| single and forty....
Posted: 2/27/2005 2:24:22 PM | InTheCanyon - No, actually I graduated High School in Englewood... which oughta ring a bell...
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| single and forty....
Posted: 2/27/2005 4:07:01 PM | It isn't more difficult in my little town to find someone to love you when you are over 40 - it's just difficult understanding the lingo. Like, "Hey ****, wanna go for a ride" is a form of flattery.
On more than one occasion I've worried that I'll end up with the toothless village idiot who drives the trash truck.
So, hense forth, I shall go where the intelligent men (capable of uttering those three words and mean it) are, which is not in these backwoods.
Did you say Move? Well, It's an ultimate goal once the obstacles are cleared from the path.
Many obstacles, small path. | |
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| single and forty....
Posted: 3/2/2005 1:00:17 PM | | That only rings true if you consider how easy it is to get shot by a terrorist. Just go to Iraq, and carry a big Arabicsign around with some choice put-downs for the Qu'ran and Mohammed. Remember Salmon Rushti? | |
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| single and forty....
Posted: 4/19/2005 9:50:13 AM | I tend to agree with you. People over 40 and now set in their ways and some of them are hard to get rid of and change. I am more then ready for change.  | |
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| single and forty....
Posted: 4/19/2005 9:21:54 PM | | I posted this thread so long ago I was a bit shocked to see it back in circulation. I thought perhaps I would have changed my mind by now...but sadly...no. Living in a small town has alot to do with my current relationship status. I'm sure other women my age, that live in, or near a metropolitan area do not share my opinion..... but perhaps they could do me a favor....send all the single 40 somethings my way....hahahaha | |
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Pavlov
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Joined: 1/16/2005
Msg: 81 | |
| single and forty....
Posted: 4/19/2005 11:14:32 PM | Relationships are more complicated at 40 because we have a lot more stuff now than we did at 20. Money, kids, careers, houses, furniture, hobbies, expectations, all these things have to be accommodated in a new relationship. That means that the relationship requires a lot more negotiation. Fortunately most of us also possess more insight, wisdom, and patience than we did at 20. Relationships at 40 aren’t impossible, they just take a bit more work.
As for being shot by a terrorist, hey I’m Canadian. People like Canadians. | |
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Conman
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Joined: 1/27/2005
Msg: 82 | |
| single and forty....
Posted: 4/30/2005 1:03:55 PM | | Why wont older women give young guys a chance? I really like older women, but cannot find one to go out with because they all just assume I am immature becuase I am young. That sucks. | |
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| single and forty....
Posted: 5/1/2005 5:43:56 PM | I don't know conman. Since you don't define older women here are you aiming way to high for your 21 years? And, by god man, don't go by that nick on the street. Red Flag, Red Flag.
On thread:
it's easier to get shot by a terrorist than it is to find love and get married when you are in your 40's"...
I haven't been shot yet but, haven't married in my 40's either. I have morals, standards, expectations and high integrity. No excuses though. I am me and hold myself up to those same standards. Still looking. | |
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| single and forty....
Posted: 5/25/2005 11:23:00 PM | Good Point, Puppy Love, and it is TRUE. Woman, had better start realizing this factor, or they could eventually be left on this planet ALONE, with NO MEN, to choose from.
Sincerely
Neill | |
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| single and forty....
Posted: 5/25/2005 11:35:22 PM | Indigorose33, Puppy Love, IS NOT a BAD DOG, and he IS NOT depressing you. He IS, telling the PLAIN TRUTH, and THE FACTS. Most, and a lot of MEN, do die off much earlier then woman do.
That is why, eventually you will see, that their is becoming a decreasing amount of men still living, compared to woman. And slowley, eventually, you woman will have very little men to choose from, if any.
Ya had better get used to it now, girl, before it is too late, otherwise, you will be in for a MAJOR SHOCK.
Sincerely
Neill | |
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| single and forty....
Posted: 5/25/2005 11:49:57 PM | squeak funny girl...
ya your right why do we want to make just one man miserable
when there are so many...ha ha !
Very funny, Indigorose33, now WHERE, is the humour in that. Time to grow up, little girl.
Neill | |
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| single and forty....
Posted: 5/25/2005 11:59:58 PM | | Have been single over 3 years....haven't even really been dating. I am not sure it is possible for a woman over 40 to find a man who wants more than a booty call. | |
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| single and forty....
Posted: 5/26/2005 12:26:48 AM | Ok, fellow Canadian, from Alberta. Have a good look a my profile, it does NOT say anything in there about looking for woman over 40, JUST FOR a booty call. NOTHING, about a BOOTY CALL. And I am 50. Because, I am lookng for a woman, who IS, MUCH MUCH more then a BOOTY CALL. I am looking for someone, who has a good charactor, who is down to earth.
Who has a good personality about her, who has similar interests, but has some of her own common goals, but, NOTHING about JUST ANOTHER BOOTY CALL.
Have a look for yourself, and you tell me.
Sincerely
Neill | |
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| single and forty....
Posted: 5/26/2005 12:47:57 AM | | Men never state it outright in their profiles...they make it very clear in email and IM though. | |
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| single and forty....
Posted: 5/30/2005 7:19:58 PM | Not all of us...
~~Dragon Rider~~
Meddle not in the afairs of Dragons,
for thou art crunchy and go well with ketchup | |
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| single and forty....
Posted: 5/30/2005 7:26:52 PM | Neil
I will grow up when I wanna.....and I DON'T WANNA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ifn I am single til I die, I can at least have fun.......besides...what with the comment you make about the men dying earlier than us, it makes sense for us to get the younger ones....
No breeding worries.....just fun
Squeak
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| single and forty....
Posted: 6/4/2005 2:41:59 PM | Here it is the end of April 2005. It has been noted that life starts at 40. That what we have learned and experience up to that point in our lives, gives us the ammunition to live the balance of our lives to its fullest.
It seems that forty is now the young 30's. Most people find thier mates during thier twenties and live full lives with them for the rest of their lives. I feel that this adventure is now starting for me. Dating at forty is much more different than dating at twenty. The rules have changed. At forty you have to accept ones past - whether it includes exspouses , added children etc.
So I accept these new challenges and adventures with a vengence. So live life to its fullest and never regret what you do only regret not doing it. | |
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| single and forty....
Posted: 6/4/2005 3:06:32 PM | | I do not think it is harder to date past 40 or past 50 or past 60 either. I think the rules and ideas change some. But really people .... Get With the Program. If you don't know how to go about it, then get educated and just do it! I had to do that and damn fast too! The forums in here has taught me more than I ever dreamed was going on in the world outside. Heck Google is one big text book on everything sexual. I've read site after site. Not pornographic either. Real medical sites that talk about Everything!! Join a lot of sites and find out what is going on out there. I am still learning, and will be learning about me and life til I die. I wish the same for you..... | |
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| single and forty+....
Posted: 6/4/2005 7:03:50 PM | | I so agree with you. Being in mid 40's still searching for that special something and not at an age where I want to settle for anything less.... | |
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| single and forty+....
Posted: 6/4/2005 9:42:29 PM | | @beemyself4u...Yeppers. We gotta just be ourselves and not settle til we find that one who can know all our faults and like us anyways. Nice to meet you by the way. | |
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| single and forty+....
Posted: 9/8/2005 3:11:17 PM | I have to admit. I would not mind going out with a younger guy. Depending on the maturity. Heck I wouldnt mind going out on a date or meeting anyone for coffee. Just as long as it is more then one time.Haha. | |
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| single and forty+....
Posted: 9/9/2005 6:43:14 PM | | U got that right. Im 46 & the only time a guy want to go out with me is booty call. That sucks | |
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| single and forty+....
Posted: 9/9/2005 8:34:08 PM | WOW...you guys had to dig pretty deep to bring this thread back. I can't even remember when I started it..(ya, I know, I can check if I wanted to) hahaha
Anyway.....since I started this thread I have dateda few guys. Most of them were not my type, one was a flake and one is in the middle of a self-imposed "mid-life crisis". What gives? Why is this so hard? I'm ready to give up. OY VEY!!!! | |
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