| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 12/2/2005 11:32:14 AM |
5 talks about this chick from work he would like to do
Does this really bother broads? | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 12/2/2005 11:33:05 AM | guys who are cheap
a boyfriend that doesnt say happy birthday
untill the very end of the day ( he waits all day) | |
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Tinkle
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Joined: 11/2/2005
Msg: 153 | |
| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 12/2/2005 3:12:14 PM | """"""""online:*BAD SPELLING/GRAMMAR!!!!""""""""
Your soul mate just left. See the Testimonials forum. Sorry | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 12/3/2005 3:29:17 AM | | people who are dishonest, having to devalue their mate to try to feel superior, taking credit for others accomplishments, a lack of backbone and integrity. no original ideas/being fake. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 12/3/2005 5:45:52 AM |   Male promises to attend church with me then doesn't.  He talks bad about religion and what I believe in. Yet, he wants me to go along in what he believes in. But, in the beginning he agreed to everything I said and what I believed in. Just so he could move in with you. Then the real him comes out. Anthony Perkins in the movie "Pscho" For reals.     | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 12/3/2005 6:41:16 AM | hmmmm hate the whole "deal breakers" thing just cuz an ex used to use it. We got in a relationship we didn't make a deal!
So using the term "deal breaker"
Bumming money off of me on a first date (yeah that's attractive)
Sending confusing signals
Planning our life together after 3 emails
Being untruthful about anything
Making racial or other comments that show their total lack of awareness and ignorance | |
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LL3
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Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 157 | |
| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 12/3/2005 8:19:27 AM | Gf asks if she can bring a few things over...I'm thinking toothbrush, change of clothes, things like that....Not 3 rolling suitcases and a flat out statement....."I think we'll just fast track this relationship. Oh, btw, we can't live here too long, I don't like the neighbourhood, so we'll sell your house and get one in a more trendy part of the city."
That pretty much broke any deal we hadn't yet made. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 12/3/2005 11:13:23 AM | | Bad manners. I know, that's pretty broad, but some things you just don't do. Like, say, belching on command. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 12/3/2005 11:14:49 AM | Oh, and a lack of maturity. Do you really think I want you to interject with giggles and obscene jokes when I try to talk about my day?
And poor hygene, but that's a given. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 12/3/2005 11:28:08 AM | I'm not too picky but there are a few:
ONLINE:
Small "i"s, any kind of chat slang because half the time I don't get it.
Any message that says "Wow, you're sexy for your age". Move on please!
Any kind of sexual inuendo on the first communication! No Thanks.
Any description of your private parts and what you'd like to do with them! Yuck
In Person:
Huge bushy beards or comb overs, just not my thing.
Teeth that look like they haven't seen a brush in weeks! ICK
Denim coveralls for a dinner date! PLEASE
Grabbing my a** as we walk into a restaurant for the first time! Really sets the tone NOT
Asking intimate, sexual questions before I have even ordered my meal. Makes me feel like I'm interviewing for a job as a prostitute. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 12/20/2005 4:40:30 PM | | in real life people who lie to themselves and to others. denial, whatever ya wanna call it. hypocites who say its important to be honest, but don't want to hear the truth ever. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 12/20/2005 8:38:39 PM | In meat reality (real world as some call it) :
Deal breakers are :
Too busy chicks , if I have to hunt my girl down she aint my girl.
Emotionatly distant.
uneffectionate
Breaking dates at the last minute .
more than 3 (young) kids
BAD KIDS!!!!! the kind that yell, scream and break things and havent learned manners fitting their age.
Cheating.
Red flags are:
Too many people know her , no matter where you go you run into people that know her .
Too many guy friends , not a deal breaker but it is a redflag .
Kids all have different fathers .
Does not like PDA's , could mean she does not want people to know you are together .
Online Deal breakers:
looking for shorterm
looking for friends
looking for hangout buddies
looking for genorous man <---= Gold digger alert !!!!!
looking for Financially stable <-----= Gold digger alert.
looking for penpals
looking for intimite incounter <----= 15 years ago I never thought this would be a deal breaker.
looking for Friends first <----= Friend zone alert , run while you can .
Online redflags:
Glamour shots photo
motley crue t-shirt and winged hair in the photo
when the ad says recently divorced <-----= rebound alert !!!!!!!
when ad says willing to relocate <------== Town whore alert !!!!!! | |
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Jan762
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Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 165 | |
| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 1/7/2006 9:40:33 PM | Bad spelling - first impressions count...some errors fine but when you have to get your 10 year old to decipher their writing - not good
Smokers (unless they're going to quit)
Child haters
Those who hate their ex's
Disneyland Dad's or uninvolved Dad's
Dad's who bad mouth their kid's Mom
No job, no car, no home
Guys with the 'us' and 'them' mentality re genders - sexist types
Serial daters (multiple women on the go)
Guys that say they don't have anytime - I work full time, have a family & a home - get in line you don't have time - let me tell you about time, it is something you make because you have to. | |
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Jan762
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Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 166 | |
| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 1/7/2006 9:41:25 PM | Bad spelling - first impressions count...some errors fine but when you have to get your 10 year old to decipher their writing - not good
Smokers (unless they're going to quit)
Child haters
Those who hate their ex's
Disneyland Dad's or uninvolved Dad's
Dad's who bad mouth their kid's Mom
No job, no car, no home
Guys with the 'us' and 'them' mentality re genders - sexist types
Serial daters (multiple women on the go)
Guys that say they don't have anytime - I work full time, have a family & a home - get in line you don't have time - let me tell you about time, it is something you make because you have to.
No back bone: They never care about an issue unless it has already directly effected them or even if it has they're too gutless to do anything about it. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 1/7/2006 9:46:23 PM | | so a person bases a relationship on bad spelling or maybe somewhat. well i guess we all didnt get a grade 1 edumacation. spelling has nothing to do with it at all. its all about how nice her ass looks in a pair of jeans. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 1/7/2006 10:17:44 PM | - bad hygiene
- obssesive need to listen to his mother
- cheap in everything
- no goals in life | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 1/8/2006 8:07:54 AM | | abuse in any form, ie. emotional, physical, mental, etc. especially ppl. who only pick on women. i'm gonna have a chat with my girl's ex and hopefully see that he's either in jail and/or back in a lockdown psych. ward. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 1/10/2006 7:16:49 PM | | I'm all over this thread. There's really one major deal breaker for me. Negative people. I know that I'm a joy to be around. I see the positive side of everything. My sister is dying in the hospital and I even see the positive side to that. I'm so tired of lifting people up and can't stand people who want to bring me down. Life is too short to have miserable attitudes. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 1/10/2006 7:30:34 PM | | Every woman has a particular scent, no matter how much anti-persperant or perfume they use. I'm like a dog. If I do not like the way a woman smells, byeeeeee.......... | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 1/10/2006 9:13:36 PM | Disrespecting me or others...(waiters at restraunts ,friends ,familyect
perfectionism
arrogance
racism
abusiveness
selfishness
lying
and long toe nails | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 1/10/2006 10:10:13 PM | Having a giant list of deal breakers for sure would break any pending deal
not that a date is a deal
or a game
that's lame
Biggest deal breaker on my continuing to converse with anyone anywhere is bigotry which is a sign of hatred and borders on evil.
anything else relates to the actual situation, time and place. | |
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