| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/20/2005 10:07:06 PM | | I SLEPT WITH THIS GUY ON THE FIRST DATE AND 2 YEARS Later we are with each other.He freaked out at first , didnt want a to become any thing else but buddies .He wants to belive we are, but we are way more & have been more for a long time. We see each other 3 2 4 times a weeks . i sleep over ,drive his ccar , my sisters kids know him by name, his cats love me. why burst his bubble, his told me how he love me so much and wanted to be with me for ever he was drunk im sure he remembers, I just figured ill let him tell me when he is ready. Ill just sit back and enjoy the ride for now . He loves me I love him. Im just going with the flow. If guys cant understand the fact that we as females some times are just humans then let them think that. WE DONT SLEEP WITH JUST ANYONE WHO COMES TO US SOMETIMES AFTER A FIRST DATE WE ARE JUST AS ATRACTED TO YOU AND IF YOU WERE GREAT DATE WHICH IS HARD TO FIND NOW DAYS WE GET EXCITED . AFTER ALL IF YOU LIKE THE GIRL GIVE IT A TRY. IF SHE REALLY WAS A SLUT YOU WOULD KNOW . SOME TIMES EVEN NICE GIRLS PUT THEM SELFS OUT THERE . DOESNT MEAN SHE DOES IT ALL THE TIME. THE END.... FROM PERSONAL EXPIRIENCE. | |
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| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/20/2005 10:35:37 PM | I don't automatically assume anything about the man or woman. Sometimes there's a chemistry and between adults, it's all good.
For me personally however, no. It isn't because I think she must be a skank...it's because it's too much too fast. In the past, when getting into bed too fast, the relationship was usually over pretty fast as well. I'd like to know her better first, to feel comfortable with her...I guess I owe my puritanic parents for that. | |
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| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/21/2005 12:36:35 PM | VANNESSA, I am with you on this all the way. What a loaded, double standard bunch of guys here?! They categorize someone on assumption. No kidding, most of them hang around on a dating sites for yrs, looking for that "perfect someone" to show up. First of all, no one is perfect, and even if that special someone was right there, they wouldn't notice it because they got stuck in the box.
No, it doesn't mean if she/ he sleeps with you on the first date, that they would do that with everyone. It might be that the chemistry is really there, feels right...and hey, it takes two to tango...what about YOU? You were the other participant  am I right here?
One simple word describes this criticsm...HYPOCRITES
Ok, now I can run for my life.... | |
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| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/21/2005 12:52:56 PM | Yeah i always said i would never date a girl that i slept with on the first date. But then i did and i ended up dating her for three years! so i guess that thery got thrown out the window!
i guess it's just how you feel at the moment! | |
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| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/21/2005 1:13:01 PM | | Um no... we only call you a tease to test you to see if your going to sleep with us. If it seems like you sleep with everyone you meet than why the hell would someone want to take you serious? No MAN WANTS TO WALK AROUND HOLDING A GIRLS HAND WHO HAS ****ED EVERY DUDE ON THE EASTSIDE!!! Frienship is one thing but loving you is another. | |
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| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/21/2005 2:09:07 PM |
Moral of that story...if you're not going to sleep together right away...be prepared for the possibility of living an eternal sexually repressed life or that you're going to have to start ALLLLLL over again!!! (Msg 50)
Well said! I believe that is one of the main causes of affairs. Two people grow close together, find out they have so much in common, believe they have found the perfect partner and think sex will just work out naturally. Of course the sex usually seems good at first after all the anticipation but, later, one realizes their sex drives are so different. They stay in the relationship believing all the other things are more important.....liking the same activities, similar views on many things....only to find out the only thing their partner can supply, sex, is not adequate. I really can't understand that way of thinking. | |
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| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/21/2005 4:46:29 PM | It's ye ole double standard. He can sow his wild oats, but she must remain pristine or be considered a slut.
As far as I'm concerned, bring your own condoms, Screw him blind and if he thinks badly of you in the morning................................call him in 6 weeks and tell him the condom broke, you're pregnant and you'll see him in court. Wait six more weeks and call him back, tell him you lied and he's a neanderthal throwback, but you tested positive for HIV. Wait 6 more weeks and tell him it was a false positive and this is what he gets for being the sexist microsyphilliac (rare birth defect "pinhead") president of the IBTPC. (Itsy, bitsy, teeny, "Penie" committee)
Sorry, I am not normally so cruel, but I really hate the ye ole double standard. | |
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| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/21/2005 5:10:48 PM | I don't know what i big deal is! I herd this saying in a movie or somthing!
"YOUR NEVER ON YOUR DEATH BED WISHING THAT YOU HAD LESS SEX" !
common people it's life enjoy it! | |
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| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/27/2005 3:59:47 PM | well working girl, same thought
HELLO gentleman .... haven't you just slept with her on the first date? What does that make you? Oh, I forgot, the aforementioned double standard ...you're a stud. Yeah right, if it makes her a slut, you're one too. Shame on you for being so ungentlemanly and even trying to do it then.
Now, back to reality, it's 2005, we're all adults, not teenagers. Do whatever you like. If you both think it's a good idea, you're both sober, protected and no one is pressured then I think you're probably mature enough to handle whatever decision you both make.
Oh, and for the record, the only one I slept with on the first date, I was married to for 10 years.  | |
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| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/27/2005 4:39:21 PM | | I will state what I have said before.....My opinions are based on my experience. I wish things were different but I feel that if someone sleeps with me the first night she meets me, its too soon. What is your rush?? I dont get it?? Are you worried the chemistry wont be there the second time around?? Just asking the question. Why does it have to be that way?? Why can two people not decide to wait. That is insecurity, to me. Lets do it now or we may never get the chance. You are not secure enough in the chemistry of the relationship to know it will happen eventually because every time you are around each other, the chemistry will grow. | |
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| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/27/2005 5:34:39 PM | Crunch .... if it's against your "rules" and you don't want to do that .... then why are you doing it in the first place???? (and don't say you don't because you've already admitted that you have) I'll say it again, if someone is sleeping with you on the first date, you are also sleeping with them on the first date. Doesn't that make you just as bad as you perceive her?
YES!!! Why is it the female that is perceived to be bad in this situation but not the man. You've obviously been enjoying working her up to the point where she has to decide yes or no. Don't use the old excuse that you just had to because you couldn't stop or, that whether you go ahead or not is her decision, or you're testing her and didn't really want to do the deed. If you don't like women to have to decide yes or no, then don't put them in that position to begin with. Kiss them goodnight, give them a hug, and call them back. Be a gentleman if you want your woman to be a princess. | |
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| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/27/2005 5:38:05 PM | | whoops double push ? allow me to just take this moment to say a quick thing about ronco . it slices it dices it does it all ? holds up strange looking device. only three payments of $299.99 . | |
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| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/27/2005 5:50:44 PM | | ok why does it matter somtiemes people even femals need a fix to ya know there hormones work to hahah but hey who are we to judge other people in what they do in there private lives | |
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| And if she sleeps with you on the first date?
Posted: 11/27/2005 5:56:47 PM | Besides, who's having all the sex on first dates on here anyway? Don't all the guys on here want to go to Tim's or walk on the beach? Have yet to read a profile where first date says - "coffee and sex at Tims"
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