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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 3/15/2009 4:17:22 PM |
Um... MRSA?? Are you serious?
Unless you're performing surgery while you have sex, then getting MSRA isn't possible. Do you really think it's a STD?
I was referring to opportunistic infections. Technically speaking you can get MRSA anywhere. Theres a little boy in the next county who was playing sports and he fell and cut his lip. It was just a little cut on his lip. The MRSA was on/in the ground and took hold before anyone knew what was happening. The hospital did what they could, but he is seriously disfigured for life. Sad.
No, MRSA is not an STD, but its something thats not only in hospitals either. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 3/15/2009 4:39:51 PM | well I believe in condom use...however there is a sensation loss...all things being equal I think to make sure protection for both partner and take the sensation away from the female as well....Insert plastic tube in to the vagina...and the male wears his condom...that way nobody feels nothing....lol | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 4/15/2009 10:46:36 PM | | Boy I know what you mean about the feeling, that's why I choose to stay out of the action. For me I 'd want to do all my test and have ready results. And you have to learn to slow down. Because when you fall in raw, it hard to pull out. especially if you get involved and had time to check things out. Better than one night stands, but this is easier said than done, so strap up and buy a pack until all . finally bareback is something that both parties need to watch each others back on. Same thing goes for pregnancy, if you both dig each other enough to do it raw then you know how to work the law. peace | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/15/2009 10:35:04 PM | | if i wanted to have sex with something rubber, I'd get a toy. But, intercourse isn't everything to me, so if she wants the rubber, then I'd rather have fun in other ways. Can't feel anything with a rubber on, so it becomes a job instead of enjoyable. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/15/2009 10:40:48 PM | Unfortuneately, men don't worry about the risks. That's why the men who die from STDs or end up paying child support previously thought it would never happen to them. I usually practiced safe sex unless I'd been with her for several months or so. Of course, with my first wife, I still practiced safe sex since we weren't ready for children. Since the marriage didn't last I guess we never were and didn't have any.
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/16/2009 10:13:21 PM | I can't speak from experience because I don't have any (it's been over 9 years),
so this is only based on my beliefs, but I'd think the woman would bring up
the subject of protection some time before. And if she didn't, then I probably
would; and I only say 'probably' because as I said I haven't had any recent
experience. I respect women, for whatever reason, and I'll honor all their
wishes/decisions. Especially when they're allowing a penis to enter their body. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/17/2009 12:25:27 AM | Well said vixen. I think that if everyone was honest that is what we would all agree.
However in this world of "who knows what you can catch" the safe thing to do is to use condoms obviously.
I will say this. If I was seeing someone in a LTR I would eventually go bareback. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/17/2009 12:46:23 AM | Don't know about others but, I'll never use a condom. Then again I'm kinda old fashioned and will Not have sex with someone unless I'm 100% sure I'll be spending my life with them and want kids with them.
Just my opinion though. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/17/2009 2:16:06 AM | | mmm,condoms why bother.well actualy in the bussiness im in i get to speek 2 a number of guys on all sorts of matters.two of these which seem 2 b relevant to this post. a couple of guys came in a while ago, and after a while in conversation over a number of months, it was established that they were gay partners, both hiv posative.one of them has finaly passed away and it was a long painfull slow death not unlike cancer.Another customer told a story of regularly going 2 asia for sex tours.and he found a place where the girls would not make you wear condoms.i put it 2 him that the satistics sugest that 1 in 3 of these girls is hiv +,and as such did he get regular std checkups, his reply was its hard for guys 2 get aids, and who cares anyway.he did mention that he did regularly pick up girls for 1 niters in adelide here in australia. like i said (condoms) why bother? | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/17/2009 2:38:35 AM | | OP - I personally don't think this applies to ALL men, and i'm sure thts not what you intended to say. I, for one, do worry about my safety, even when she says she has condoms. Bc chances are, she won't have the right size for me, I'm not packin the average magnum, I've got an RPG on my hands, lol, and there's nothing worst than the condom breakin mid-way(which has happened 3 times in a row, thts when I upgraded to a larger size). Even when me and my ex were dating after a month, the third time we had sex, I told her I had no condoms, and told her we needed to go to the store, and she was totally cool with not usin a condom. And I was comfortable without it bc I knew about her sex history and vice-versa. Plus, it helps me last longer, so I for one enjoy sex with/without the condom, makes no difference to me | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/17/2009 3:02:55 AM | I'm a weird one I guess, I really don't want to go in without a condom, I check the one in my wallet regularly to make sure the package hasn't torn (an invention to solve that would be awesome as it's hindered me more than once). The source of my responsibility to say not is sort of selfish though, I'm not really afraid of dieing to a disease or death in general, I'm afraid of dieing in anguish; most of the STDs seem to provide anguish in one form or another. There is also the thing of I don't want to wind up getting some gal pregnant if I'm not sure that we'll be able to stay together or at least friendly through the child's early life; if I become a father I want to be there to make sure the child or children have a good start in life.
I wonder if those non-condom guys would put their hand in fire without protective hand/arm gear. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/17/2009 2:18:52 PM | | hey. I always wear condoms. I have no intention of getting anyone pregnant. and in this day and age. you never know who someone has been with. or who that person was with. and so on and so forth. so I always carry condoms if I think I will get some. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/19/2009 3:41:00 PM | | Is your reaction the same when a guy goes to go down on you without a dental dam? And do you insist he have it on when you go down on him? Because, frankly, once a guy has had oral contact with your hoo-hoo, or you've had oral contact with his junk, you've kind of lost the argument for a condom. Of course, herpes 2 is normally spread genital to genital (it can also be caused by a herpes 1 infected mouth coming into contact with genitalia), but herpes 1 & 2 can penetrate a condom. Anyway, if you have objections to a guy giving you head with a dental dam barrier, then you will understand why a guy does not wish to wear a condom. Unfortunately, when the sexual instinct has been put into motion, the higher functions of the brain (viz., logic, reason, precautions) cease to be a controlling factor in either a man or woman's actions. Just be thankful you don't get quite as excited quite as fast as he does. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/19/2009 4:08:44 PM | Obviously, if you have your priorities straight there would be no question whether to use a condom. Having said that, how feel about a birth control method that encased your clitoris in a thick layer of latex.
Just sayin... | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/19/2009 5:23:37 PM | | Dumb, dumb, dumb. Those guys don't care about their health or yours. I always carry a couple condoms on me in a potentially frisky party situation. I like the feeling of sliding the thing on--it's actually very erotic! There's actually a lot of sensation with the thing on too. Those other guys are just lazy dead-beats (slug-heads). | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/29/2009 4:49:28 PM | abstinance then huh. Let me see life without sex life with sex. If abstinance is the only options Trojan take me away. Safe sex is not only about responsibility but about accountability and even if you don't want to go to the doctor for a hiv test they sell em over the web mail order home test I don't know how accurate they are but still you should know your status its not just your life you may be saving. I have worked in the heath field some babies are born with stds too Aids included. If your old enough to have sex your old enough to know how to use protection and if rubber makes you uncomfortable they have lamb skin one and natural ones. Condoms are not 100 percent but the only thing thats truly 100 percent in this life is Death and I don't need to get there before my time.
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