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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 1:05:00 PM | No...no...if you don't have condoms...just compromise and give him a boob job if she's well endowed...relieve yourself in her cleavage, hand job...have a towel handy.....or some oral....
See, problem solved. !! :-) | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 2:40:01 PM | i saw alien VRS preditor too lol!!!!!!!!! 
Ummmm........okay......good to know......(Under his breath to another POF) WTF is this guy talkin about?????
Never seen it dude, looked stupid, Aliens would win anyways.
let me guess, there is a whole thing about how it feels better with or without????
I know that the Alien Trilogy was very Sexually inspired....but they usually had better ways to conceal it
for example
in Alien
The door to the crashed alien ship was shaped like the Female Genitalia
The little spider alien would stick his dick down your throat and...spread his offspring into your stomach......"No thanks....I'm full" | |
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bayguy
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Joined: 7/1/2005
Msg: 107 | |
| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 2:40:39 PM | If it's someone I'm just starting to know, there is no way in hell i'm having sex without a condom. That's just absolutely insane!!
Use your head people. I'm no where near ready for a child or a a disease (never will be ready for the latter)...
No glove, no love | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 5:44:15 PM | Yes, I have thought about BC, got pregnant on it actually. Whats your point?
That was the 99.9% part of it... if shes on BC then SUPPOSEDLY you're chances of pregnancy are low. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 5:58:07 PM | No...no...if you don't have condoms...just compromise and give him a boob job if she's well endowed...relieve yourself in her cleavage, hand job...have a towel handy.....
or some oral.... See, problem solved. !! :-)
Body fluids carry STD's
So ..... when you have an orgasm while she's giving you oral, you don't shoot out any "body fluids"?
Okay, okay, you're giving her oral ..... and you do not come in contact with her "body fluids"? Are you wearing a baggie or something over your mouth?
Tell us how you manage to do this .... This inquiring mind wants to know! | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 6:01:47 PM |
Yes, I have thought about BC, got pregnant on it actually. What’s your point?
Well, if you use birth control you don't need to use condoms and if you should always go to the doc and make sure everything is all peaches.....however
got pregnant on it actually
Isn't it supposed to make sure that that doesn't happen, because I always hear that it is the most reliable...other than not having sex.....so?
Meant nothing by it. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 6:05:25 PM | One. your not a guy so you wouldn't understand the difference between wearing one and not wearing one.
Two. Women should take responsibilty and bring there own( whether its a male or female condom).
Three. Why are we saying that all these lines that guys give as if its all OUr fault, if you were that worried you'd bring your own, you were the ones willing to sleep with us.
Four. Yes guys should bring there own.
Five. I ALWAYS have one or two condoms with me and i wear one during sex because STI's(sexually transmitted Infections, They changed STD to STI about a year or so ago). and pregnancy isnt something that i want to deal with right now.
So simply put no condoms no sex. | |
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Spirto
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Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 112 | |
| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 6:06:19 PM | I wouldnt do it without a condom,. being a girlfriend or not the time you wouldnt do it would be in a serious moving to marriage relationship.
If it was tried without one, birth control would come into conversation but open communication always wins the day.
If before you get heated you have had the conversation about your view too or against the matter then it shouldnt be omg run and get one situation :)
anyways.. thanks for the laugh it's a serious matter but it comes down to the person your going to do ..
for me if it aint on it aint on :)
have a great day
t. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 8:41:11 PM | If they scream laytex allergy, then they already know about lambskin. It is a little bit more expensive but well worth it.
No glove no love!!!!!!!
If he has no desire to respect his own health, then why on earth do you expect him to respect yours? | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 8:43:16 PM | posted by hambone
No...no...if you don't have condoms...just compromise and give him a boob job if she's well endowed...relieve yourself in her cleavage, hand job...have a towel handy.....or some oral....
ok.... oral????? does this not mean the exchange of your bodily fluids in her mouth and stomach? | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 8:52:46 PM |
If they scream laytex allergy, then they already know about lambskin. It is a little bit more expensive but well worth it.
Perhaps you'd like to do a little research on lambskin condoms? | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 8:54:31 PM | It is more respected by a real man when you can openly say "hey I need to make a stop at the store to amke sure we have condoms" a real decent man was completely blown away by the responsibility that i had to be upfront and open about it. I think if he is really worth it he will have that much more respect for u!!!!! | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 10:00:44 PM | I corresponded with a guy for a while, then we moved it to the phone, and finally on to dating. Nice enough, professional, high profile in town, and I went to his place eventually. We got hot and heavy, and he starts poking at me. I stop him several times and finally say, "Get the condom." He LAUGHED. I looked at him and said it again. He grinned at me and then went to poke it in. I said, "You're kidding, right? You're not really telling me you're not going to wear a condom?" He did the stupid grin again, said he didn't have any, and therefore enjoyed a fine whack up the side of his head from my hands which were clenched together. Knocked him off me. Fortunately, he left the room, came back very upset but not violent, and I ended up safe.
I learned in the ensuing moments that this guy participates in group sex and "hasn't had anyone say no" before. HOLY SHIT. Maybe that was info he could have offered up when we were talking about what we're comfortable with? SAFE SEX ONLY has been one of my clear parameters. Jesus. What an ***hole.
Herpes is a much bigger deal to worry about than AIDS because more people have it. Anyone with a brain uses condoms. And, YES, barebacking would be incredible but so is the rest of my life. :-) | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/20/2005 11:19:29 PM | OK, said it before on another forum but it needs to be said again:
1) Everybody who plans/hopes to be sexually active should have condoms available. Learn where the nearest 24-hour drugstore is. Such knowledge will also come in handy when you need to have a prescription filled at 3 a.m. after being released from the ER.
2) If you have a latex allergy, invest in Lambskin AND regular. Lambskin, being an organic tissue may NOT prevent transmission of AIDS (professional opinions vary). Wear the latex over the lamb if this is a concern. (There are also polyurethane condoms avaible but they receive poor reviews for sensation.) If the woman is the one with the allergy, reverse the order (lamb over latex).
3) In reference to #2, it has become popular with sex workers to use 2 condoms at a time both for safety reasons and because the men report a better sensation (more friction).
4) Experiment with different brands, varieties and sizes. There are a lot of brands better than Trojans. See the article and links on "Safer Sex Supplies" from the wonderful people at www.sexuality.org. Sampler packs ARE available. Oh, and if you live in Vancouver, BC, lucky you -- there are whole stores devoted to selling condoms! (Such a wonderful city!)
5) To increase sensation, put a few drops of water-based lubricant (Astroglide is great) INSIDE the tip of the condom before putting it on. Experiment with different water-based lubricants. (Again, variety sample packs are available.)
This Public Safety Announcement has been brought to you by a woman who has indeed said "Unless we use a condom, I'm going home to my vibrator." | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/21/2005 12:40:38 AM | And the with most common of all STD's, namely HPV, apparently condoms aren't much of a barrier. You pays your money, you takes your chances.
Vasectomy + regular STD screenings + whore avoidance = way more fun | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/21/2005 12:54:11 AM | Many guys are selfish and prude, they really don't think about the consequences of their actions. I had a discussion with good friend of mine a while back and she had some important things to say about it.
You should never rely on your partner to protect you, only yourself. If you're worried about not having condoms, make sure you buy them yourself. Make sure you take your pill on time. Do whatever it takes to protect yourself.
Guys will do things like forget, purposely "forget", put them on wrong so they have an excuse when it comes off during sex, cause them break them by opening packages with their teeth. There are a million things that can go wrong on your partner's end.
Take responsibility for your body and learn to protect yourself, and don't put up with a guys bullshit. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/21/2005 1:28:55 AM | Calm down ladies...Us guy are at yalls command...If you say codoms we wear condoms...I don't like them but would wear them to have sex with you. If you told me to wear a dress I would wear a dress..... | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/21/2005 1:51:04 AM | Aides can sit dormant in a person for years without it being discovered (msg 40)
I assume you mean HIV. Where did you get this information (years)?
Most people will develop detectable antibodies within 3 months after infection, the average being 20 days. In rare cases, it can take 6-12 months. During the time between exposure and the test, it is important to avoid any behavior that might result in exposure to blood, semen, or vaginal secretions.
http://www.hivtest.org/subindex.cfm?FuseAction=FAQ#8 | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/21/2005 7:00:49 AM | condoms like the seat belt were invented so that people could bully others:
people yelling at each other about seat belts and condoms causes more deaths than traffic accidents and peniswarts | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/21/2005 9:01:41 AM | Aside from my 'experimentation' years, and a couple of occasions since the divorce when I was stupid, the only times I've had voluntary unprotected were after my wife and I had been married for four years, and after we finally had enough money for me to get a vasectomy. When we were going through the 'should we break up' phase, and she took a lover, the few times I was with her I began using them again.
Since the divorce, it's sad to say I had a box of them sitting in my home long enough that it went past its sell-by date. (Suffice it to say that I'm more interested in friends than sex.) Then again, even though I have to dust off the fishing tackle rather than utilizing it, I still have my physician test its integrity every three months: nobody wants to find out that threads on their fly have become frayed after you've cast it into a new pond, on the off chance one gets the opportunity for some angling.
*ahem*
Was I stupid in the past? Yes. Have I don't dumb things sexually? Yes. Do I want to live to a ripe old age, so I stopped doing dumb things sexually? Yes. So, until they have molecular barriers, I'll use condoms.
I have them, I keep them here (a new box, don't worry), but I don't take them with me when I'm out. If I'm heading to the movies with a friend, or out for dinner with a new acquaintance, I don't automatically assume we're going to make the beast with two backs. There have been times in the past where there's been chemistry, but how long does it really take to nip into a chemist's and pick up a pack of sheaths?
And sorry, guys, but if you're latex-sensitive, then it's your responsibility to purchase latex-free condoms.
So I'm sterile, great. So she's on the pill, wonderful. So I know I'm clean, wonderful. So she says she's clean, fantastic. That still doesn't mean I want to take any chances. (And don't even get me started on the gay/bi guys I've known ... oy!) | |
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