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 cynful44

Joined: 4/28/2009
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Posted: 8/14/2009 7:53:57 PM
That's why I always carry condoms.
In my purse
In my truck
In the dresser beside my bed.

Does that make me a whore ?
Nope......just a woman who likes to have sex, whenever, wherever and I KNOW how irresponsible men can be.

They're not the ones that get pregnant.
 crystal_light1111

Joined: 8/10/2009
Msg: 402
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 8/14/2009 10:54:45 PM
To clockworkboy....so you think you dodged a bullet....I have news for you...some std's take years before they show up....including HIV....and for the ladies, HPV is transmitted by men , and is the leading cause of cervical cancer....men have no symptoms, but women who don't go to regular gyno exams will never know they've picked up the HPV virus until it's too late...and the sad thing is , it's the most preventable cancer if caught in time.
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 8/15/2009 9:04:51 AM

and for the ladies, HPV is transmitted by men , and is the leading cause of cervical cancer....

Let's try not to bash men here... it's not transmitted by men... it's tranmitted by both women AND men.... The way you put it, it sounds lik men are the source...
Sorry, men have to get it from somewhere too.... like a woman maybe?
 crystal_light1111

Joined: 8/10/2009
Msg: 404
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Posted: 8/16/2009 1:27:53 AM
m church.....I was not bashing men....if you read my post, I meant that both can have the virus, but it's the woman who pays the price and ends up with cervical cancer if not caught in time....men have no symptoms but for a woman it can be deadly...I know, I just lost a friend from cervical cancer , tested positive for HPV...didn't go to regualar check ups and by the time she found out, it was game over.
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 8/16/2009 7:40:58 AM

m church.....I was not bashing men....if you read my post, I meant that both can have the virus, but it's the woman who pays the price and ends up with cervical cancer if not caught in time....men have no symptoms but for a woman it can be deadly...I know, I just lost a friend from cervical cancer , tested positive for HPV...didn't go to regualar check ups and by the time she found out, it was game over.

It was just the way I read it...
And in truth, men do have to pay the price for for it.... some men do get penile cancers from it... Also, I don't want to be in the position of watching a loved one die from something she got from a past sex partner, years down the road either...
I too have lost a friend to cervical cancer. She was quite young, only in her twenties...
My G/F may get it, she has had repeated problems and has to go for multiple smears each year.... She found out a while back that one of her past partners has tested postive for HPV(a woman). Apparently she knew, but didn't tell anyone. My G/F and I have both come up negative in repeated testing (we both get tested every 3 months)
 jwa_40

Joined: 8/8/2009
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 8/16/2009 9:20:27 PM
Why am I very mad? Because you assume all men are like this, I always, always used a condom no glove no love!
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 8/17/2009 4:13:30 PM
From an article on how condoms are tested for failure...


According to the scientific paper from Contraception journal that describes this device:

Over a period of 7 years, broken condoms returned to a supplier (SSL, Durex) via consumer complaints were examined to determine the cause of failure. Also, some consumers who reported breakage but did not return condoms were sent a questionnaire on the causes of breakage. Finally, theories proposed for the mechanism of breakage were investigated on a laboratory coital model. RESULTS: Nearly 1000 (n=972) returned condoms made from natural rubber and polyurethane were examined. Visible features on those that were broken, were classified. Evidence combined from examining returns, questionnaire responses and the coital model strongly suggests a single predominant mechanism of failure we named "blunt puncture," where the tip of the thrusting male penis progressively stretches one part of the intact condom wall until it ultimately breaks.
 KinkyBastard

Joined: 1/3/2008
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 8/17/2009 4:50:39 PM
Hell you think I want to die of some horrible disease?!!!

Condoms is a MUST if I'm about to have sex with a woman I don't know.

So... Not all men are suicidal like the OP claims.

However, I just wished they made them a bit bigger... They can be a freaking hassle to get on!
 djd

Joined: 8/13/2009
Msg: 409
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 8/19/2009 3:20:54 AM
I personally hate condoms, but I believe that sex is so much more than intercourse.

Penetration is only my goal if I really know the person well and know their history completely.

Maybe I'm not typical??
 annasthasia

Joined: 5/4/2005
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Posted: 8/19/2009 7:47:51 AM
Say what DJD!!!


I personally hate condoms, but I believe that sex is so much more than intercourse.

Penetration is only my goal if I really know the person well and know their history completely.

Maybe I'm not typical??


This coming from a married man looking for an other relashionship!!!

What about your wife... You know the one you do not use protection with... Who the heck is protecting her???

Note to self: Walk away from this thread... walk away...
 djd

Joined: 8/13/2009
Msg: 411
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 8/19/2009 3:58:16 PM
Who is protecting her??

I don't know. Hopefully the guy who is fvcking her.


Other relationship: Why do you assume that "Other Relationship" has to be sexual??
Do you know I am looking for sex? Do you even know ANYTHING about me? How many hours have you spent with me to know what I mean by "Other Relationship" and what I am looking for specifically?

Perhaps getting to know someone before you pass that kind of judgment would be easier on your blood pressure.

Don't walk away hon.

Run.

Please.
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