| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 11/12/2005 8:35:53 PM | She is the military...she did not attack the military. sheesh....you don't have to like her and you don't have to like me...but a personal attack on someones looks when you aren't "man" enough to pony up a "real" pic of yourself is not right is it?
She was defending me from his attack and she got attacked in the process...let it die ok!
I am sorry I even said anyting to him. Sorry that the pic in his profile offended me to my core. Sorry that I chose to tell him what I thought of him...that was my mistake and I should have taken it to email. I did find humor in the fact that he lives in my area. That's all. You feel the need to be angry and lash out bring it to me via email...but leave hb alone..she did nothing to you! | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 11/12/2005 8:40:17 PM | | Why do you keep bringing hb up? You are obviously the thorn in snipers side. Females in the military are a burden and put real soldiers at risk. The issue is you. You are the one that got sniper in a bad mood. No wonder these guys go on killing sprees once discharged. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 11/12/2005 8:40:54 PM | Guys who gone about other women all the time while they are on a date with you or with you in general...
Like to think Im fairly secure but when a guy tells you he wants to be all over [insert females name] when with you and its NOT a movie actress or Lara Croft...Ummm I kinda tend to want to get out of there
""Ok I get it you're hot, you're a stud..you're the lion in the kingdom of males...but who you trying to convince ?""
rudeness
poor hygiene
lack of motivation = too much negativity
too uptight about everything!!
mental and physical promiscuity [ sp?] added after the top encounter... | |
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Posted: 11/12/2005 8:44:23 PM | Let's see...beyond the purely physical crap like weight, height, missing limbs...
drug users
way too many facial piercings
tattoo sleeves
type like they barely passed the 5th grade
try too hard to embrace my culture instead of their own (u know who u are)
those who create emotionally damaging situations for their children (new bf every week who spends the night regularly, calling the kids horrible names, partying every night)
ones who call me and then have nothing to say
ones who barely know me and already are asking for shit ("man, I don't know how I'm gonna pay this electric bill")
ones who have no car
ones who have no job
ones who have more than 2 baby daddies (and 2 is a red flag)
ones who are always negative, ****ing, or whining about the world when I talk to them
and finally my #1 deal breaker (get ready for the flames)
ones who have been abused physically or emotionally as a child by a male figure
Sorry guys, in my experience this translates into dysfunctional relationship material
I've tried in the past to help these women, but I'm not a licensed therapist, so I run away screaming now. | |
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Posted: 11/12/2005 8:47:26 PM | OMFG!! (rolling eyes). Come on, Smile & HB. Let's git outta here. There's some very bitter, malevolent people here and there's no point arguing. TY OP, and we're sorry if we didn't play nicey nice. ...backing out with Smile & HB.  | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 11/12/2005 8:48:22 PM | Sammindy
You gotta be kidding me i can't believe what i'm hearing from you. I don't wanbt to sound disrespectful but I was pointing out your comments NOT YOUR LOOKS OK.
I don't know what you look like. also don't bash my pics at least I have some, if you have issues with them then i was right about you and that fact that you have issues.
You criticize "ugly people" I don't really tolerate that cr@p from anyone and I am one to try to set up respect for one another and a sense of dignity of every individual and not HATE.!!
Try not to disrespect me liek that again madame ok? no offence i am sorry I am alittle hard here but SO ARE YOU!!, so just chil!!
I don't take intolerance shallowness and disrespect lightly.
Easy to say that to someone 3,000 or 4,000 km away.
Oh shut !!! I just checked your profile sammindy and saw you're a guy. Man I'm sorry about
that , sh.t ! Neva mind. I never said anything lol
Sorry for getting off topic, my statments about tolerance though still stands . Peace. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 11/12/2005 8:50:27 PM | | um...because you made reference to her...I'm not now nor have I ever been in the military. And as for your other comment...well I can't say all the things I think about it so I will just say this. You are a wonderful person. I wish you nothing but luck. Again..you wanna attack ME email me. I won't answer you in the forums again. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 11/12/2005 8:57:19 PM |
I just checked your profile sammindy and saw you're a guy. Man I'm sorry about
that , sh.t ! Neva mind. I never said anything lol
Umm... Mardio? Does this mean the nasty things SamMindy said are now acceptable because he's a guy and not a gal? ... WTF? I don't get it... | |
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Posted: 11/12/2005 8:57:34 PM | | mardioluv4u, honest mistake. Please do not pull punches when attacking these misguided women. | |
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Posted: 11/12/2005 9:39:42 PM | | 44 magnum,22 cal.,38 smith + Wesson, 410 gauge shotgun, hammer, or even a big stick | |
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Posted: 11/12/2005 10:47:07 PM | No I said that the moral points I said about tolerance and non discriminating will always stand, because they are simple right. I just overeacted because of the "aggressive "remark about my picture. I knew there was something fishy because i knew a woman ussually wouldn't be so harsh on me for that , so then i saw that "madame " was a man so I felt alittle more relaxed and less in shock in a way.
It's an opposite gender thing I guesse. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 11/13/2005 6:44:39 AM | From some of the "Requirements" listed by a few guys..
Hmmm, sounds like maybe some men's "ideal woman" ..could be..a man?
no need to be closeted any longer..
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 11/13/2005 7:06:23 AM | drug user
smoker (cause i'm a chronic asthmastic)
acholoholic
Married
non citizens
anyone who is unmotivated and feels the need to spend 90% of there time wasting away in front of a TV or in bed..
and of coures the liers, cheats, punks, smelly people, and anyone who has a problem with anything at all about me and who I am.
thats pretty much it for me. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2005 7:12:07 AM | ^^^
Good bed/TV point; I'd have to add:
"people addicted to POF forums, who spend 90% of their time on-line, in front of comp.
chatting or on dating sites..". : ) | |
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Posted: 11/13/2005 7:34:53 AM | Thought of two more.
People who are fanatical about anything annoy the piss out fo me. It's fine to like something or have strong feelings about something but to be so fanatical about it to the point you would drop someone becouse they don't share that interest or opinion.
Smoking pot isn't neccesarily a deal breaker but if you smoke more weed than you do cigerettes, then you've got a problem. Anything harder than pot is a deal breaker for me. | |
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chinua
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Joined: 9/30/2005
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 11/13/2005 9:10:49 AM | someone who;
has a sense of humour based on making fun of people(in a cruel way)
tells me how to talk
tells me how to dress(if you want high maintenance, go somewhere else!)
tells me how to kiss and when | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 11/13/2005 7:34:09 PM | Women who don't love to receive oral, fortunately that's not a very restrictive deal-breaker!
have run into a few, though | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 94 | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 11/13/2005 7:48:30 PM | I will agree women are a hazard on the front lines...
I am surprised to learn that 111lbs is now considered as being fat...rotf
I already apologized to the OP...
Last word from me in this thread is this:
When you resort to personal attacks you've lost the battle...
No one has won here except the ppl who stayed on topic...
OT:
Intolerance of anothers rights
Lack of respect for others | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 11/13/2005 9:01:09 PM | | A mature women that dress'es (sp) the part of a teen ager- nothing sadder! Even if they are in thier late 20's. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2005 10:10:05 PM | First, I'd like to say hello to all my friends made via POf. I haven't posted in quite awhile.
A mature man who acts/treats women like an egotistical "jock" type.. how he dresses is not a major concern.
OT:
A man who simply must always be right...regardless
A sorry ass attitude about life and things in general
A few other things fall in the "gray area", but, the above are absolute deal breakers. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2005 12:35:13 AM | Here's a real one that happened to me about 10 days ago at another site: Asking me to convert to her religion in her initial reply back to me! I couldn't get out of there fast enough - and she had the audacity to write back a second time surprised about how strongly I objected. She could have at least waited to see if we would have a first, second, and third date, thus deciding that we really liked each other, before bringing up the subject. (And no, this wasn't some cult - but a mainstream belief.)
More generically, I guess this could be called:
"Asking your date to change something about him/herself before the first date." | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 11/14/2005 1:47:25 AM | Oh YEH !! eating noises - YES ABSOLUTELY - my one pet thing - I cant handle it. Slurping, eating with mouth open, chewing the chud, sucking up drinks...licking fingers, I dont mind a try to talk or being stuck with hot food kind of accidents but mostly its the SLURPING noises
AARRRGGHHHHHHH .........[ runs away arms waving wildly] puff puff.....its ok Im ok...Ive calmed down now...[ checks pulse] | |
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