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Posted: 10/16/2007 3:55:13 PM | first off, if you are working...and he is not....you need the kids back.
Secondly...I can see why he might be allowed back in your home for your kids sake if he lost his job, but his gf? Hell no....and they are talking bad about you in your own home? Oh hello....aint even gonna happen in this gals house!!! I'd put them all out, and then get legal custody, even if only temporary , of my kids. The ex and his prego gf are not your concern, and if that sounds hard hearted...it isnt. look how they're treating you. As for living in a small town that likes to talk....currently am...know how it goes, and one of the reasons I would imagine the talk is continuing is that you allow everyone to use you as a doormat....been down that road too. Stand up for yourself, then your kids. Talk to the District Attourney...they usually can tell you what your best legal bet is in a case like this, then get crackin' gal!!! No sense in lettin "your world" walk on ya. Good luck!!!! | |
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Posted: 10/16/2007 4:01:04 PM | Perception is reality... Maybe not your reality, but unfortunately that's the way life is. I assume you are fighting for custody of your children. That being the case, you may need to alter your lifestyle to succeed in court. Fair? No.
I'm not one to suggest that anyone be something they're not but if you want to regain custody of your children, the outside world has to perceive you as the perfect mother. It might be a good idea to avoid the bars and choose alternative dating options. You don't want to be seen drinking in public or public displays of affection. I know it sucks but like I said... Perception is reality and as you know, the court's perception becomes your reality.
Good luck to you.
ECE | |
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Posted: 10/17/2007 10:56:49 AM | Ummm yooo hoooooo? anyone thinking out there?
People...
why are you talking to this lady, giving her personal advice, when she posted this thread nearly 2 years ago and is no longer responding on this thread? In fact hasn't posted on any thread in a year and a half?
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Posted: 11/4/2007 9:06:33 AM | | yo i agree wit the gurl who says y are u askin others if your a whore....everyone has an opinion and your guna get alot of them so y even bother askin..... and another thing thats the most craziest thing i have ever heard sumone ask.! no hard feeling chick but i believe u might need a counslor insteadof askin people all over the world.... =) | |
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Posted: 11/4/2007 9:11:47 AM | You call yourself "tipsy bar chick".
That speaks volumes about your lifestyle.
No one here is qualified to say whether or not you are a whore. You're not telling the whole story, and that is pretty clear.
But if all the "no you're not a whore" comments let you sleep easier, fill yer boots. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2007 9:51:35 AM | Don't put yourself down,you are doing the best you can.
As for your ex impregnating another woman,there is nothing you can do about that.
Instead of being angry at your ex,just move on with your life.
The sweetest revenge is to show your ex that you are happy and healthy without
him.
Good luck! | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 6:09:55 AM | | I understand where Buccaneer38 is coming from, my sister would always leave home and leave the kids with her husband after a fight. When I asked her how can she do that, she said that with the kids there, he can't run off with his friends and get drunk or worse. It gives him time to think. It might not be fair, but they have been married decades. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 6:22:18 AM | | A whore is someone who has sex for money, Sweetie. A slutt screws alot of people for fun. Why would you even question what you are? Never let morons live rent free in your head. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 6:32:53 AM | There's a whole chuck of change missing from this jar. In Canada, a man doesn't get custody just for having a job and the house.
My gut tells me that not only are you a whore, you're a violent stoned one at that. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 9:47:31 AM | Please look up on Google .... Defamation of character and Slander. If they apply to you and you can access free legal help you may have a case. This will put a stop to anything else your x thinks will make your life hell.
Good luck
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Posted: 6/16/2008 10:57:23 AM | the op sounds drunk while writing this thread lol......on a serious note there seems to be more to the story....like maybe the real reason  | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 11:42:02 AM | You may not be a whore, but being a tipsybarchick you may
not be a shining specimen of motherhood, either... | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 1:33:38 PM | no ur not a whore...thats just drama queens making life more interesting for them....u think thats bad i apparently have 2 kids who i have never given birth to or seen...one child is suppose to be by an ex of 4 years and another new born
small towns often get into others lives even if they don't know them and like to say things that arn't true...just ask them who are these" guys" you keep sleeping with ?? i'm sure they won't be able to answer n look pretty stupid | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 1:42:01 PM |
geeze louise people this thread was started in 2005!
So is there a time limit on when you are suspose to start a new post on an old topic or are you suspose to look up these really old ones and add to them???
As for the OP, yeah I'd say you lost your kids because of your drinking  problem and bar hopping. I hope the children have a good father and step-mother. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 1:53:51 PM |
Baby gurl **** what people say and all you need to do is work your azz off and get your shit together and you will get your babys back... And then the fisrt time he gos to the ****in club talk shit to him. You just keep that job and get your shit together and **** ervybody else and what they got to say... That shit want matter when u have your babys back you want even gave a **** what he is sayin Promise you and if you get custody of your babys back he will be kiss your azz.... Believe it..... **** whatever body else says baby gurl your not a whore for goin out and all that..... I mean dose it really matter what everybody else has to say???? Let that shit go in one ear and out the other... Thats what i do.... Keep your head up... Unfortunately, this woman may be right. To think women like this get custody too...... | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 1:54:57 PM | | The court gave him the kids for a reason. I'm sure there are 2 sides to this story. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 2:07:00 PM | | Why label yourself with the name TIPSY BAR CHICK. It gives the idea that you are an alcoholic that hangs in bars. According to law, you cannot lose your children in a custody battle, because you aren't working. The courts are always in favor of the mother, in the case of small children. Are your children older? You can only lose the children in the proven case of being an UNFIT MOTHER. If your children are living as teenagers with your husband, then be thankful, because teenagers get into trouble, and you don't need the aggravation right now. Let him handle the trouble with the kids.... and let his girlfriend file for a paternity suit. Your X cannot handle the emotional turmoil of his girlfriend and you causing grief and pain in his life. You say the girfriend is living in your home, carrying his twins? Do you own the home? Are you waiting to file suit, and liquidate the assets of real estate? These are the TRUE questions you should be concerned about, in order to secure your future. You should not be caring about your reputation. The person who called you a whore, is probably a lower class person, who really has not intelligence to judge. However, I am concerned about your values. You should be valuing the outcome of your divorce. You really should be sitting in a classroom, taking a night class, staying sober, and preparing for your future right now. Instead, you are trying to "find Mr. Goodbar" in a dark, seductive place that serves alcohol, where people lose their inhibitions, and display poor judgement. You are not making the right choices for yourself or your children for your future. It would look better to the courts if you were trying to better yourself, instead of living in the gutter. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 2:33:41 PM | OOOOh yeah!..I agree with the crab thing!!!....whihc is worse??..baing acused of baing a whore or actually having crabs!!!...Oh yes ,what a pisser..get it done girl..
On a serious note...NO u aint a whore,there can be many reasons why a mother HAS to leave her kids..my sister had to leave hers,was only spose be for a few wks while she got back on her feet after sufferin bad postnatel depression..Then the twat moved back in with is mummy & told her she had go court get her kids.....In reply to the guy whos pic makes him look like an 80s porn star.....so u see,its NOT always something bad why a mother leaves her kids!. & PEOPLE shouldnt assume it is!!...RIGHT!!!!....
Good luck in the future with ur babies...Just keep fighting...then at least ur kids will always know u have tried ur best..keep everything,solicitors letter/anything u have written down...then u can show it to them when they are older.
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Posted: 6/16/2008 3:14:05 PM | Well his new gf is a golddigger living in your house and he's a lazy ass man whore. Get yourself a good lawyer and see what your rights are. You are definitely not a whore! You are getting on with your life positively and making a fresh start. Time for you to start spreading some dirt around about them.  | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 3:22:11 PM | | no your not a whore sorry to say . heck whores are some of my best friends . that court deal is a mess . just remmber they can get blood out of a turnup , play that card and watch adjust . lawyers are out for there money and the system is rigged . just be cool and be ah duck , let the water run off . and give that new guy a kiss | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 4:20:30 PM | You need a lawyer and a lesson in english! You might not be a whore but the way you write doesn't say much for you.
If you want to be taken seriously - BE SERIOUS.
Just my 2 cents. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 5:52:10 PM | sweetie i'm sorry to hear of your situation
you woulsn't know how to be a whore if you tried........ hang in there, lady
yours in sisterhood,
Robin | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 5:52:11 PM | I am with Buccaneer, much more to this story. And to be honest, your profile name doesn't really help the image either. I am not going to nitpick about the actually definition but whore is not something I would want said about me either. Truth is honey, only you can really look at yourself and see if there is any truth to the name calling.
Regardless, as mother I would suggest you do alittle self examining and see where your behaviours MIGHT add to the fire. If you really feel your living right then blow off the names, rise above the garbage and just be the best mom you can be. | |
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