| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/16/2008 5:52:11 PM | I am with Buccaneer, much more to this story. And to be honest, your profile name doesn't really help the image either. I am not going to nitpick about the actually definition but whore is not something I would want said about me either. Truth is honey, only you can really look at yourself and see if there is any truth to the name calling.
Regardless, as mother I would suggest you do alittle self examining and see where your behaviours MIGHT add to the fire. If you really feel your living right then blow off the names, rise above the garbage and just be the best mom you can be. | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/16/2008 5:53:27 PM | | and don't listen to the **** about english lessons............... **** | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/16/2008 6:55:33 PM | You chicks run to the aid of any woman crying in her beer. You actually think you're helping and supporting her? **You're enabling WILL KILL HER. She doesn't need consoling, she needs a kick in the ass in front of a mirror. | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/16/2008 7:10:16 PM | | You are nto a whore. I don;t knwo how you a re a whore. I am not taking sides. Id on't know how you cna be friends after what soudns lieka bitter divorce. I feel like you are not tell ing the whole story. | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/16/2008 8:01:01 PM | Tipsybarchick is probably not the best choice in names if you are concerned about being called a whore.
Nonetheless, it doesn't matter what other people think of you. Do you think you are a whore? Your post sounds like you don't think so - so why let them bother you with their words? You split up 11 months ago, it's time to get some therapy and healing in place. | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/16/2008 9:31:51 PM | Sam, you are the one who needs a kick in the ass! Woman hater! | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/17/2008 4:19:30 AM |
Sam, you are the one who needs a kick in the ass! Woman hater! lol. ok... so you have to work on your ESP a bit. I still love ya. But not in the way you think missy.
Here... let's exercise your ESP marble. I mean really give it a good roll: If my choice is between a child's well being or a woman's, who do you think I'll push in the ditch?
I know you'd push the kid, but if you think my giving the woman a shove means I'm a woman hater, you HAVE NO MARBLES. If you had a child, wouldn't you want someone to save it from imminent danger? You know what? It doesn't matter what you want, I'd feed you to the lions way before I let it take even a swipe at the kid. Now if you don't love me for that, you need to seriously consider psychological help and don't have kids before you have it figured out. | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/17/2008 4:36:30 AM | Big yawn at sam-spade
Btw I am raising a child, my sisters while she undergoes cancer treatment in hospital and don't I need psychological help, you need an attitude adjustment and a big one (in your attitude towards women that is). I can't stand little boys who slam females. You indicate that OP needs a kick in the arse, when it's her ex who deserves that kick. The OP is getting on with her life postively and she's gainfully employed while her ex lives in her home with her kids, sitting on his lazy ass all day fathering more kids and you condone it. Your original posting was very brief and did not explain anything about you pushing the kids. All it did was slam a woman.
Careful sweetie don't trip over your inflated ego.  | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/17/2008 4:41:39 AM | Sam-spade, I noticed in your profile your divorced. Gee me wonders why It's clear you have issues involving women. I think a wee bit of counselling is in order for you. You might want to consider that before getting involved with females. | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/17/2008 4:43:03 AM | I just want to know who/why dredged up this thread after so long?
Geez, the OP hasn't posted since Jan2006 (weeks after she started this thread).
I get tired of the "search nazi's" - ooh, this topic is redundant! yeah, it was done back when cromagnon man walked the earth - but you need to dredge that up rather than start something new! Personally, if a topic sits there idle and doesn't get posted to in a year, I think it should be deleted (let someone start a new one).
edit: You may not agree w/ Sam, 1MBE, but... at least he's divorced? Seems, in looking at the OP's profile, she's only listed as separated. How does someone get "custody" of the kids when there is no official divorce decree? I gotta wonder about that one. | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/17/2008 3:32:41 PM | (while her ex lives in her home with her kids, sitting on his lazy ass all day )
If the man wasnt living in the house where the hell would the poor kids be then???..
Also how can he be sat on his lazy arse when hes raising kids???..I only have one & im run off my bloody feet most of the time!.
I do feel there is alot more to this.Judging by the screen name the woman.well i think we can make our own minds up there without putting it into words...Sounds to me like the father is doing a good job of looking after the kids,as the courts have awarded them to him...Courts dont tend to take kids away from their mothers unless there is serious problems.
I hope this woman sorts herself out & concentrates on being a good mum & trying to get her babies back...rather than slammin her ex..without him they would prob be in care by the way....& gets herself sorted out. | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/17/2008 3:36:24 PM | Sorry but i agree with sam spade.
Only i would have put it in a nicer way!!!.
basicaly...get ur arse in gear girl..get sorted..stop bangin on about the ex..who really cares what hes doin.(Really it is no business of urs if he is havin another 10kids as long as urs are ok & looked after.)..what he does seem to be doin tho is bringing ur kids up & doin a good job of it..Courts wouldnt of awarded them to him if he wasnt...
sort urself out asap... | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/17/2008 3:38:43 PM | | Of course you're not a whore. It seems that ur ex and who ever is calling you that just want to play the blame game...I think they should re-evaluate their thinking... | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/17/2008 3:40:02 PM | | Has anyone realized she posted this in 2005? Of course I guess it doesn't matter, she has been a member since 2005 and her profile says I am kind of new to this stuff. Is 3 years still being new? | |
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| is this bein a Whore? Posted: 6/17/2008 3:46:31 PM | were u drunk when u wrote this??? its barely readable!!
Why did your husband get custody - its got nothing to do with him working. It's the quality of the parenting.
You are not a whore for having a boyfriend and dating again. That nasty reputation must come from something else in your behaviour - possibly the way you have (mis)treated your kids and the amount of drinking you do?
You do seem to be implying that your husband's new gf is a whore because she is having his twins. I don't agree with you on that one either. It's not a marvelous thing for her to go and do but he is the one who moved her in there and he isn't going to stay alone forever. | |
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