37 PM | I really got to chuckle at this.....EVERYONE WHO PUTS THEMSELVES on a dating site is advertising in some way or another....
I hardly want people from the forums interested, cause most are long distance and Im not into the chat online sex cam relationship LOL. I like real sex and touching/kissing live men lmao.....
There is a big difference from actually dating someone for real and having this big popularity on a dating site LOL....Im here for the first and definitely not for the second BLECH!!!!
Now really gentlemen I dont think I have harrassed you in any way but to talk on this forum, you really should move on I WILL NEVER BE INTERESTED lol and talking about some other woman who is so popular on here doesnt impress me LOL and doesnt make you look better only tells me this is your life.....please enjoy and dont worry so much about how much fun I have with the younger guys that I like.
I have a career and Im on this site for the fun and maybe meeting someone I connect with and I have met many that I HAVENT so lol...its just for fun!!!!
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Posted: 3/30/2006 3:52:31 PM | I guess I don't see the issue here. Let's say that by the time you're 55, you still look good enough to date a guy who's in his 40s (and you will!)--and so on and so on. You seem pre-occupied with the fact that you'll lose your "youthful" beauty, but I don't really understand that.
An attractive woman is an attractive woman--no matter her age. So you shouldn't worry about it. You're over-thinking, and looking too far ahead. | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 5:06:00 PM | MUFFY YOUR BACK.................yesssssssssss I just adore reading your posts.... Although half the time I get the feeling your mocking me LMAO..... why, thank you. If i give that impression of mocking you half the time, then perhaps i deserve it, since i've long ago given up trying to get people to be honest about their mis-assumptions - I focus on mine, and let the devil take the hindmost.
Hurts to be honest in the self-deprecating way. Most people walk around acting like they're 'Freud' and everyone else is scum...It's tough when people are so defensive, mealy-mouthed and goody-two-shoed. Maybe because most people follow a set of "rules" that deny not only themselves a life, but they heap scorn on anyone "thinking outside the box" - since those people obviously have to be sociopaths to not live a normal life bounded by convention wisdom.
I've learnt alot about what i truly want in a relationship, and it's what conventional wisdom considers impossible (ie. the "rules" can't even allow others to comprehend it, since the "rules" slot me in the 'lying to himself' category)...stuff them and their rules made by players for player that everyone else thinks is 'the chase'!
If i come across as mocking, then i apologize, since i don't think i've mocked you in this thread yet. lemmie check. *rummages*
youUPDATE: since this post I have dated several men different ages....Im now seeing a 34 year old and I MEAN IT WHEN I TELL YOU THIS out of all the other men, one being 46 another 39 and another 44........................THE 34 year old has been the most generous with not only his feelings and emotions, but his money, his time, his thoughtfulness, his humor and of course the sexxxxxxxxxxxxxxx.............best ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #97 - me: how was the date with the 44 yr old? was it exactly like the vancouver sun article said about "wanting a mommy"? oh, i think yer a stuck up **** but at least yer honest. Not to mention you handled that troll attacking your "younger pics" with aplomb. one thing i do wonder is whether you hang out with someone, talk about yerself alot, then break up after saying something embarrassing without ever having found out anything meaningful about the guy other than, "what do you do?" But, that's just my assumption. And beside the point, good on you...one of the more energizing threads i've read on here in my VERY short time on these forums. haha you remind me of this nurse friend i know. she's totally RARRRRR. her friend says all nurses are hard party animals. it's funny #100 - You: Gee Muffy.... why are earth would you think Im stuck up. Thats not all true of me and there are some men on this very site who have met me and know that for a fact. I am a very nice down to earth person, who is honest about her perspectives and preferences. I am not totally put off dating men my age, cause I know not everyone is the same and I usually dont categorize. I was simply up dating this forum. The younger man in my life is just that, sweet and kind and when I was feeling miserable and just needed a man to talk to, he was there and the conversation never quickly changed to some sexual content that I find men in their 40s do all the time. This gentleman actually sang me real nice childrens songs as I cried on his shoulders. I have never felt so much awesome caring from a man and he is only 34, it was very special to say the least. Instead of the "I know what will make you feel better babe, feel it Im hard for you"......the usual crap I get from older men, this younger man was nice and caring who truly wanted to be there for me. The Vancouver Sun Article was right and then there are the ones in their 40s who look younger too and act younger and **** ever woman they can get their hands on and havent gotten rid of that player stupid mentality, that is literally, ruining us woman who want to live healthy lifestyles and not catch every disgusting sexual disease out there. Anyways ,Muffy, you shouldnt just think something of a person without actually really knowing them........I am definitely not a total ****......I love men, all kinds. As far as just hanging out with someone and talking about myself....good point....that could be a wake up call for me and the embarassing thing, I doubt that, I am very easy going and love to laugh and the breaking up thing.......well who knows, that a total different forum....which I am sure you wouldnt want to hear about....... Im not a party animal but I do like excitement and debate and just plain being happy!!!!! #112 - Me:
thanks for the articulate response, love. *shrug* Vancouver's a big city with it's own attitude. I'm sure there's lots of men in your local POF scene so good luck...course, i live in victoria and shudder at all the crazies in vancouver.
Thank you also for not getting defensive about my opinions. I'm easily swayed by a good argument. There were a few posts i added after that intended to mock the thread or other subjects (#135 - directed at molonel for the obvious troll post; #185 - directed at you in a teasing way). I even confused you at one point when i attempted to help you out with editing one of your posts. (#182)
*counts* 2 nice posts, 1 neutral post, 2 meanie posts. yup, yer right!
oh, BTW, my first post to you was relating my personal experience with a recent POFer (my third paragraph) and had nothing to do with you, most likely; just wanted to vent i suppose.
and here's a funny memory i have of a sitcom i once watched...perhaps a year ago? anyways, maybe you might recall the name of the show. here's what happened:
muhaha...that totally reminds me of this TV sitcom i saw (don't recall the
name of it) where this stud was after one of the females - milf - and they
were at a restaurant and she was saying, "oh, but i'm old and have kids and
you're so yooung" and she's all serious and focused...he says, "but that's
what i like about you, your children give you wisdom and...blah blah" the
camera pans back to her and ...well...you get the picture. lol
later in the show she's talking with her girlfriends at soccer practice for
their kids, and the stud is out there playing, and she's all like "oh well
we haven't slept together yet. i'll wait till blah blah" ...then the stud
takes of his shirt (course, slow mo) and her friends are like, "ohhh don't
wait"
I forget the d*mn name of that show. was pretty funny. Especially when one
of the male characters was talking with his wife criticizing the milf
activity and the wife goes, "wait you just described ME" and the camera
shifted to him and he thinks "okay, think of something fast" (and
there's a special effects of the seasons turning behind him) ...pans to her
then back, and he thinks "too late, think of something smart" and he
says aloud, "uh well...uhmmm..." | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 5:35:49 PM | My only comment to you is.................WHY ARE YOU NOT LIVING IN VANCOUVER WHY WHY WHY WHY?????
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Posted: 3/30/2006 5:39:40 PM | Excuse me Muffy....just trying to get these two words in sideways!
Okay confession time..I dated much younger men for the last twenty years or so... since being here has made me reevaluate my motives don't think I like what I see and that's a true story. | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 5:59:56 PM | for both of you.
ack! now i'm all curious, Indigo Rose. i'll go hunt down your archived posts to see if you'd confessed in an older post. no pun intended. course, it's my dad's 62nd birthday today so i don't have the time i usually do to go spelunking. | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 6:10:50 PM | I just had my daughter read some of this and OMG she hit it on the nail....
My daughter who will be 20 in May said to me...."Mom the guys you date are not that much younger then you...its only 10 years...if it were a man your age dating women 10 years younger, not one single person on this forum would say beep......"
My daughter has also indicated that shes not into older men LMAO....she just told me she wouldnt go out with anyone over 23 LMAO....
I find that incredible cause when I was her age I dated men who were much older....the world is a changin....hahahahahaha
Anyways out of the mouth of babes
Indigo Rose I have had nothing but good things happen to me with younger guys, I guess I have yet to experience what other woman have said.....having said that, I think I have indicated time and time again in this thread that its only really been 10 years younger...I mean I do get email from guys in their 20s wanting me to talk dirty to them and have cam sex but then again I have the same thing happen with men of all ages on this site LOL!!! the computer age gotta love it LMAO!!!!!
Summer Teeth: I really enjoyed and considered what you said...it makes sense and I thank you for that comment | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 6:15:00 PM | | the essence of your post is that you are not interested in males your own age .. nothing wrong with that.. when you describe the men your own age in a somewhat negative light my reaction is "please stay with the younguns".. there are already enough superficial women in our age category if thats what we want ... you say you prefer younger and then say BUT how can i get serious with one of them ... i would assume that you understand this when you start seeing them.. so if you prefer to be in superficial relationships that you know will never get serious then thats your choice... it may even be a conveniant way of avoiding comittment... yes , younger men who are into dating older will be a little easier to manipulate and never really challenge you in many meaningful ways and if thats what you like then as i stated earlier,"please, stay with the younguns" | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 6:29:48 PM | Yeah Im so Superficial I mean you see a picture of me in a provocative pose lol or having my tits hang out...give me a ****ing break.
In many of my posts I have said time and time again that Im not just looking for a younger man, I just have had some wonderful experiences with many that I have dated. I also date men around my age and have had some great times as well. I meant get serious in a way such as Marriage and having a family.....see I have 2 great kids and have been married and am not looking for that kind of relationship anymore....thats what I meant by that. I dated this really nice young Doctor who practices in Kits and time and time again I asked him...what was his goal with me and he would say I dont want children etc etc and I would say how at 33 do you know that.....
I have safe boundaries and am not willing to get heart broken thats why I question the whole thing....cause IM 44 and not willing to go that route again....that would be the only reason that I couldnt get so serious. Although, some guys (like the one I ****ed up with and wish someone would have smacked me in the head for doing that) had already been married with 2 kids and wasnt looking for that.....so things are not always like I SEE THEM...but life has lessons and that was a big one for me.
What are superficial relationships.....I mean to each their own.....and thats right,you got, its a convenient way to avoid committing....and NO WAY are younger men easier to manipulate....at least not the ones I dated....THEY ARE A HUGE CHALLENGE....
pssssssssssst heres a secret pickem.....it would be an honest thing to say "It takes a really strong man to handle a woman like me" please read between the lines on this one (just ask some of the guys I did date off this site) lol
ohhhhhhhhh and for your information,"please, stay with the younguns".......as I whisper this in you ear......i never do anything a man tells me to.......LOL!!!!! | |
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