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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 7/9/2009 2:52:29 PM | Let's see here...
Kids.
If I see this on any POF profile, I'm hitting hit the back button. I'm not going to raise another man's kids.
Being addressed as "Papi".
A major put-off. If I date a woman who thinks that it's a good idea to address me as that, then I'll remind her once, and only once, that I am not her dad. Being addressed by her as if I'm her dad seriously creeps me out. If she gets upset or tries to do it again, then I'm dumping her on her ass.
Tattoos/piercings.
Sorry, not my thing.
Degrees in either Psychology, Nursing, Social Work, or Education.
It gets real boring when around two-thirds of the POF women with a college education are studying for one of those degrees. I prefer someone who's studying something a little bit more challenging, or at least something different.
Drug users.
I'll just say that I won't allow my money and stuff to turn up missing for some reason.
Leading me on to believe that we are dating, and then telling me later on that you just want to be friends.
If you want to be just friends with me, then please let me know at the very beginning (or on POF) before we first agree to meet. But if you say that we are dating, then we are dating, otherwise I am severing all ties with you. I am not going to waste my time with that kind of indecisiveness and deception, when I could be with a woman who really does want to be my girlfriend.
That's it for now. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 7/9/2009 3:13:57 PM | - always breaking plans (I understand things come up, but I need to know that I'm important enough to put something aside for a bit, so we can spend time together)
- lying or making excuses
- always being negative | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 7/9/2009 3:59:04 PM | 1. Rudeness
2. Coming on too strong talking about sex too soon with me, someone they barely know. We'll get there. Being romantic means being respectful to a woman, get to know her first.
3. Insulting or criticing me or my tastes in music, ideas, etc.
4. Not liking my cats or you can just be nice to them at least
5. Pressuring me to do things I don't want to do
6. Not into motorcycles, no offense, but I don't feel safe riding them
7. Being wishy-washy, flaky. Be real, honest, and be consistent in the way you treat me | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 7/9/2009 5:30:26 PM | Always had to do what he wanted but he refused to do things I liked to do.
Going out on a date and he tells you we're going to a movie but instead he takes you to a bar where he plays pool all night never talking to you and you're bored to death and he won't let you play pool either and your supposed to be interested?
Being stood up for a date and a week later he calls saying he wants to see you and he doesn't have a valid reason why he stood you up. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 7/9/2009 6:16:42 PM | - Having way too much of a "southern drawl"
- Obesity or someone near or above 200 lbs.
- Too much of a blasted "muffin top"
- Having 8 children that are "her world"
- A generic personality. "well i lik to go mud-ridin and walk on tha beach and then we could go see a movie" I swear to God, a statement like this is in 75% of female profiles in my local vicinity around my age range. That limits my 50-mile selection radius to about 25% or less.
- Smokes, drinks, does drugs.
- Demands a guy that goes to church on a regular basis.
- Demands a guy who has loads of money.
- Demands a guy with a car. (Screw that, I'll still walk until I can afford one or pay for carpooling.)
- Someone who litters.
- Someone who uses "chillin" in their profile.
- "I'm a total country gurl"
- Ends up looking NOTHING like her photo.
I'm one, picky **stard, but I found what I was looking for with time and patience. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 7/9/2009 10:13:18 PM | Dirty and Smelly
Drunk
Abusive
Nothing I enjoy or do is important
Online: short two word sentences. I'm sorry, were you trying to entice me for more? Get a life.
Religious Nuts
Having to always justify myself around them
Lack of Thoughtfulness
I'm sure there are a lot of kind, genuine people out there who are chain smokers, but as OP had stated. I agree also.
Men who think they dont have to put forth the effort.
Someone who is not patient.
I had a date with a guy once that (He was divorced, Go Figure!) told me a lengthly list of things that his new woman would be and not be or it's the highway and "that's just the way it goes. " .. . that bs ceased Real Quick. The date did too.  | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 7/9/2009 10:22:38 PM | Many of the things mentioned by previous posters and then some others:
Being attached to their cell phone, accessible at all times to others.
Speaking on the cell phone during a date in a non-emergency situation.
Being a cheapskate and whiney about money all of the time.
Wanting constant validation and sexual proof that they are "the man"
Fishing for compliments and needing constant reassurance about everything
Unruly animals that they consider their child and must take along with you
Dirty home and dirty cars, clutter is one thing, grime is another | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 7/9/2009 10:44:07 PM | demanding, expecting me to drop everything to meet them.
That is the biggest one, or getting to serious to soon. | |
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