| What are your deal breakers Posted: 1/10/2006 11:24:55 PM | | This reminds me of a recent incident I had a with someone I was interested in...That is, until I discovered a serious case of bad breath. It just turned me right off.. As for "yeah, like, oh my gawd!" we all do it from time to time so it's no big deal really. Bad breath can be a sign of other problems and smoking.......I don't have to get into. | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/10/2006 5:54:04 PM | Here's another one that happened to me in the first week of January:
She: "Do you know my rates?"
Me: "What do you mean?"
She: "$300/hour, and $250/half-hour."
I did not meet her via this web site - but I did meet her through a NORMAL (not an "exotic services" type) profile at another site. She was and still is a hooker. Argh!
OT: I also do feel a bit sorry for her. She was quite pretty, but she has gone downhill and turned into a crack-whore. I know this because I have been able to find her subsequent profiles on other web sites set up at various times over the past month. I went looking because I did want to help her - which she has refused. The police seem unable or unwilling to catch her - as that is the only way that could lead to her getting the help she obviously needs. I did report her. I have known people who occasionally have taken drugs, but this one is clearly self-destructing. This would be tragic if it weren't self-caused. She turned to hooking after losing her legitimate job (if I believe her), but I think she might have been a teenage runaway (now about 25 years old) and doesn't know anything different. | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/10/2006 6:09:05 PM | | Someone who clearly needs to lose some serious weight. Someone that looks way older then their age. And someone, online anway, who wants the opposite of what they say. And overuse of lol...lol! | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/10/2006 6:48:45 PM | | someone with no ambition. my girl works every summer landscaping on wolfe island, usually 14-16 hr. days all summer and goes to school the rest of the time, even subbing for her pc lab teacher and getting some office work through the school board. everyone just loves her cause she's wicked smart, has a huge work ethic and loves to be around people. | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/10/2006 7:05:39 PM | No booze, or very little. I just can't take the drinking crap. uuuugggggg The smell the additude, nope been there done that. Can't do it again. Won't. | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/10/2006 8:18:31 PM | | The only time I absolutely could not tolerate a date was the guy who peppered his speech with cuss words.. and I do mean he used them frequently.. as in entire sentences of nothing but cussing! He didn't think anything was wrong with that. He even thought it was funny when his 5 yr old son spoke that way! Total deal breaker. | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/10/2006 11:06:28 PM | | lack of concern for surroundings. I had an ex who would throw shit out the window while i was driving. I hit the brakes and told her if she let as much as a skin flake fly out the window, her ass was walking home. Relationship died soon thereafter, but **** it, the grass meant more. | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/10/2006 11:11:29 PM | | I could never get past a rotten mouth to ever know what the other deal breakers might be with that person. | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/11/2006 5:24:17 PM | | different values, apathy, consistent disrespect, anger issues, irresponsibility, general shamefulness | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/11/2006 5:27:56 PM | | Lack of dignity. Poor estimation of self worth. Treatment of others. Everything she said^^^ | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/16/2006 11:33:36 AM | | people who are shallow self absorbed narcissists who don't ever grow up and/or take responsiblity for what they say and do. must be some heavy denial to rationalize this b.s. kinda brings a tear to the eye to think of how proud their parents would be of what they've become. catch you all at this grizz. this weekend. | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/16/2006 12:27:05 PM | my dealbreakers? 1 having a 'hard' drug history and still hanging with people who're "in the scene" while claiming to be free of the addiction. 2 freaking out at assumptions i make, naturally, over stuff she's not only said and done but obviously been caught LYING about.
heh. there was this one woman who introduced herself as a "suicide girl" (www.suicidegirls.com) and then took umbrage at the fact i had a livejournal account. No, you can't find out who she was cause it's been classified so don't try looking. Point is, if you go bragging to total strangers, do bother to know WTF yer talking about since there's a good chance the other person might know a bit more about the subject than you do. Good way to look like a ****ing idiot. | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/16/2006 2:38:03 PM | | someone like sniper, geez kills a zebra and is all that, yup thats for sure a deal breaker | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/17/2006 1:03:15 PM | I forgot to mention a huge deal breaker for me. BAD CREDIT! Largely because I've been in the business of credit for 13 years which has conditioned me to groom my 750 credit score. But also, because I'm really tired of trying to fix a guy's bad credit. Christ, do I look like a credit counseling agency??? | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/17/2006 1:05:52 PM | | yes, but you could have 6 credit cards maxxed to the wazzooo and still have a great credit rating as long as you paid up each month, right? | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/18/2006 3:46:06 AM | Dishonesty in any form!!!! Be yourself, because eventually that is what will make or break any intereaction you have with anyone...Lying is unacceptable in any form and for any reason, that is my biggest deal breaker.... | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/19/2006 5:35:34 AM | | Oh yes ... DISHONESTY, deceit, lying ... whatever other word you can substitute for just not being truthful has to be the number one biggie. If you are a "two-timer" and you haven't told me, that also counts for being dishonest! | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/19/2006 6:31:33 AM | When she says I dont play games then has little tests if you test some one that is game playing and attacks your intelligence | |
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| What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/19/2006 6:38:58 AM | | to twilight twin...........yeah and then I got divorced and my credit rating plummetted because divorce decrees.............so it doesnt nessecarliy mean the guy has a problem with handling money | |
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