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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 2/19/2006 7:16:35 AM | | OhK....With a list like that you'd better be friggin perfect AND richer than Bill Gates. You'd have to buy one young and raise her. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 2/19/2006 7:17:46 AM | Racism, intolerance, homophobia, etc. basically anyone who can’t accept that there is a diverse group of people on this planet with as much right to enjoy it is they have.
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 2/19/2006 7:40:30 AM |
hey cotter....long time no see!
SQUIRRLY ... sent you an email ... will fill you in on things later. 
OT ... agree with squirrly on that ... negative people and people who have no sense of humor. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 2/19/2006 8:43:03 AM | Hi "picker"
OT... There's a real deal breaker going on over in the following thread:
"i just tested her panties...both positive for semen...wow...what do i do now?"
Also there's some lady over there that thinks I'm picking on xchuck, so some of you may want to go over there and save him from me before I eat him alive!  Mmmmm ... he'd be so yummy! OMG ... did I write that? (Whew ... running quickly to get a napkin to wipe up the drool.)
Can't find a picture of you "picker" ... maybe I'd be drooling over that too? Ah well, what can I say ... I'm a "lover", not a "scraper".
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 2/24/2006 12:50:04 PM | Muffy - you couldn't be more wrong! Just because you make your payments on your maxed out credit cards on time doesn't ensure a good credit rating. For it to not adversely affect your credit, you can't owe more than half of your credit line. What your calling good credit isn't good credit, it's average credit. You sure can't have a 700 credit score with maxed out credit cards.
InSearchOf - So your saying that your ex is the one with bad credit and you just inherited it through the divorce. I don't buy that because you are responsible until the bills are out of your name. Not just because the Divorce Decree says so. Even if you have to call and make sure she paid what she's suppose to or pay it or provide the Decree. Whatever you have to do to get it out of your name. It's about responsibility and accountability. I'm divorced. My credit and his credit rating did not flounder. I know because I refinanced his mortgage one year later and he had a 804 credit score.  | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/26/2006 12:01:39 PM | Deal breakers.....
Crazy, psychotic, shallow, spends more time one phone tahn with me when were out, too many people know her, to many mental issues, talking about her exes, talking WAAYY to much about nothing, not phsically active, but wants to lose weight, unmotivaed, lazy, looking for handouts, wants the guy to pay for everything, liars, has more than one kid, materialistic, always worrying if well fit in, cant take a joke, dry sense of humor.
Dang, I wrote a story...lol | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/26/2006 12:08:51 PM | | Liars, Cheaters, Mental/Physical abusers, and the bad breath thing for me, too. lol Otherwise, im pretty flexible....LOL | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/26/2006 12:11:52 PM | Huggie ...
Where the heck are you finding all these ladies who are doing the stuff on your list? Hopefully you are finding this stuff out about them way before you spend too much time with them. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/26/2006 7:46:39 PM | Simple :
* lack of respect, honesty, compassion and a sense of humour
* 'bad' addictions (smoking, drugs legal or otherwise etc)
* void of intelligence
* poor hygiene | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/26/2006 8:43:48 PM | Cig smokers!
Bad breathe, daily drinkers, non goal oriented, and not caring about other peoples feelings. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/26/2006 8:54:53 PM | "too many people know her"
Heh, true Huggie Bear! There was this girl I saw at the vendor about a week ago that I haven't seen in a decade, i'm *sure* that it was this girl that I used to know, Lisa. I was gonna ask her, "hey, are you Lisa?", but she was with a guy, and I didn't want to create a complex with him, because I know that when my old friend was going out with her at the time, she'd *always* run into guys, it was almost an ongoing joke, "did you do that guy, too?". Ironically enough, we never slept together, but she slept with about 50 percent of the guys that we were friends with.....
Dealbreakers for me: too clingy/ no independence/ no opinions, too possessive/ lack of trust, cheating. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/26/2006 9:05:35 PM | Throwing up at lunch due to anxiety attacks caused a first-date deal breaker for me once. So yep, puking is now on my list of deal-breakers.
At least do it in private. Girl could get a complex, jeezus... | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/26/2006 10:25:25 PM | Deal breckers? Real tall women, prevaricators (absolutely), women that just won't give an inch about anything,
How about women that are like ole Toby Keith's song "Lets talk about me, I wanna talk about me". That really gets old when everything has to be about her. I would like to be on the receiving end of a relationship for once in my life. Every woman that I have ever been with always wants me to pay for everything, wants me to buy them a car, ............I wanna talk about me.................................Tracy | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/26/2006 10:32:59 PM | Here's the deal (no pun intended)
Dishonesty
Religious fanaticism
Political conservatives
Clingy
Controlling
Very Overweight
Divorced with kids
Divorced more than once if no kids
unhygienic
bad teeth
poor health
whiner/complainer
abusive
alchoholic/likes to get drunk
drugs
chewing tobacco or excessive smoking
racist/bigoted
homophobic
lazy/no job
litterbugs (just too lazy to throw trash in a receptacle or use an ashtray)
I think that pretty much sums it up. I admit I am picky but I only need to marry ONE man. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/26/2006 10:40:05 PM | Who says you have to marry one? I noticed you mentioned the homo thing LOL............Just playin.............
Deal Breakers.............lazy prevaricators for sure. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/27/2006 12:28:25 AM | B!tch princesses.
If I catch a whiff of **** princess attitude, or her car or clothing is festooned with **** princess paraphernalia then we're done. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/27/2006 3:34:59 AM | OK, here goes . . .
Bad teeth, bad breath, unkempt hair, poor personal hygiene and dress, poor grammar and spelling, the mention of sex very early on, anything in the way of moving too quickly, lies, smoking, drinking, someone that cannot carry on an intelligent conversation, low self-esteem, whiners, martyrs, braggers, sarcasm, snobs, God complex, disrespectful, untrustworthy - and the list goes on. In other words, be a gentleman! | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/27/2006 6:56:15 AM |
Where the heck are you finding all these ladies who are doing the stuff on your list? Hopefully you are finding this stuff out about them way before you spend too much time with them. Unfortunately, it is after I have spent a great deal of time with them....they feel as if they can show thier 'true self' to me and I wont care....the overweight thing is for those women who completey let themselves go...If you were that way before I me you, I wouldn mind as much, it would just be something we would have to work on. Im a thick guy, I cant have a woman as big or bigger than me...just doesnt look right. | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/27/2006 8:21:20 AM | | Guys you've just met who are trying to be all secretive about talking to other women. We are NOT a couple, so why the secrecy? If I catch you being sneaky over something so minor,I can only imagine what else you'll lie about. Next! | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/27/2006 9:47:56 AM | | Neediness, jealousy, and lack of accountability. Oh, and if they do that lizard thing when they kiss...what the hell is that about????? | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/27/2006 10:17:55 AM | I'm almost scared to post, because Sniper puts down some fairly innocuous deal breakers, like everyone else, and he's suddenly getting attacked for it! Everything from saying he's a homophobe to being a hunter must mean he as a small penis. Sure, he could have handled the ensuing arguement better, but I'd say he wasn't the only one acting like a 5th grader.
Now, on to my answer to this thread's question, Deal Breakers (more or less in order of importance):
non-female (OK, this might be a little too obvious)
from a different religion or non-religious
liberal
doesn't want or have kids
has bratty kids (nothing against the kids, but it says something about the mother)
smoker
drinks more than socially
cusses on a regular basis
wears too much makeup, perfume, really long fingernails, etc.
indoor cats or dogs that they refuse to move outside (allergies...can't help it.)
doesn't like the outdoors and getting dirty once in a while (such as tent camping)
anal retentive neat-freak (I don't mind someone who likes things to be clean and orderly, but there's a point where it's just TOO much.)
too serious (you gotta laugh once in a while!)
unintelligent (doesn't have to be a rocket surgeon, but she's got to be able to carry on a conversation)
loves country or rap music (OK, not a complete deal breaker, but definitely a turn off.) | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/27/2006 11:12:16 AM | - bad ankles (cankles)
- bad ears (ew)
- lazy (sleep alot)
- wayyyyy toooo many guy friends in bars
- extremely low IQ (avg is fine)
- toooooo talllllll (like dating yer older bro, yikes!)
- never had ambition in HS college or now (lacks sports, music or affiliations)
ehhh, i prolly have more... | |
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| What are your deal breakers
Posted: 3/27/2006 12:41:53 PM | | i'd say my deal breakers are lairs, fake people, and lack of mannors... im guessing there is a slew more but cant think of anymore at the moment... | |
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